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Topic: Why are guys only sexually attracted to me?
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NeptunianSag
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From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 08, 2013 10:05 AM
  
Do you think it's the mars in a natal chart that indicate the men that you attract? I have: Mars opposite neptune, neptune square the ascendant. Mars trine pluto. Mars square ascendant. All my relationships have only been about them being obsessed with me, sexually + mentally, and me being annoyed because they only like me for my sexual aura i give off (probably the pluto/mars) it's like they cannot see me clearly and i want to be respected for the person i am, i cannot stand to be controlled. I guess with neptune, they project their fantasies onto me? I always attract lustful guys even when i don't want it. I've even had old men pervs touch me a few times without my consent. It's like men do not have boundaries with me which is worrying. Sometimes i get the feeling that some men are even scared of me. I also attract men who are quite agressive and jealous of me. Obviously this isn't every guy that i meet, but it feels like i intimidate them to some degree.
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted September 08, 2013 10:06 AM
Very interesting question. We would need to see the chart.
I don't know if this will get moved to personal readings but one of my clients had that situation and she had a prominent sexy Asteroid conj the ASC and she vibed sex.It may have been Eros or Lilith but it was super interesting that she asked the same thing ------------------
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IrisRainbow
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From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 08, 2013 10:18 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Very interesting question. We would need to see the chart.
I don't know if this will get moved to personal readings but one of my clients had that situation and she had a prominent sexy Asteroid conj the ASC and she vibed sex.It may have been Eros or Lilith but it was super interesting that she asked the same thing
how can we calculate those asteroids?  IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
Newflake Posts: 21
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 08, 2013 10:37 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Very interesting question. We would need to see the chart.
I don't know if this will get moved to personal readings but one of my clients had that situation and she had a prominent sexy Asteroid conj the ASC and she vibed sex.It may have been Eros or Lilith but it was super interesting that she asked the same thing
I have pisces lilith, so loss of boundaries and fantasy is quite strong. Also my lilith is strong (6 degrees). Pisces in 5th + 6th house with no planets in them. Jupiter in the 12th - Jupiter conjunct Asc. I also have Mars opposite Uranus, and Uranus square ascendant. Aquarius venus, so people seem VERY attracted to me like lightning. I also forgot to add i attract guys who are already in relationships and i tell them no. I sometimes feel like a siren leading men to their own self destruction of lust. (I'm not even physically attractive, just average) IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 08, 2013 12:49 PM
Iris, you can find your asteroids on Astro.com. You plug the numbers in. I will put up my article on asteroid numbers for you.------------------
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted September 08, 2013 12:51 PM
The Asteroids I Use
By amiann 1221 Amor
1388 Aphrodite (Greek)
2101 Adonis (Greek/Babylonian)
151 Abundantia (Roman)
390 Alma
88 aesculapia 1488 Aura 1488 Aura
1862 Apollo (Greek) 11911 Angel Astrowizard 24626
1487 Boda
19029 Briede
2063 Bacchus (Roman)
7328 Casanova
1 Ceres (Roman)
19521 Chaos (Greek)
4580 Child
34 Circe (Greek)
8990 Compassion
763 Cupido (Roman)
2589 Daniel
157 Dejanira (Greek)
6583 Destinn
78 Diana
3671 Dionysus (Greek
55555 DNA
12410 Donald Duck
3552 Don Quixote
433 Eros (Greek)
60 Echo
19 Fortuna (Roman)
5129 Groom
100 Hekate (Greek)
42 Isis (Egyptian)
7507 Israel
7899 Joya
11518 Jung
3 Juno (Roman) 4227 Kaali (Vedic)
1387 Kama (Vedic)
3811 Karma
23739 Kevin
4969 Lawrence
1181 Lilith
9007 Logos
2210 Lois
1930 Lucifer
4386 Lust 19730 Machiavelli
8991 Magnanimity
228029 Maniac
3698 Manning
2779 Mary
212 Medea (Greek)
149 Medusa
37117 Narcissus
128 Nemesis (Greek)
7066 Nessus
875 Nymphe (Greek)
1923 Osiris (Egyptian)
2 Pallas
2878 Panacea
55 Pandora
4450 Pan
2791 Paradise
399 Persephone (Greek)
12927 Pinocchio
144752 Plunge
4341 Poseidon
6157 Prey
26 Proserprina (Roman)
16 Psyche 5239 Reiki
50000 Quaoar
18376 Quirk
15907 Robert
80 Sappho
90377 Sedna
80 Sappho (Greek)
8992 Solidarity
2815 Soma (Vedic)
37452 Spirit
5264 Telephus
33154 Talent
4257 Ubasti (Egyptian)
1585 Union
1282 Utopia
447 Valentine
4 Vesta (Roman)
7707 Yes
1862 Apollo (Greek) 11911 Angel ------------------
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NeptunianSag
Newflake Posts: 21
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 08, 2013 12:59 PM
Oh yes, i forgot to add my pluto, mars and neptune is trine midheaven. I guess that explains strong reactions from not just men, but everyone of every age. IP: Logged |
IrisRainbow
Knowflake Posts: 250
From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 08, 2013 01:13 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Iris, you can find your asteroids on Astro.com. You plug the numbers in. I will put up my article on asteroid numbers for you.
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 08, 2013 01:21 PM
Aww You are welcome, Iris! xx------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted September 08, 2013 01:22 PM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Oh yes, i forgot to add my pluto and neptune is trine midheaven. I guess that explains strong reactions from not just men, but everyone of every age.
How close is this? I would not say this would do it. Even Pluto conj the MC is more of a power position and not a sexual one, per se. Do you have Eros or Lilith conj the ASC or MC? If not, maybe Medusa or some other sexual/power etc asteroid. I can't think of any at the moment but I don't know them all, either. ------------------
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IrisRainbow
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From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 08, 2013 01:24 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Iris, you can find your asteroids on Astro.com. You plug the numbers in. I will put up my article on asteroid numbers for you.
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tgem
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Registered: Jan 2013
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posted September 08, 2013 08:46 PM
I have Eros conjunct my Taurus sun at 2 degrees and people say I radiate sex appeal. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 08, 2013 08:53 PM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Do you think it's the mars in a natal chart that indicate the men that you attract? I have: Mars opposite neptune, neptune square the ascendant. Mars trine pluto. Mars square ascendant. All my relationships have only been about them being obsessed with me, sexually + mentally, and me being annoyed because they only like me for my sexual aura i give off (probably the pluto/mars) it's like they cannot see me clearly and i want to be respected for the person i am, i cannot stand to be controlled. I guess with neptune, they project their fantasies onto me? I always attract lustful guys even when i don't want it. I've even had old men pervs touch me a few times without my consent. It's like men do not have boundaries with me which is worrying. Sometimes i get the feeling that some men are even scared of me. I also attract men who are quite agressive and jealous of me. Obviously this isn't every guy that i meet, but it feels like i intimidate them to some degree.
I'm an Aries, with Sag DSC. I also have a Mars / Pluto aspect and sort of have the same experience with men. Men don't try to control me (yet) but they also do not try to get to know me past physicalities, or I tend to attract men who are only interested in sex. I stopped wearing make-up or looking what others deem as "high maintenance" because this seemed to provoke it. I can think of 2 men who did not get hostile after I rejected them and, ironically, they were both mutable signs (didn't realize that 'til just now.) Do you know what sign or element you attract most at all? IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted September 09, 2013 04:56 AM
because you give of a sexy and intense aura that only the most confident men will approach and usually confident men are really masculine but they use it at a lower level so they are only into sex sex sex. Also in their minds your the mistress and not the housewife. Most women with Mars-Pluto experience this. Hell, I have Mars inconjunct Pluto LOLIP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 09, 2013 08:51 AM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
because you give of a sexy and intense aura that only the most confident men will approach and usually confident men are really masculine but they use it at a lower level so they are only into sex sex sex. Also in their minds your the mistress and not the housewife. Most women with Mars-Pluto experience this. Hell, I have Mars inconjunct Pluto LOL
 Karka, you are so cute. ------------------
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PlutoFish
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From: Earth
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 09, 2013 09:54 AM
Post the chart! You sound like a sexy mofo. Joke, haha, if you don't want guys to touch you just give us a kick in the balls, will work well, it's only instinctive i doubt any harm is ment. ^-^------------------
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ShyVirgo1979
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posted September 09, 2013 10:00 AM
This is a good question. Makes me stop and think bc I've had the same problem the last few yrs. Never fails. Ami, thank you for the list. I don't have time to check them all out to see what touches my asc but I have venus and lust conjunct each other by 1 degree. In virgo in the 6th house and I get hit on at work a lot. You don't wanna know the digusting things that I've been asked or told lol I even met my ex husband through work. And lilith conjunct sun in virgo too by 2 degrees, same house. Does it need to be the asc tho? I would imagine that's a factor. And is the house significant at all?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted September 09, 2013 10:03 AM
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Originally posted by PlutoFish:
Post the chart! You sound like a sexy mofo. Joke, haha, if you don't want guys to touch you just give us a kick in the balls, will work well, it's only instinctive i doubt any harm is ment. ^-^
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Ami Anne
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posted September 09, 2013 10:05 AM
You know, it is interesting. I have Venus conj Eros but it is more subtle than Eros conj the ASC or MC.
It seems that the people with the ASC or MC vibe the asteroids at a much higher level and the people who have them in more internal planets have a subtle radiation of them.
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slowpoke
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posted September 09, 2013 11:12 AM
MR & P are good after the relationship starts.Look for, in your natal chart: VE n the 1st
VE n the 5th or S conj. VE M tri. MR VE conj. MR
VE tri. MR VE conj. JP
VE tri. JP VE conj. P
VE tri. P These are the planet influences that are commonly associated with sex appeal. This is where people come out of the blue to acknowledge your beauty. This is true for girls and guys. There is a common problem where, as in your case, the advances can become annoying just because they are so frequent. The nice thing about these natal aspects is that the owner of them can just about pick and choose anyone they would like to have as a companion or more. slowpoke IP: Logged |
Zander916
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From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 09, 2013 01:27 PM
You're probably hot. lol I think a chart would help a lot.
What's your asc sign? Where is Mars?
I have limited knowledge but the Mars/Neptune tie to each other and to Asc seem to stand out. I get the feeling it's the multiple aspects causing men to fantasize most likely.
The others know more than I do but in my head that makes sense to me. Bringing sexual imagination to the surface and pluto brings intensity.
Do you have an innocent look to you? Or your persona?
Ami,
Just a bit ago I was looking at all sorts of things in my chart.
Somewhat on topic, I found that I have Nessus and Vesta both conjunct MC. lol
I've only researched for about 10 minutes but that can't be good. IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 1025
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 09, 2013 02:02 PM
So,
you attract men like you pulled their coin out of the fountain of love. All men of every age, at that, you say...A horde of men, it seems in fact..Even married men can't resist you, even as you lead them to their final cord of destruction.Like, for real? LOL It's your Neptune. You are imagining all that IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted September 09, 2013 02:06 PM
Just a bit ago I was looking at all sorts of things in my chart.
Somewhat on topic, I found that I have Nessus and Vesta both conjunct MC. lol
I've only researched for about 10 minutes but that can't be good. Wow Tony I am on my way out but tell me the orbs and I will check back when I get in.
Don't kill anyone in the meantime ------------------
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Zander916
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From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 09, 2013 02:14 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Just a bit ago I was looking at all sorts of things in my chart.
Somewhat on topic, I found that I have Nessus and Vesta both conjunct MC. lol
I've only researched for about 10 minutes but that can't be good. Wow Tony I am on my way out but tell me the orbs and I will check back when I get in.
Don't kill anyone in the meantime
I know! I have all kinds of whacky things.
Waldemath, Pripus, Pluto ALL 9 degrees - 4 degrees from Asc. Juno 2 degrees Libra in the 12th, 3 away from Asc. Pholus opposite Venus EXACT. Dejanira is 1st house but totally unaspected from what I can tell. Anyway,
MC is 5 degrees 52' Cancer
Nessus 5 degrees 51' Cancer so... exact!
Vesta is 4 degrees 37' Cancer.
On topic, yeah there's something about Neptune and Mars for sure.
You know actually, I have Venus square Neptune and knowing how that affects me, I could see Mars square Neptune doing this.
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KarkaQueen
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From: Uranus
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posted September 09, 2013 03:48 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Karka, you are so cute.
^^ You too Ami IP: Logged |
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