posted September 16, 2013 07:06 AM            

For example my sister (I love her so much and would kill for her) but she has such a volatile temper. One minute she's happy and the next she's angry and yelling. She's so frustrated that she works a lousy job but in 3 years she didn't even send one job application or even tried to find another job. She always nags how she has responsability towards the family and that she doesn't have friends or a private life because of us and makes me feel useless.I am having trouble understanding her and it makes me angry that she is so emotionally immature.
This is the thing that makes me angry the most, the people that don't understand that WE MAKE CHOICES and the world is not against us. People who blame other people for their own lives.IMMATURITY of any kind. **** happens, DEAL WITH IT AND MOVE ON.

After writing this I think that Saturn/Moon conjunction in my chart is actually a good thing. With Jupiter in there it gives me a better understanding of my emotions and maturity.

posted September 16, 2013 07:37 AM            

I have saturn in the 1st house, conjunct ascendant/venus, square moon/MC, trine mars, oppose chiron.

For me I think it helps me to focus on what's important and overcome difficulties in life.

All those aspects make me extra-sensitive and I have a tendency to blow things out of proportion. I'm quite defensive when it comes to my own feelings. Not proud about that.

As a result, I often feel kinda tense/uneasy when I'm around people who (to me) are/or appear to be mean/rough, cold or cynical. People who are not self-aware, who don't have a clue about how their behaviour and personality affect others - I find it difficult to talk to them too.

posted September 16, 2013 08:37 AM            

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Originally posted by chargeomentum:
Saturn conjuct Sun,
Saturn in Aries, 8th house.

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posted September 16, 2013 10:01 AM            

And minor aspects---Moon square saturn and mars square saturn.

It really makes me more serious, and also kinda dry. I'm very prone to worrying too much about stuff, and can have periods in my life where I'm completely depressed and can't figure out what makes sense at all in anything I do.
I can also be really critical of myself, but at the same time I also see this as being realistic about what I can actually become of my life. Sometimes I can have a bit too high ambitions for myself, but seems to be unable to do something with it at all, maybe a bit like your sister.

I also have a pisces moon in 10th house, and it's really uncomfortable. I really do wan't to become something big in my life, have great success and be someone important, but at the same time I have a great fear being in the spotlight at all.
There is so many contradictions everywhere.
I can feel totally unable to move forward in my life, and I also feel really unlucky when I finally do try to do something.
Saturn makes me realize how hard I have to work for anything, to get anywhere.
If I really work hard and is very stubborn at the same time, it IS possible for me to get what I want and succeed like everybody else, but it feels like I always have to work twice as hard, where everyone else just get their so easily, which can make me really annoyed and pessimistic.

But in the end I just have to realize what saturn does to me, and that there is no other way than to just work hard. The positive side of saturn is probably that it gives me a really clear realistic sense about myself, but in a way it can also be a restriction because I know how "unimportant" I really am, and that I probably wont ever be the person I want anyways.
It feels like I speak about how there is nothing that I can do and that I can just as well give up totally, but that is not the point with saturn or my life in general.
I can also see how kind of comic it is, that I always work so hard and never really seem to get anywhere, it's really tragic, but at the same time comically.
And maybe I won't get where I want but my favorite quote in this sense always helps me "When shooting for the stars you might hit the moon" so if I just keep going, I might go further than many else, though I wont be totally satisfied, I might be able to optain pretty much in my life compared to others in the end!

posted September 16, 2013 11:12 AM            

Saturn aspects all my planets,NN, and chiron.

posted September 16, 2013 11:13 AM            

I'm responsible and ambitious, I don't think I've really struggled.
I think grinding or tread milling are better words.

posted September 16, 2013 11:48 AM            

I am definitely a perfectionist, but I also really want to do things my own way. I usually don't like being told what to do, and I take criticism so personally, no matter how much objectivity and compassion is behind it, it still feels like the person has something against me.

With saturn in the 6th in Aquarius, I am really drawn towards alternative healing methods and I am quite goal-oriented about having a job that allows me to feel free and not obligated to anyone/anything. I am 22 and I teach yoga, moving towards the direction of herbal/earth medicine and energy healing. I also love to build cob houses all saturn/aqua things IMO.

Never had a respectful relationship with my parents. Always been a rebel, doing what I wanted despite their strict limitations on my self expression... But perhaps that's my 1H stellium (I am! I am! I am!)

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Cancer sun
Leo rising
Libra moon

posted September 18, 2013 10:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Xena:
Do you have and soft or hard Saturn aspects in your natal chart and how they affect you? What signs and houses.

What about your Saturn? Do you feel it?

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I'm actually in the process of learning more about Saturn. I understand that it's a part of who I am! But I don't relate to Saturn as strongly as I do with the Moon, Venus or Pluto placements that I have in my chart.

I have:
Saturn in Sag (2nd House)
Saturn square Jupiter
Saturn sextile ASC

Mars & Neptune both in Capricorn - Saturn rules this sign, obviously.

posted September 19, 2013 01:03 AM            

It makes me take my relationships seriously. Older people seem to be drawn to me and I enjoy their company and conversations.

Unless I'm worked up about something, I speak slowly and give thought to what I'm saying. I don't like small talk or shallowness. I prefer to have few friends, am larger a loner, but once you become my friend, as long as you put in the effort, I'll remain your friend for life.

posted September 19, 2013 01:23 AM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
IMO, this is how Saturn plays out in a chart

when it comes to transformation ... Saturn is always overlooked and people will jump right away and say Pluto ...Pluto.Pluto.Pluto! Jesus, this Pluto thing is so overrated. Being a mix of Aries and Gemini, I think I would be so overbearing without my Saturn influences.

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I think the emphasis on pluto happens because when it does bring change it's intense, powerful and deep.

Saturn brings change to but it's more of a gradual kind of thing.

Saturn leads to getting rid of things that don't work for you anymore and creates restructuring while pluto kind of just leaves a mess that you need to find a way to rise out of (like a Pheonix from it's ashes).

posted September 19, 2013 09:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Abc333:
I think the emphasis on pluto happens because when it does bring change it's intense, powerful and deep.

Saturn brings change to but it's more of a gradual kind of thing.

Saturn leads to getting rid of things that don't work for you anymore and creates restructuring while pluto kind of just leaves a mess that you need to find a way to rise out of (like a Pheonix from it's ashes).

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