posted September 02, 2013 01:06 AM            

But lately we keep having these circular arguments - I've never encountered so much criticism before, and part of me fears it may only get worse...

In our synastry, we have an exact Mercury square Mars. (My Mercury squares his Mars -- not fun!!!!! I've had this before where I was the Mars, and I ended up thinking the other person was the dumbest man alive. In the end I just had no respect for his opinion.)

Talk about karma - after an awful Mars square Merc synastry exact, it repeats itself where I am now the Mercury. Such a blow because usually I'm able to say all the right things!

At first I wasn't worried about it because my Mercury is conjunct his Saturn (Saturn square Mars is the most exact aspect in his chart) and I read that Saturn just inhibits whatever it touches in synastry ...binding tie, but the Saturn person doesn't feel it.

But since it is square Mars, the touchiest planet, he must really feel it every time I open my mouth...

Do you think there is any hope? I'd be crestfallen to walk away thinking we were just never meant to work out. But I think it will take tremendous work... and with Saturn square Mars at play, it may not be worth it.

posted September 02, 2013 01:10 AM            

Saturn, right now, is transiting Scorpio so the Scorpio person is feeling its effects

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?