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Topic: Synastry with our mothers
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Panthera Leo Knowflake Posts: 674 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 09:15 PM
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Violets Knowflake Posts: 4176 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 29, 2013 10:41 PM
Erghh. I love my mom. But she's...uh. A person can only take so much of her.Her Nessus conj her DC, which in turn squares my Mercury/DC conj, as well as my AC. Her AC also squares my AC/DC. She's a Scorpio AC, so the results weren't always nice. Her Pholus/Moon conj is conj with my Mars, so I tend to explode when we're around each other. I have to put forth a concerted effort to steer the conversation away from negative gossip about other people when we're together. There are some positives, her AC loosely trines my sun and sextile my moon by about 6 degrees, her sun trine my Jupiter. She also has Lilith in 4th, about 6 degrees away from my sun. My Nessus conjuncts her Venus and Uranus, and sits about 5 degrees from her Vertex. Her Pluto sits on my AC, and her Eris conjuncts my Venus. So...yeah. A bit volatile, but we love each other anyway. I do, however, ensure that I live about two hours away from her at least.  IP: Logged |
Panthera Leo Knowflake Posts: 674 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 10:47 PM
Wow It must be like clash of the Titans VioletsIP: Logged |
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posted August 29, 2013 10:48 PM
We get along well, we have the exact same taste and interests. Pretty sure we have past life connections.http://imgur.com/8tvCWIv IP: Logged |
Panthera Leo Knowflake Posts: 674 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 10:52 PM
Whats It Like Having Her Pluto Squaring your Planets In the 1st house Kerosone ?IP: Logged |
Panthera Leo Knowflake Posts: 674 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 10:55 PM
Sometimes my mother is stubborn and overpowering at times.I think its her Taurus and Ascendant.Plus Her Jupiter and Pluto in Leo conjunct my Mercury don't help.IP: Logged |
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posted August 29, 2013 10:56 PM
Lmfao I'm scared of her...She has complete control of me, I'd probably do anything she wants. Luckily for me she isn't the smothering type. IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 4176 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 29, 2013 10:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Panthera Leo: Wow It must be like clash of the Titans Violets
Ha ha. Yeah, a little bit. I think we've gotten to the point now in life where we just try to appreciate each other's company (we honestly do enjoy each other's company a lot of the time, and we do make each other laugh), we know that we're going to grate on each other's nerves, but try to be somewhat civilized about it. I think we've made pretty good progress, overall. The hardest point now for us is that her Moon/Pholus conjunction still really triggers an explosion from my Mars. I may not be irritated with her specifically, but her energy just tends to really add an element of irritation, frustration, and anger when I'm around her. It kind of sucks, really. Because otherwise I would like to spend more time with her.
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Violets Knowflake Posts: 4176 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 29, 2013 11:01 PM
Kerosene, my lazy Neptune butt has to actually *click* to see the chart, ahaha. One moment, please. *stretch*  IP: Logged |
Panthera Leo Knowflake Posts: 674 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 11:05 PM
Do you remember any of your previous lives where you knew your mother ?IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 4176 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 29, 2013 11:06 PM
Wow, what fortunate placements! That must be nice. My dad and I have a nice synastry chart, as well as my oldest brother and I. Both are Libras with Pisces moons, and my dad and I have Leo AC conj. I love both of my parents, but being around my dad and brothers is much more calming. IP: Logged |
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posted August 29, 2013 11:08 PM
Nope, but apparently my has seen me in some of her lives. She often has psychic dreams.Moon conjunct neptune and Kali IP: Logged |
Panthera Leo Knowflake Posts: 674 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 11:11 PM
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Panthera Leo Knowflake Posts: 674 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 11:12 PM
Thats really cool KeroseneIP: Logged |
LiesLilithsaidtouranus Knowflake Posts: 935 From: La,la land Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 29, 2013 11:20 PM
I wish my mom was less catty and talkative. I wish she was polite about my feelings and respected my wishes. I really dislike my mom, but I can't help but love her. Mom, please stop annoying me  IP: Logged |
Panthera Leo Knowflake Posts: 674 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 11:23 PM
I wish I knew my fathers actual birth time so I could check out his accurate chart.I know he has a Scorpio Sun,Jupiter and Neptune. His Moon is either In the last degrees of Pisces and or early Aries Mercury and Venus are in Sagittarius Mars is in Taurus Uranus in Leo Pluto in Virgo IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 4122 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 29, 2013 11:23 PM
I love my mum. We clash at times, but we're bound! In palmistry, we have the same two star pattern in the same place on the same hand. The palm reader said it meant we had a special bond.In astrology, her Pluto at 28 Leo square my Pluto at 27 Scorpio. What do you think that says?  IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 4176 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 29, 2013 11:25 PM
LiesLilith^^ Totally get that. I think it gets better with time.  IP: Logged |
Panthera Leo Knowflake Posts: 674 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 11:28 PM
Lies do you think her Saturn pours cold water over your Sun.IP: Logged |
Panthera Leo Knowflake Posts: 674 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 11:30 PM
I think it would mean its time to take cover Something Excellent.I would imagine it would be like a battle of wits and wills and the rule book has just been thrown out the window.IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 4176 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 29, 2013 11:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Panthera Leo: Me and my mother have the opposite problem my father usually manages to bring out the worst in us.I haven't heard from him since before Christmas year.
I'm sorry to hear that. At least you have a god relationship with your mom.  IP: Logged |
Panthera Leo Knowflake Posts: 674 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 11:33 PM
Thanks Violets  IP: Logged |
LiesLilithsaidtouranus Knowflake Posts: 935 From: La,la land Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 29, 2013 11:35 PM
It isn't getting better with time, trust me. I feel like she tries to restrict me at time, saying I won't change or whatever. It's annoying. I scream back at her when she fights with me. I hate it when people say Saturn conjunct another persons sun is beneficial. It is not. It is like Saturn is a black hole and the sun, well it's a sun.IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 4176 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 29, 2013 11:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by LiesLilithsaidtouranus: It isn't getting better with time, trust me. I feel like she tries to restrict me at time, saying I won't change or whatever. It's annoying. I scream back at her when she fights with me. I hate it when people say Saturn conjunct another persons sun is beneficial. It is not. It is like Saturn is a black hole and the sun, well it's a sun.
Oh, man. Yikes. Sorry to hear that.  IP: Logged |
Panthera Leo Knowflake Posts: 674 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 11:46 PM
Lies It might be a good Idea to take yourself away somewhere from her so you can both cool off.Sometimes I think tempers just flair and unfortunately even family members go for each other.IP: Logged |