posted September 17, 2013 01:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Hey don't knock it till you try it air signs are pretty skilled

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Haha I love it!

I have Venus in Libra and I can agree I would sometimes rather cuddle and snuggle being lazy with someone rather than sexual. But the right settings, oh it's on

I think gross humor was mentioned too? I'm thinking humor isn't related to Venus? Almost everything makes me laugh...

posted September 17, 2013 01:56 AM            

The first one that I lived with had Sun in Virgo/Moon in Aries/Venus Libra/Mars in Sagittarius. Though he was sexual, I always felt that he just liked having a pretty face around.

The second that I dated had his Sun in Virgo/Moon in Gemini/Venus in Libra/Mars in Sagittarius. On the surface, he didn’t seem all that sexual (even judging sex as “dirty” and “nasty”). But once I coaxed the inner freak, it was quite amazing what kind of passion can be unleashed.

In his case, l thought that he was searching for the absolute perfect lover (Venus Libra) who also has a fine, upstanding moral fiber (Mars in Sagittarius). I told him that he needs to get back to planet earth and learn to love us “mere mortals”. And that statement alone compromised the longevity of our relationship. Lol.

The last one also shares the exact same placements as the one mentioned above-except maybe because he was born on the Moon cusp and maybe his moon could be in Cancer and not Gemini.

Anyway, the guy is quite the “player” or he gives off that vibe. I once blatantly asked him what his intentions were (since he knew I was not available for him to pick up) he responded by saying;
“It’s not that I want to have sex with you. Hey, if it happens, that’s great. But what I really want to do is just get close to you. Get under your skin.”

I know, it sounds like a scene out of a movie but be that as it may, I struggled to not fall down after that woo: I’m a sucker for someone who can express themselves well.

I wouldn’t necessarily say that Venus in Libra can make the person not interested in sex. But I do think that it does make someone idealize love so much (the perfect, platonic but lightly affectionate love) that the animalistic nature of carnal desires seems an outright contradiction (instead of an addition) to such a perfect state of being.

So many often dissociate with the act altogether or play it down. This is the similar with Venus in Scorpio (some struggle with the question of exclusive loyalty to religion vs. the call of passionate, physical sexual desires)

Ceridwen
My best friend has a conjunction of Venus-Mars-Mercury-Pluto in Libra in 5th house (opposite Moon and square ASC).

She said (of herself) that she is not that sexual, and actually is quite averse to the concept of "falling in love".
She loves her husband dearly though, but she only accepted his romantic advances after many years of friendship and him standing very loyally at her side during really tough times.

You would think she was passionate and all that, but while she is deep, loyal, sacrificial, committed, she is not what most people would see as passionate (I see it a bit differently, there is a lot of passionate commitment to family and friends in her, but not that much of public displays of affection).

I think your friend hasn’t quite mastered the balance between passionate desires of the flesh and erotic stimulation of the mind. Both are spiritual in essence really.

Mars /Pluto in the same sign as Venus and the person is not all that sexual??? I don’t think so.

Even Saturn aspecting this concoction wouldn’t bar Pluto/Mars energy from completely expressing itself.

Perhaps she is weary of being consumed by her own strongly passionate nature and is keeping a cool head? Or maybe all this passion goes into the 5th house of creativity, leisure and sports?

But still, there would be enough energy to “spill” over into the relationship with her husband.

posted September 17, 2013 03:53 AM            

But I do agree that I don’t feel that same passion towards just anyone. Society has even coined up a term for it; Demisexual Lol! I need to have a deeper connection with someone in order for me to let that passionate fire out (sexually speaking offcourse) and I just don’t feel that fire roaring with just any random girl. As such, I guess to a stranger’s eyes, one would see a Venus in Libra placement as passionless.

posted September 17, 2013 07:08 AM            

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Originally posted by beckylee:
I have venus in libra, mars in virgo. Sex is very important to me.

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posted September 17, 2013 09:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
I have Mars in Scorpio in the 3rd in Pluto Decan and Aquarius Duad as well, I couldn't care less for sex. I simply don't need it.
I also never experienced sex.
My 8th House Cusp is Pisces and Saturn is there.

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posted September 17, 2013 09:11 AM            

Are you a male or female, Friend?

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posted September 17, 2013 09:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Chiemi

Are you a male or female, Friend?

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Female

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posted September 17, 2013 06:00 PM            

The second that I dated had his Sun in Virgo/Moon in Gemini/Venus in Libra/Mars in Sagittarius. On the surface, he didn’t seem all that sexual (even judging sex as “dirty” and “nasty”). But once I coaxed the inner freak, it was quite amazing what kind of passion can be unleashed.

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posted September 17, 2013 06:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
Hmm I wonder if your saturn in 8th changes things a bit then?

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posted September 18, 2013 10:52 AM            

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posted September 18, 2013 10:53 AM            

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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
I have venus in libra n im very sexual. N worst thing is I come across as a sexual person too.. maybe cuz I have my mars in aries?

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Welcome, Friend

Yes, Mars in Aries may do it. What aspects does your Venus make?

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