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posted August 27, 2013 10:04 AM            

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What would create strong attachment and love between two people in a romantic relationship. I mean the one relationship that somehow transformed you and made you into a different person, when you can't even remember the time when the other person wasn't a part of your life. Did you ever experience it? Which aspects did you have? Which aspects do you think would create this?

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posted August 27, 2013 10:08 AM            

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Venus conjunct sun double whammy, asc conjunct asc, NN conjunct saturn double whammy. Plus a few other placements thrown in for attraction and friction.

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posted August 27, 2013 10:10 AM            

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My boyfriend and I have venus trine pluto and venus sextile neptune along with a conjunction of our sun, moon, mercury and venus aspects. We taught each other to cope with our personal issues and find purpose in life.

In my opinion, aspects between those planets in a conjunction, trine, and sextile triggers a positive connection between two people enabling them to go through changes that they never thought that they could ever face.

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posted August 27, 2013 10:25 AM            

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Conjunctions between personal planets and flowing aspects between personal and outer planets, I think.

Especially prominent Venus, Moon, Neptune and Jupiter aspects (not too afflicted).
Nodal conjunctions as well.

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posted August 27, 2013 10:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Conjunctions between personal planets and flowing aspects between personal and outer planets, I think.

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I think that you're correct on that. With my experience, I do feel that positive energy flowing between my boyfriend and friends who I have those aspects with.

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posted August 27, 2013 10:54 AM            

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What about Pluto aspects?

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posted August 27, 2013 10:57 AM            

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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
What about Pluto aspects?

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Yes indeed, you know sun-pluto, moon-pluto, and even venus-pluto if aspected positively.

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posted August 27, 2013 11:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Garnet75:
if aspected positively.

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Emphasis on this.

Hard Pluto aspects usually turn into hate / dislike pretty quickly.
I wouldn't call them "love" aspects, more like.. infatuation, obsession, compulsion.

Flowing aspects and some conjunctions can be different, they usually give depth to the feelings a real connection between people on a personal level.

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posted August 27, 2013 11:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Emphasis on this.

Hard Pluto aspects usually turn into hate / dislike pretty quickly.
I wouldn't call them "love" aspects, more like.. infatuation, obsession, compulsion.

Flowing aspects and some conjunctions can be different, they usually give depth to the feelings a real connection between people on a personal level.

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Oh I see, thanks for the emphasis by the way. The reason why I claimed that the sun-pluto conjunction worked in relationships is because I have that aspect with me and a good friend of mine. We've been friends for quite awhile.

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posted August 27, 2013 03:34 PM            

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All planets and NN conjunct or trine P fit the bill. The conjunct also has the potential to send the transformation into a negative change too.

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posted August 27, 2013 04:55 PM            

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I think Nodes, ASC/DSC, MC/IC are very important in synastry. Moon or Venus conjunct North or South Node, ASC/DSC or MC/IC would bring a feeling of emotional closeness (Moon) or love (Venus) for the axis person towards the planet person (even if their moons aren't compatible).

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