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Topic: Natal & Synastry Aspects that indicate someone who doesn't take no for an answer
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themischievousone
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posted August 27, 2013 05:23 AM
  
To better word it, what aspects could be clues of someone who doesn't take rejections at all. And I don't mean take them badly- I mean like having a wood block between the brain and ears when hearing the word "no". What about a person who no matter how many times or different ways you say "No, I do not want to date you" is still persistent and comes up with 100 reasons and rebuttals on why it's a good idea. Or with this case, would this be seen more in synastry? I'm curious  IP: Logged |
chargeomentum
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posted August 27, 2013 05:36 AM
A stubborn person? Taurus! IP: Logged |
themischievousone
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posted August 27, 2013 05:44 AM
Yes. For the first question, I thought I would find more taurus or fixed influences. I was kinda shocked to not see them. IP: Logged |
its_aqua
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posted August 27, 2013 07:22 AM
I would say fixed signs too, but after reading your example with the dating situation I would probably say someone with Neptune in hard aspects to Sun/Moon/Venus, that could probably lead to the self-deception of the person. I have noticed that these people sometimes find it hard to accept the truth, even if it is super ultra clear.IP: Logged |
CatMote
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posted August 27, 2013 08:05 AM
this is a rash generalization but i see this quite a bit with arian and leo people, and the occasional scorpio. ------------------
Sun Aries Moon Pisces
Mars Pisces Venus Pisces
Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo
Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio
Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn
Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |
Garnet75
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posted August 27, 2013 08:15 AM
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Originally posted by chargeomentum:
A stubborn person? Taurus!
That's my dad's sign. He's the epitome of being stubborn and not taking "no" as an answer. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted August 27, 2013 08:17 AM
The last person I met who behaved this way (and also probably the most persistent I have ever encountered in my entire life) has Capricorn Mars conj his Saturn (and conj my Moon). His Sun is in Pisces.. but he is NOT at all like the usual Pisces.He drove me insane. I've never met a pushier person.
He would show up at my doorstep uninvited and ring the bell until I let him in, and joke around about stalking me. He lied and manipulated to get me to enter his car - and then drove off to a place I didn't want to go to (that I explicitly told him like 10 times I didn't want to go to). He just does not understand the word 'no' at all. IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted August 27, 2013 09:18 AM
I smiled when I saw this thread coz it reminds me of a person who was very dear to me. He was larger-than-life, pushy, persistent and kept coming at me with all he got.He threw me off balance at first coz I wasn't used to being "chased" but yeah I found out that I liked it No surprise, he was an aries (sun/moon/ascendant/venus/mercury) and Taurus mars. When I have kids I'm hoping for a little aries boy lol they're too cute. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 27, 2013 09:21 AM
Mars, for sure.
Aries / Scorpio especially and people who have a "strong" Mars natally (especially in a fixed sign).IP: Logged |
Xena
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posted August 27, 2013 09:24 AM
What about Saturn in hard aspect to Sun or Mars. IP: Logged |
Ann7
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posted August 27, 2013 10:10 AM
mars conjunct jup and/ or pluto. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 27, 2013 10:13 AM
Yes to all the above.Saturn in aspect to Mars gives perseverance. Jupiter in aspect to Mars gives a big sense of ego that may not take "no" for answer out of pride. Mars / Pluto is very intense in their attractions / feelings so if they really want someone, they'll give their all to win their "prey". I'm a woman but I've been really stubborn in the past when it came to love.
It only happened once but I literally didn't take no for an answer and basically chased, chased and chased.
Needless to say, that didn't work out  I have Mars in Scorpio conjunct Pluto square Saturn. IP: Logged |
Sven555
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posted August 27, 2013 10:33 AM
It must be a house orientated thing!I have 2 friends who are born 1 day apart from each other and they're both completely different people in some respects. My one friend who doesn't take no for an answer.
He has a 8 degree Mars in Virgo Opposite Saturn in Pisces.
Sun conjunct Moon in Cancer, Mercury conjunct Venus in Gemini. I'm not sure of his birth time, but I think it must be aspects to the ASC/DSC as such.
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starmoon
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posted August 27, 2013 11:00 AM
I have sun conjunct mars and pluto. I never give up, don't take no for an answer (in anything - romance, work, things I want, etc). I fight anyone who says no to me until (eventually) I have to stop, but it's never because I want to, but because other people need me to stop, if that makes sense - because I'm turning into a crazy person or someone who doesn't get it. I can hear 'no' but rarely listen or accept it. I think it might be mars conjunct a strong planet that would do this, not just a 'stubborn' sun; I don't have fixed placements.IP: Logged |
Garnet75
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posted August 27, 2013 11:26 AM
quote:
Originally posted by themischievousone:
To better word it, what aspects could be clues of someone who doesn't take rejections at all. And I don't mean take them badly- I mean like having a wood block between the brain and ears when hearing the word "no". What about a person who no matter how many times or different ways you say "No, I do not want to date you" is still persistent and comes up with 100 reasons and rebuttals on why it's a good idea. Or with this case, would this be seen more in synastry? I'm curious
I have to say maybe challenging aspects to saturn may enable an individual to react a certain way whether positive or negative. The reason why I'm speculating that is because saturn is a planet of restriction and inhibition.
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themischievousone
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posted August 27, 2013 05:44 PM
I really like these answers! Helped a lot. Thank you IP: Logged |
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