posted August 27, 2013 01:36 AM            

You'll like have more fluid conversations with someone that has a mercury that trines and sextile your own merc.

I've been in relationships with merc square merc and I can say the miscommunication was not really a big deal for me, but my mercury has an easier time adjusting to another person's mentality.

posted August 27, 2013 04:34 AM            

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posted August 27, 2013 09:54 AM            

Oppositions aren't that bad.. There can be balance and complicity. Again, IME.

Venus square Venus - I really don't know about this one. It doesn't look thaaaat bad, cause Venus is a receptive planet.
The biggest problem here would be different ways of showing love, and I guess that can break a relationship unless the two people are willing to make compromises (and that's where Mercury comes into play).

posted August 27, 2013 10:03 AM            

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Originally posted by orocairion:
What are your experiences with Mercury square Mercury, Venus square Venus or Mars Square Mars in synastry(not all of them at the same time, of course)?.

For example, as we all know, in most type of relationships communication is everything, but what would happen with a Mercury square Mercury?. Could a couple overcome such a mismatched way of communicating?.

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From my experience with a former friend, we both had aspects consisting of mercury square mercury and venus square venus. She and I also had a square between our moons as well as moon square mercury. Oh and even a moon square venus which was the cherry on top of that cake. Bleah! We had so many ups and downs in our friendship causing us to cut ties during a period of time.

Her sun is in Libra with moon, venus, and mercury in Scorpio. My sun sign is in Capricorn with moon, mercury and venus in Aquarius

This friend had a tendency of being self-obsessed, annoyingly sarcastic, and not having the ability to listen and to be understanding. I found that to be extremely aggravating and that I finally cut ties again from her back in 2010 for good. Whew! Plus she and I seemed to be "polar opposites" in our ways of life. She was more conventional(She was part of the Greek system in college) while I was more of the artsy chick. That I believe also caused some riff between us. In case that you may be wondering why we became friends in the first place was us being huge baseball fans.

As the game goes, three strikes, you're out!

posted August 27, 2013 07:38 PM            

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Originally posted by slowpoke:
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Thanks. I'll try that when I get home

posted August 27, 2013 07:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve

Mercury square Mercury is really bad, IME.
But mine is extra-important in my chart and it's in a fixed (read:stubborn) sign.
Oppositions aren't that bad.. There can be balance and complicity. Again, IME.

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I have a friend which I share the Mercury square Mercury but oddly enough our conversations were quite flowing and natural and we get along just fine. We could spend hours talking to each other about anything.

I guess the severity of it would depend on the signs they are in as well, right?.

What could mitigate such an aspect?.

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I'm guessing her inability to be understanding was a a key factor?. Fixed signs?