posted September 09, 2013 08:58 PM            

I'm sorry if this has been posted about before, but I couldn't find any threads with what I needed.

In synastry, what are your experiences with aspects that could ruin relationships? It seems like there's so many relationships that have so much potential (lots of venus/mars/moon, saturn/venus/mars, the works), but they just don't work out because of outside, uncontrollable influences, like jealous people or "other" women, or even enemies.

And even after the relationship's been severed, there's still attraction between the two.

I'm thinking this has to do with Lilith and Venus, or Uranus and Venus/Mars.

posted September 09, 2013 09:27 PM            

The aspect that stands out the most base on your question is MR sqr. SA.

Look for the "Black Aspects" in the colorvision Synastry Aspecting Chart.

There may be an easier way to read and understand complicated Synastry pie chart aspects. Pie chart aspects can also be produced onto a basic Synastry Aspect Chart, a color coded chart. Review the sample chart at your leisure. It may help you gain even more insight than you currently have.
http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting