Lindaland
  Astrology 2.0
  Can You Deal with Uncertainty in Love ?

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   Can You Deal with Uncertainty in Love ?
beckylee
Knowflake

Posts: 155
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012

posted August 28, 2013 03:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beckylee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I want to know what aspects or placements would make it easier to deal with long-distance relationships or situations where it takes too much effort to make the love survive.

Have you ever found yourself in love with someone who is unavailable at the time (they live abroad, or military, or they have problems, or they are married ) ? And what was your reaction ?

IP: Logged

belle
Knowflake

Posts: 39
From: london, UK
Registered: Jul 2011

posted August 28, 2013 04:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for belle     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi

IP: Logged

Kerosene
Knowflake

Posts: 4632
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012

posted August 28, 2013 04:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
repress it.
Moon trine saturn
Mars sextile saturn.

IP: Logged

belle
Knowflake

Posts: 39
From: london, UK
Registered: Jul 2011

posted August 28, 2013 04:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for belle     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haven't got a solution at this moment for you. i am going through something similar to your title and to be honest i am very confused. Though i have not been delving too much into astrological answers currently as am rather emotional and struggling to focus. Sorry to be of no help at the moment> me sag, him libra (sun) cancer/ virgo (moon) love and peace xxx

IP: Logged

belle
Knowflake

Posts: 39
From: london, UK
Registered: Jul 2011

posted August 28, 2013 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for belle     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi

IP: Logged

AscTaurus
Knowflake

Posts: 677
From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa
Registered: May 2009

posted August 29, 2013 02:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If it requires too much effort, am out! I have Moon in Cancer/ Mars in Libra.

Do you have Moon/ Venus or Mars in 12th house house/aspected by Neptune/in Pisces?

I find that there are people that I know who have either of the positions mentioned and they find themselves either married or involved to a partner that is emotionally unavalaible when they need them.

My boyfriend has Moon in 12th house and I live some 50 km away from him. He often complains that I am not "accessible".

My Mom often says that my Dad was , when they were young in their early years of marriage, emotionally unavailable to her. She has her Moon opposing Neptune.

My friend(an Aqua) had a live in mate who was more interested in his friends coming over and visiting than spending alone time with him. He has Moon in Pisces.

I don't know, but am seeing a pattern; especially with Moon therein.

IP: Logged

hannaramaa
Knowflake

Posts: 5332
From:
Registered: Nov 2011

posted August 29, 2013 02:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ I have Mars in the 12th house, Neptune in the 7th and Moon trine Neptune.

The above fits me perfectly (if they are emotionally available, I am unavailable. I often need the unavailable ones)

Yay.

IP: Logged

next to neptune
Knowflake

Posts: 49
From:
Registered: Aug 2013

posted August 29, 2013 08:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by beckylee:
I want to know what aspects or placements would make it easier to deal with long-distance relationships or situations where it takes too much effort to make the love survive.

Have you ever found yourself in love with someone who is unavailable at the time (they live abroad, or military, or they have problems, or they are married ) ? And what was your reaction ?


Yes, I just met a libra guy like 1 month ago, and we clicked instantly, we have moon conjunction moon in pisces. But we really do have a lot of challenging aspects, both sun and mercury square neptune and venus square uranus, all of them pretty tight.
Now he is gone for travelling, and he is going to be away for 3-4 months. I knew this from the beginning so I was prepared, and I have venus sextile uranus, saturn and neptune and moon square uranus so I'm pretty free-spirited in love, at least in the beginning before it really means the big deal.
But if I know myself right, I think I will get tired of this in the end, I have a big wish of stability in my relationships after some time, I would like it to be safe and not so unpredictable in that way where you don't know what your partner want. And that he is travelling this time isn't the problem because it's only once every year, but the sun square neptune is really nagging me. I think I get paranoid that it isn't for real. I'm not gonna run away imidiately before he comes home and I can see if this is for real or not. But I would never enter a real long-term relationship, because it's simply to unstable.
Even though we have a nice connection, I think he is just one of those guys it is exiting to know for a while, before I move on once again!

IP: Logged

12muddy
Knowflake

Posts: 570
From:
Registered: Feb 2013

posted August 29, 2013 08:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn contacts in synastry are said to be binding.

I guess that people who have aspects between Uranus / moon or venus would be ok with uncertainty. Uncertainty kinda excites me. I have moon square Uranus and venus conj Uranus.

Also have a 12th house stellium and I "met" my husband online. We were living in different countries. I didn't feel that the relationship was difficult. With those 12th house planets I tend to wear rose-coloured glasses and get carried away with romantic ideals, so I was pretty much too "blinded" to notice the obvious difficulties.

IP: Logged

Abc333
Newflake

Posts: 12
From:
Registered: Aug 2013

posted August 29, 2013 09:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Abc333     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have natal venus opposite uranus. Uncertainty is okay at first but the more time passes and the more attached I become I need security and need to know where things stand. Venus in Cancer in the 12th house. If it reaches that time frame where I become attached and want to know where things stand and you can't give me an answer then I'm OUT before I can feel any more pain. I also have Venus opposite Saturn as well.

Before, I used to act like an erratic mess when things became uncertain and seemed unsecure. My progressed moon's in Scorpio now so I just amputate, always remember and move on the best I can.

IP: Logged

Libcap
Knowflake

Posts: 60
From: NYC
Registered: Aug 2013

posted August 29, 2013 10:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libcap     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uncertainty like that's a bad thing?! That's the best part. I'm a libra sun, mercury, and mars. It might be a libra mars thing.

I'm a 7th house in Scorpio so is Pluto.

IP: Logged

Aquacheeka
Knowflake

Posts: 2743
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012

posted August 29, 2013 10:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nope. I can't.

I want commitment right from the get-go. I know, I'm weird like that.

And I need a certain amount of constancy in my life, so LDRs wouldn't work for me.

IP: Logged

Abc333
Newflake

Posts: 12
From:
Registered: Aug 2013

posted August 29, 2013 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Abc333     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uncertainty isn't a bad thing at first, but it can't last forever. Eventually, something's gotta give or go.

IP: Logged

StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake

Posts: 3709
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012

posted August 29, 2013 11:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Probably something with Uranus, whether it be Moon/Venus/Mars?

IP: Logged

Barbiegirl19
Knowflake

Posts: 358
From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013

posted August 30, 2013 12:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I always find myself wanting a guy more if he's married or in a relationship. It must be a libra thing lol I really don't like to admit to that because I feel like a home wrecker or something ridiculous like that but it's the truth. I'm always attracted or attract married men or men in relationships. Don't know what it is, I would hate if someone did that to me. :/

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright 2000-2013

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a