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Topic: Pluto/Moon & Pluto/Mars with my Boss ??
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Sun1108
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posted August 25, 2013 09:38 PM
  
I have a Pluto/Moon (I am moon) and we have DW Pluto/Mars (sextile, square). I have Pluto/Moon conjunct natally.Should I be worried my boss is going to be obsessive/attracted to me due to these aspects? He also has a wide orb Pluto/Mercury aspect...and 1 or 2 other minor Pluto ones. If so--how I do I keep from them being activated? He is a Pisces and I am a Scorpio--and feel he is very intuitive and is always watching to see what emotional state I am in...perhaps I may be reading into it as well... IP: Logged |
alice42
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posted August 26, 2013 01:44 AM
have you looked at compatibility and not just synastry? do you have interesting and possibly sexual aspects in your sixth or tenth house natally or in the compatibility? how about his natal chart? is there mutual attraction and/or vibes you feel with your boss? from what it sounds like you have alot of strong plutonian scorpio aspects natally and boss/employee relationships are definately a power game alot of the time and that is right up scorpios alley so i bet your suspicions and feelings are a possibility------------------
"Who in the world am I? Ah,
that's the great puzzle.”
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Sun1108
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posted August 26, 2013 07:22 AM
Just synastry. I don't have birth time so I have no idea about the house overlays. You are right, it could be a power struggle issue--as I have a lot of Pluto in my chart. But I read somewhere that the Pluto aspects don't get "activated" until something occurs via the inner planets. If that is the case--what can I do to make sure that does not occur? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 26, 2013 11:24 AM
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Originally posted by Sun1108:
what can I do to make sure that does not occur?
Nothing!
You can't prevent someone from developing an attraction to you. But why does it matter if he gets attracted to you?
Things like that happen all the time - people fall for one another, either at work or some other places, haha. Just go with the flow! IP: Logged |
Sun1108
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posted August 26, 2013 04:10 PM
Hah! Well one being he has a family and in a committed relationship AND I'd rather not have an obsessive type interaction going on at work....I think it muddies rationale...(I have Saturn conjunct AC...  )IP: Logged |
Sun1108
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posted August 27, 2013 12:03 AM
If this can't be helped--what should I expect given these aspects? (Pluto to Moon, Mars and Mercury)...IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 27, 2013 09:58 AM
I see.
Well. Attraction is what you can expect.
Some people don't get obsessive though, even with Pluto aspects in synastry, if they're not wired that way then they're pretty safe.
Pluto/Mercury natally can point to obsessive thoughts but they really don't have to be romantic in nature. They can be about work, health, family, stuff to do, and so on. Really depends.Are you attracted to him?
Pluto can point to difficult scenarios between people especially love triangles.
And with your Moon/Pluto conjunction, you're definitely into drama and emotional tension. IP: Logged |
Sun1108
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posted August 27, 2013 10:44 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I see.
Well. Attraction is what you can expect.
Some people don't get obsessive though, even with Pluto aspects in synastry, if they're not wired that way then they're pretty safe.
Pluto/Mercury natally can point to obsessive thoughts but they really don't have to be romantic in nature. They can be about work, health, family, stuff to do, and so on. Really depends.Are you attracted to him?
Pluto can point to difficult scenarios between people especially love triangles.
And with your Moon/Pluto conjunction, you're definitely into drama and emotional tension.
Well, it looks like he has Mercury Opposite Pluto in his Natal. I think the Pluto/Moon connection allows me to be very honest about my opinions, and I feel emotionally safe to share them--but besides that, the idea of him wanting me does no sit well with me.
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hikoro
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posted August 27, 2013 10:56 AM
butting here but...
it seems that there is a 'reaching the river before crossing the bridge' scenario going on.
i mean, there is nothing that indicates that this man will feel attracted or is attracted to her...
and astrology is already dictating something that hasnt even come to pass?
i mean, sure...maybe he will feel attracted but maybe he won't....
it seems op is jumping into conclusions and is already creating a futuristic story...if anything, op is going to have a self-fulfilling prophecy scenario not because of astrology but because she is already anticipating....and, op, it seems to me as if maybe, deep down, you are attracted to him...
because, generally speaking, when people dont want something to happen or don't care for it, they ignore it....they dont get that curious as to 'whether it will happen' just saying....
to me, you do want to know...deep down. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 27, 2013 10:59 AM
^ My thoughts exactly.IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted August 27, 2013 11:54 AM
Or could be the person has noticed something and the reason the person is questioning it.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 27, 2013 08:19 PM
My boss has Pluto in Leo, it's conjunct my stellium if sun,moon,merc.
We have maybe a 25 yr age difference. There isn't anything sexual, or inapproate about us.
I think it gives us a bond, I feel he is like a father figure to me.
I'm completely loyal to him, business wise.. I stay in my current position cuz.. I can't leave him.. We argue like husband and wife..
I'm always telling him, you never listen to me!! Lol
He says stopp nagging me... Lol
Then it's back to business  IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted August 27, 2013 08:52 PM
How very cute! Seems like a great work relationship.. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 27, 2013 08:58 PM
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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
How very cute! Seems like a great work relationship..
Yes, thank you.. I'm lucky to have a great boss.
We see eye to eye.. 90% of the time, except when he won't listen to me... Lol He's a gem and I'm a Leo Just a side note, he's Uranus is conjunct my Venus.
Still no sexual type of relationship.. Sexual attraction aspects can play out differently,
In different types of relationships. IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted August 27, 2013 09:03 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Sexual attraction aspects can play out differently,
In different types of relationships.
I find this interesting. Because I have DW Venus/Mars with my boss--and I wonder sometimes if he is attracted to me. But I have heard this can also be a brother/sister soul type bond as well... Basic astrology does talk about Pluto and venus contacts associated with romantic inclinations--but I'm sure it has to be far more complex than that. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 27, 2013 09:23 PM
Yeah,, I hear you.. When you think about it you probably have "sexual attraction" aspects with alot if people...
Friends, family, neighbor and nothing like that is even thought off...
It just plays out differently... I think (theory) that all of our relationships are predestined in one form or another... The relationship will play out as meant to. IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted August 27, 2013 09:31 PM
That is true...but I do have to say...Plutp/Moon...that one I always seem to feel, so I do wonder if that one is one that will happen no matter what.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 27, 2013 09:40 PM
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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
That is true...but I do have to say...Plutp/Moon...that one I always seem to feel, so I do wonder if that one is one that will happen no matter what.
Nope, my boss Pluto is conjunct my moon by 1 orb
My daughters moon is conjunct my Pluto my 1 orb So, no nothing is a guarantee for a sexual relationship. Obviously I wouldn't be attracted to my daughter that way, I feel the same about my boss, I wouldn't be attracted to him that way.
He's never express any toe if attraction towards me.. IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted August 27, 2013 09:56 PM
Well there you go--astrology cannot always predict what will happen.But I find it hilarious how many of us are so into it--we've even done our bosses charts! :P IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 27, 2013 10:09 PM
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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
Well there you go--astrology cannot always predict what will happen.But I find it hilarious how many of us are so into it--we've even done our bosses charts! :P
Lol..
Well think about it, what if everyone had sexual relations with everyone that they had a sexual attraction aspect with..
Family, teachers, co workers..
We would never have time to actually work
Everyone old be f.... Everyone!! Lol Astrology is a tool, human nature and upbringing still come into play.. What if you had 10 sexual attraction aspects with the bum, that digs in the trash can every week... Human nature, that person still needs to be your "type" or some what close. I guess that's where the natal comes in.. IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted August 27, 2013 11:49 PM
Lioness--so how do you use astrology for yourself?It's very easy to read into aspects--but I am so surprised how many mysteries I uncover about a person's personality using astrology. For instance, I know someone who has a crazy temper--and I always wondered why...and when I read his chart, I uncovered that his Pluto squared Mars---and it was an AHA moment! I finally understood. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 28, 2013 12:36 AM
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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
Lioness--so how do you use astrology for yourself?It's very easy to read into aspects--but I am so surprised how many mysteries I uncover about a person's personality using astrology. For instance, I know someone who has a crazy temper--and I always wondered why...and when I read his chart, I uncovered that his Pluto squared Mars---and it was an AHA moment! I finally understood.
Well exactly,.
Astrology can help explains the whys...
Of course there are no set in stone rule...
But usually if you explain something's that can be pin pointed (like the anger issue example) in the natal.. Humans are so complex, that nothing will be set in stone.. Example lets say a serial killer, BTK killer.
How many babies where born on the same day as him, a lot it many to count..
Yet none of these other babies grew up and became a serial killer..
So what made the difference between him, and some one that was born 5 mins later from him??? I have no clue, free will, upbringing.. Something happen in his childhood..
He was dropped???
Idk...
The energy just plays out differently sometimes..
He wasn't the "norm" from the bunch..
Like an example from me..
I would never want to date someone with a 25 year age difference..
It's ok for other people, but it's not for me..
Maybe that's why nothing happens between me and my boss..
That's part of my personality. It doesn't meet my needs.
I've also never dated a guy with blonde hair... Lol
Idk why.. I just don't find it attractive..
(Yes I have blonde hair..lol)
Even with sexual attraction aspects, I still have to be visually attracted. ..
I have a specific type, macho, dark features,
Is what I'm attracted to.
Maybe that's my Venus/Pluto...Pluto in h7 Not sure..
But the energy between 2 people still play out..
Could be a special bond/friendship
Power struggles
Etc
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