posted September 03, 2013 08:57 AM            

When I say this guy is awesome...he really is! Now it's been a while since I dealt with Libras because my exhusband is one and still to this day he's seeking ways to destroy my life. Luckily as Karma will have it...the same energy you put out there it will come back 3 times worst. I don't think he's gotten the message nor realized that I've been let go, forgave, and have moved on so he's the only one miserable at this point...ha!

posted September 03, 2013 01:16 PM            

In other words, when he is taking one side, take the opposing view. Always play the devil's advocate:That will make him think that you are a sensible , reasonable person who doesn't let subjective emotions cloud your impartial judgement on a situation.

Nothing is sexier than that to the Librans I know. Trust me.

Also, be patient with him when he is weighing decisions and trying to decide what to do. His mind is usualy already made up but he is weary of going to one extreme when a "better" option is just one thought away.

Offer advice but don't push him in a certain direction. Give him the impression that you listen and are attentive to him being "at odds" with situations and offer advice. He'll always confide in you and you'll be vey influential in the decisions he makes. He needs to know that he has a partner-not a parent. Know the difference and respect that.

Romantically, be prepared to make decisions on where to eat and what to do for leisure. Also, nake sure you have a reasonably thick skin for some of the sarcasm or criticism that he'll dispense-should your decisions not always yield positive results.

The Libran I know like sweet words and lots of charm. So, always be gentle and accomodating. Be very well mannered, even when angry- diffuse the argument with an affectionate gesture(a kiss or a smile), that instantly wins them over to you.

Libra responds very well to appearances and so, it is not necessary for you to be drop dead gorgeous , but if you attract all sorts of interesting people to you effortlessly, you can have the Libran eating out of the palm of your hand.