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Diplopoda
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posted September 01, 2013 01:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diplopoda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Both are ruled by mercury.

One if my fave celebs a Virgo just split with her husband, a Gemini. Seems to be an eventual split. I noticed he went solo in his blog few years beforehand. He likes to get his hands on everything , mostly travelling and hosting while she is going to focus more on health areas. How fitting of their zodiacs eh?

I noticed both of them are fundamentally incompatible. He probably doesn't like her fussy ways and focus on food health (she has many tubes on healthy eating) and she is also much more square and "boring" than he is.


Their daughter is a libra. Son, I'm not sure. But I feel dad for my fave virgo celeb. Virgos tend to get the short end of the stick romance wise.

Any inputs or insights welcomed

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posted September 01, 2013 01:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My grandma and her long-time partner were Virgo/Gemini. My grandpa was an Aquarius.

If I recall correctly, my grandma had a bit of Gemini in her chart, and probably Libra. I should look it up.

I suppose it depends on the rest of the placements... Personally, I dig Virgos.

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posted September 01, 2013 02:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diplopoda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How bout long term, violets? They spent like 10 yrs together before discovered they weren't compatible

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posted September 01, 2013 09:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Diplopoda:
How bout long term, violets? They spent like 10 yrs together before discovered they weren't compatible

That happens to a lot of couples, some with compatible suns. They stay together years, suddenly they are incompatible and split. I don't get it.

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posted September 01, 2013 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My grandma was with my grandpa for at least about 30 years, and then she was with her Gemini partner 27 years, until she passed.

I don't know, they seemed pretty happy together for the most part, with normal annoyances. But I know that they really loved each other, so they never separated or anything.

But they were from a completely different generation, too. But I still think that they probably would have separated if they weren't really compatible.

Normally though, I wouldn't see Virgo/Gemini relationships as a stereotypically compatible combination, lol.

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posted September 01, 2013 12:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
That happens to a lot of couples, some with compatible suns. They stay together years, suddenly they are incompatible and split. I don't get it.

Yeah, I could never understand that one either. Barring really toxic relationships, of course.

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posted September 01, 2013 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NoRainNoRainbows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

LOL i don't think people 'discover' that they are incompatible.

It just happens that with time sometimes people change so much, and the person they are when they got married, isn't the person they are a few years later, and so they notice things aren't working out anymore with the arrangement they had entered.

IF anything i think it is good they are Virgo and Gemini, two signs that put 'thinking about matters ahead of their own feelings, so it was probably a friendly arrangement, where they want the other one to 'grow' and they themselves to, without getting in each others ways. They could still be friends after a split up.

Most of the times Virgo's and Gemini's make really good friends, as both can't stop talking when one finds the other....and they actually enjoy it, not complain about the other being a 'blabber mouth'...at least sun signs.

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posted September 01, 2013 01:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Violets:
Yeah, I could never understand that one either. Barring really toxic relationships, of course.

If the relationship is too toxic, wouldn't they know sooner?
It's so weird when I hear about couples who are married for thirty years then decide to get a divorce.

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posted September 01, 2013 02:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress299     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Virgo, and I've dated both Geminis and Sagittariuses (as well as having friends of both persuasions). Looking at just the sun sign really tells you very little, and in fact, I would argue that I get along better with some Geminis/Sagittarians better than I get along with many Cancers and Tauruses I've known. This is mostly due to the fact that at least Geminis/Sagittarians are mutable signs LIKE Virgo/Pisces is. So though they square Virgo, I often understand their approach to things.

HOWEVER, I do think that it is funny, because on the surface you wouldn't always know that we get along with each other as well as we do. With Geminis, I find that I've had to work on genuine deep communication with them (which is hard for them, because they tend to want to be surface about everything) and with Sadge, it is usually about getting them to communicate anything other than positivity (they don't feel comfortable with communicating other emotions when they are having problems, but the Virgo in me doesn't like dishonesty or denial). I assume that they dislike my tendency to get stuck in details (Gemini) and my tendency to have anxiety over future events (Sadge). But, even though communication is almost always an issue with them since we communicate differently due to the squares, inwardly these people have been some of the closest people to me and we each care deeply about the others' well being. Though their approach is usually very different than mine, I have come to respect and honor the differences and LEARN FROM THEM (which I think is the important part).

So with regards to this couple that you are speaking about, I think that a lot of long term relationships get caught in a gradual downhill slide, and if communication majorly breaks down, it can mean an eventual break up. The thing about squaring signs is that they can and do understand each other, but often the differences in communication and value systems sometimes require lots of effort and attention to maintain the relationship. It also requires that each person in the couple be humble and strive for compassion and understanding. This can be a difficult thing to maintain for some people, especially when the stresses of life get in the way.

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posted September 01, 2013 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diplopoda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cool, people I appreciate your responses. But I learnt that gemini man-virgo woman is a poor match. It really is a poor match. They're celebrities. Plus the female is my fave. I know how it went.

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posted September 01, 2013 03:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
If the relationship is too toxic, wouldn't they know sooner?
It's so weird when I hear about couples who are married for thirty years then decide to get a divorce.

Seriously, I agree. I also find it totally baffling. Of course I can understand it if it's one of those heart-wrenching situations where someone has been denying their sexual preference for decades and finally comes out, but other than that...yeah, I don't get it.

I can only hazard a guess that Pluto or Saturn (or both) comes around, makes a hard aspect, and one person decides it's just not working or something.


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posted September 01, 2013 04:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm a lot of other factors.
Moon sign compatibility is important.
Also the rest of the synastry too.

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posted September 23, 2013 11:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mercurian Intellect     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think they're very compatible intellectually and emotionally, (since they both are detached)
but very incompatible personality wise.

I have both, a Virgo Sun and Gemini Moon
Not that anyone cares, lmao.

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posted September 23, 2013 02:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SmilingHeart     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Love Geminis!
Their approach to life is both incredibly different and really close to ours.
There was never a time in my life where I hadn't an important Gemini around. When one leaves another comes along. I feel like they understand me on a level that no other sign can. They are fun and intellectual, outgoing, humorous, incredible!
I have never dated one though. I think friendship is the way to go for Geminis/Virgos.
Even though there have been some famous Gem/Virgo couples like Goethe and his wife or Victoria and Prince Albert. I guess if the rest of the chart is compatible it's not that hard for these two to get over their differences.

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posted September 23, 2013 02:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diplopoda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think at one point both will bore each other from their divergent interests.

Gemini and Aquarius are most suited to each other with their focus on mercurial activities.

virgos have a practical and useful interest in mercurial activities.. they don't go all jackal and hyde on anyone.

I think the duality of Gemini is pretty similar to pisces. but Gemini may be most suited to fixed signs.

Virgoans are most suited I believe, to Pisceans. They suffer the most with Scorpios and Geminis . Personal opine. They won't ever be happy with a Taurus.

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posted September 23, 2013 03:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think gemini female and virgo male is a greater match than virgo female - gemini male! I know 2 couples like this, and they have both been together for years, and their communication is very great. It's like they are more friends than lovers, but I think the gemini girls find the virgo boy hot and "mysterious" while the virgo males find the gemini girl lively and fun...and gemini girls are just very often pretty!

But ofc, the rest of the chart also matters both ways

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posted September 23, 2013 03:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diplopoda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I think gemini female and virgo male is a greater match than virgo female - gemini male! I know 2 couples like this, and they have both been together for years, and their communication is very great. It's like they are more friends than lovers, but I think the gemini girls find the virgo boy hot and "mysterious" while the virgo males find the gemini girl lively and fun...and gemini girls are just very often pretty!

But ofc, the rest of the chart also matters both ways



My sentiments EXACTLY!
Gemini girls have much more tolerance for Virgo men than Gemini men have for virgo women!

Personally, virgo men are the most boring men on earth (think eeyore) but virgo women aren't! They're sweet and caring, but once they become taken as servants they already got the short stick. Alot of zodiacs would willingly dump on the virgo women, actually. I think that's the reason why virgo women are incompatible with most zodiacs.

I hate to see a virgo's marriage go kaput but if they choose one of those susceptible zodiacs, I am pretty sure it would.

For instance, virgo women

- aries men are the hugest no no. the virgo will never get the intentions of the aries, which is to make them their slave!

- taurus needs a maidservant, and usually finds virgo suitable for that!

-gemini may like virgo at first, due to their sparkling wit, but virgo's focus on health and hearth will sharply contrast the gemini's desire to take the world by storm. this is a sad couple where the virgo will remain at home alone, not unlike an old maid!

- Libra men may suit virgo women, but there isn't much affinity nor mutual respect. Libra hates virgos naggy and critical ways and wishes and hopes they would have more inspiration and joy not just for the sake of perfection which is boring to libra!

- Scorpio again will slave the virgo. Extremely bad combi! Ever wonder why virgo are always said to be better single.. they dont know how to do anything except serve..

virgo and pisces however is a love story.. these two are a perfect match.. pisces will never take advantage of virgo beyond limits but will be the libra to the virgo romance wise. they're just perfect. I have seen many of these succeed.. virgo woman and pisces man. cant say for the other way round.


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posted September 23, 2013 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Diplopoda:

virgo and pisces however is a love story.. these two are a perfect match.. pisces will never take advantage of virgo beyond limits but will be the libra to the virgo romance wise. they're just perfect. I have seen many of these succeed.. virgo woman and pisces man. cant say for the other way round.

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Yes yes! I'm a virgo girl! I haven't been so lucky to actually meet a pisces man yet, but I'm currently dating a libra guy with pisces moon and he is very, very sweet!
I have been with a scorpio before though, and didn't feel like a slave at all, actually I felt very much like the boss


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posted September 23, 2013 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diplopoda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Yes yes! I'm a virgo girl! I haven't been so lucky to actually meet a pisces man yet, but I'm currently dating a libra guy with pisces moon and he is very, very sweet!
I have been with a scorpio before though, and didn't feel like a slave at all, actually I felt very much like the boss


Boss, no lol, Scorpio is always the boss never virgo lol .. maybe it will change if you marry him.

Libra with pisces moon.. yeah very sweet but I think these men are very irritable people. I knew someone with this combi, sweet, sensitive but highly irritable..

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posted September 23, 2013 04:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Boss, no lol, Scorpio is always the boss never virgo lol .. maybe it will change if you marry him.

Libra with pisces moon.. yeah very sweet but I think these men are very irritable people. I knew someone with this combi, sweet, sensitive but highly irritable..


Well I do have a scorpio venus myself, so maybe that is why?

Haha, how are they irritating? Please explain He also has a libra venus and gemini mars, leo jupiter

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posted September 23, 2013 04:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diplopoda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Well I do have a scorpio venus myself, so maybe that is why?

Haha, how are they irritating? Please explain He also has a libra venus and gemini mars, leo jupiter


theyre irritable, not irritating

meaning they get highly irritated and annoyed easily .. . . .

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posted September 23, 2013 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Diplopoda:
theyre irritable, not irritating

meaning they get highly irritated and annoyed easily .. . . .


I see:P Well I don't know him that well yet, so I havn't seen this side to him... I'm also planning that this is just gonna be a lover/friendship, not an actual relationship...

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