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Topic: The chart of the most complicated, difficult and unbalanced person I ever met..Help?
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SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 02:12 PM
  
Last year, I met a girl in Uni who couldn't find a place to rent so I let her live with me and my friends for while until she was accepted into the dorms..and boy...was she crazy !I never met someone quite like her ! She has zero social skills on top of being rude, so defensive,,manipulative and and so DAMN ungrateful. I was the nicest person to her in the house, my other two roommates ( both Leos) couldn't even bother to talk her. I landed her my own clothes which something I never did before, I introduced to people, I cooked for her and helped her with her exams. I even let her vent to me whenever she wanted to. I know money was tight so I always stood by her whenever she needed it but guess what ? She went behind my back and started badmouthing me to people saying I'm not really that smart but passes exams because the profs like my face/body. WTF ???? When I met a guy and started to date, my other two roommates were so excited and happy for me. I went to tell her the news and she just shrugged and told me " It won't work.Don't get too excited." then she want to her room and locked herself in it the ENTIRE day.
It hurt because when she started to date, I was so happy for her that I took her out for a treat and a movie to celebrate. And guess what else ? Turned out she never needed money, she had a brother in the U.K who sent her 1000£ every month but still kept sponging me off . I never believed people like this existed until I met her. The thing I just want to understand why she did all this when I was so good to her ??? I should've known, I seem to be somehow cursed whenever it comes to Cancers. This is the second time it happened to me. Here's her chart...  IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 02:16 PM
The dreaded moon in leo strikes again
Not mention how badly aspect her moon is.IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
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From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 02:19 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
The dreaded moon in leo strikes again
Not mention how badly aspect her moon is.
She had such an explosive temper and her words cut like swords...never considerate. I personally believe that Cancers and Sags should never mix. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 4874
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 02:23 PM
Why not kick her out?
tell her to start contributing to the finances.IP: Logged |
chargeomentum
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 03, 2013 02:27 PM
Ahhhhhhh Cancers. Can't find more annoying sister than mine. She annoyed me for I don't know what purpose, wasted money like they were nothing (I don't know if that's wrong not me to judge, but the fact is that it was mother's money and we were already deep in trouble).
I don't know if she has leo moon but probably she does. Well guess what. Everything has to circle around her. No. I'm not gonna explain this. Way too annoying to even remember lol.Anti-social? Ignore her. She probably wants to get attention that way. Don't give her money simple as that. Warn her that you and your room mates are gonna kick her butt out if she doesn't obey what you tell her. After all what rights does she have? IP: Logged |
its_aqua
Knowflake Posts: 756
From: Mars
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 02:29 PM
Stop being so naive and nice to people you dont know girl!!! Im not judging you, Im giving you advice cause you sound like a really nice person!
Its not her chart, she was jealous of you!!!
Jealous of the fact youre good at exams and that you started dating some guy she probably liked. You should kick her out and never talk to her again.
Ive seen people with Venus in Cancer being overly jealous of others, just forget about her and kick her out!IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 02:29 PM
My moon in Leo friends have done similar, bad mouth people behind their backs, but they have fixed suns. Seems to stem from insecurity. They want to keep you all to themselves.
This is why she flipped when you began dating the new guy. IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
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From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 02:38 PM
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Originally posted by its_aqua:
Stop being so naive and nice to people you dont know girl!!! Im not judging you, Im giving you advice cause you sound like a really nice person!
Its not her chart, she was jealous of you!!!
Jealous of the fact youre good at exams and that you started dating some guy she probably liked. You should kick her out and never talk to her again.
Ive seen people with Venus in Cancer being overly jealous of others, just forget about her and kick her out!
I just assume the good in people before the bad but I never thought she would turn out like this. I honestly couldn't kick her out like that but my Leo roommates did. Things have been much better since she left. I don't feel stressed anymore. One thing I wanted to mention, me and Leo freinds are very fun-loving, easy-going people and we always have so much fun together whenever we get back home after studying but she never did. She had this cloud of negative energy looming over her 24/7 !
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redshoes
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posted September 03, 2013 02:47 PM
Sun-Uranus opposition...wooooh erratic behaviour, explosive!IP: Logged |
its_aqua
Knowflake Posts: 756
From: Mars
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 02:48 PM
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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
I just assume the good in people before the bad but I never thought she would turn out like this.I honestly couldn't kick her out like that but my Leo roommates did. Things have been much better since she left. I don't feel stressed anymore. One thing I wanted to mention, me and Leo freinds are very fun-loving, easy-going people and we always have so much fun together whenever we get back home after studying but she never did. She had this cloud of negative energy looming over her 24/7 !
Im sure about that hun, its just that you need to be a bit cautious with people, they turn to be really mean sometimes! Glad everythings settled now  IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 4874
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 02:56 PM
Idk why moon in scorpio gets so much slack they usually keep to themselves while moon in leo are like little terrorists..
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SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 03:21 PM
quote:
Originally posted by redshoes:
Sun-Uranus opposition...wooooh erratic behaviour, explosive!
YOU HAVE NO IDEA!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 03:22 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Idk why moon in scorpio gets so much slack they usually keep to themselves while moon in leo are like little terrorists..
I have a Pisces friend with Moon in Scorpio and he's nothing like her at ALL ! IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 03, 2013 03:43 PM
The cancer women i have met with leo influences are usually ******* . And very gossipy. And of course. Gold diggers.------------------
Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp)
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
Libra mars 3rd
Gemini mercury 11th IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 03:53 PM
I wanted to mention something else. She seems to have some opposite-sex complex. She assumes that all men are *dirty* and want her only for her body.
He hates on men all the time.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 03:59 PM
Yup she has mars square saturn and opp pluto she might of had bad experiences with men in the past..
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Violets
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted September 03, 2013 04:02 PM
Um...spectrum personality disorder, perhaps?Yuck. Sorry you had such a horrible experience! IP: Logged |
PiscesCancerTaurus
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 03, 2013 04:14 PM
In defense to Cancers. Not all are crazy like her. I am a Cancer and although we do require a little more attention than others. I would never bad mouth someone who was being so nice to me. I also would be completely embarrassed if I ever needed financial help from someone. I feel that I can take care of myself and if someone ever did help me out the way you did with her, I would definitely show my appreciation. Socially, Cancers can be quiet because that is their nature. Personally I am quiet because I like to listen to what others say before giving my opinion. So this girl has some serious issue and I agree with the above that you should have just kicked her out. Don't lose faith in all Cancers just yet. IP: Logged |
CatKeeper
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Kennesaw, GA, USA
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 03, 2013 04:54 PM
...I will say that not all Cancers are bad. I've known some who are the warmest people you'll ever meet. Others have issues, just like everyone else in the zodiac. Cancer sensitivity can make one shut down like, well, a clam when people are negative or ugly to them. Wonder what planetary points you might have in Cancer such that people with planets (like the sun) near them could spell disaster... IP: Logged |
IrisRainbow
Knowflake Posts: 225
From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 03, 2013 05:02 PM
I'm a cancer sun,my moon is badly aspected along with my sun and I have my own problems BUT I'd never do stuff like that :x I would kick her arse,hard,though.IP: Logged |
redshoes
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posted September 03, 2013 05:14 PM
quote:
Originally posted by SilverFeather:
I wanted to mention something else. She seems to have some opposite-sex complex. She assumes that all men are *dirty* and want her only for her body.
He hates on men all the time.
Silver  Moon-Saturn aspect ~ daddy issues!! IP: Logged |
redshoes
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posted September 03, 2013 05:16 PM
Oh no that is mother issues...does she have a square Sun-Saturn? that is father issues...jeezIP: Logged |
IrisRainbow
Knowflake Posts: 225
From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 03, 2013 05:18 PM
I have moon square pluto & sun square saturn.I'm screwed  IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 05:39 PM
It's really weird, the most horrible relationships I had in my life all happen to be with Cancers, every single time 
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Chaos
Knowflake Posts: 389
From: Serbia
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted September 05, 2013 06:25 PM
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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
It's really weird, the most horrible relationships I had in my life all happen to be with Cancers, every single time
Same. I was reading the topic without even looking at that chart and I just knew she either was cancer or had 7th house stuff going on (especially if there's Sun or Moon there) + I see a 1st house Saturn here, though that combination is already dreadful enough. The person I had difficulties with is Cancer/Sag, with 1st house Saturn, Sun, Venus and Chiron 7th house, Moon in 6th but close to descendant...It's been more than a year since we last spoke and I still have an unbelievable desire to beat the sh*t out of that b*tch!!
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