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Topic: Lost my cancer man
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ProudLeo
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From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 19, 2013 08:13 AM
  
I am a sun leo, moon sag, scorpio rising with my Venus in cancer. I met a cancer man (I don't know his chart...I didn't get time!). I approached him as I felt the attraction and he kept scurrying around and I got the impression he wouldn't make the first move. It was instant attraction like I have never experienced before...almost uncontrollable...and we opened up emotionally within the first few times of seeing each other. There was an amazing connection and we both developed feelings very quick. We talked and saw each other every day for about 7 days straight. I've never met such an easy person to talk to, funny, caring, sensual...amazing! He described us as shooting stars...something special that only comes around once in a while. We couldn't deny that there was a special bond and we ended up spending the night on the beach and the sex was astronomical....I can't even put it into words. He even said...I really don't think sex is supposed to be that good. And the next morning he just as elated as I. About 3 that afternoon he calls me...freaking out about birth control...but we had already had the discussion that I had an IUD...he said he just needed to double check. We made plans for dinner that evening and at first he was the same...happy to see me, big smile, the best hugs and kisses...then right as we were going to part for the evening he tells me that it had been a stressful day for him because he was an emotional wreck...he has been through some serious hurts (so have I!) and is working toward life goals (so am I)...we had talked about all this before and amazed at how similar our stories are but all of a sudden he says he can't risk me falling in love with him because neither of us are in the position for a relationship....he says he is sorry, thanks me for everything, asks if I'm ok...I'm so stunned I dont know what to say I'm just trying not to cry. He is obviously sad and he just walks off, head down and turns to look back, waves and puts his head down and keeps walking. What the hell happened? He wouldnt reply to my texts when i was trying to ask him if he would please talk...he replied he was sorry but didnt want to put either of us through something unnecessary. I replied I didn't want to end things this way...doesn't feel like its settled...I just want to talk and end things the right way. But he hasnt replied back. We made plans...we had such a great connection...what the hell happened?! What do I do?IP: Logged |
charlie
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From: los angeles, ca, USA
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posted September 19, 2013 09:17 AM
Typical Cancer move :-/ Some opinions, all jaded of course but based on MY run ins with crabs.. : 1: he realized he doesn't like you that way
2: he has a gf
3: all of the above If you do like him hang tight. Do NOT (!!!!!) contact him! If he likes you a little bit he will somehow be back in your life..it can be days, weeks or months however.. Sadly, I have never met a Cancer that didn't play games  IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
Knowflake Posts: 75
From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 19, 2013 11:56 AM
Well I know he doesn't have a girlfriend...and if he doesn't feel that way about me then he is a darn good actor and really should have a Grammy. And he shared very personal things with me...I thought cancers usually don't do that. I mean he took me around his friends and told them right in front of me "I really like her". He' has told me of his past hurts...two long term relationships that ended up devastating him. He is a musician and he severely hurt his hand and couldn't do anything for a year...he lost everything and now he is trying to get back where he was...he knows he is not in the position to be in a relationship. He always talks about "providing...he can't provide etc". But I just wanted to stay in his life and get to know him better...see what happens. Do you think it's possible that he has feelings for me but he is scared of them because he doesn't want to get hurt again and he is self conscious because if where he is at in his life? IP: Logged |
poochycat
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posted September 19, 2013 12:10 PM
HI, PROUD LEOI HAVE BEEN INVOLVED WITH A CANCER MAN FOR ABOUT SIX YEARS. CANCERS HAVE THAT CRAB TRAIT WHERE THEY DO THIS LITTLE DANCE OF GOING BACK AND FORTH. YOU SAID HE HAD A COUPLE OF BAD RELATIONSHIPS? CANCERS ARE VERY EMOTIONAL SOULS AND IT TAKES A WHILE FOR THEM TO GET OVER BEING HURT. BUT...DON'T CONTACT HIM,HE NEEDS TO SORT OUT HIS FEELINGS FOR YOU. IF THEY ARE STRONG HE WILL COME BACK. CANCERS USUALLY DO.
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LoVeLy
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posted September 19, 2013 12:15 PM
I'm sure he has VERY strong feelings for you and you said that he spoke about not being able to provide that is what has got him worried
Give him sometime don't push him to get in touch or meet up
Why don't you just send him one last text saying you don't have to provide for me... I just want to be in your life  Oh and btw your story is so romantic ------------------
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ProudLeo
Knowflake Posts: 75
From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 19, 2013 03:35 PM
Well...this also happened right after we had dinner and he was low in money...struggling musician...and I paid...to me it isn't a big deal...then we went to the nursery and I bought some flowers. I think he is self conscious about his income and work life...and I'm a grad student that comes from money but it doesn't mean anything to me really. I had a suspicion that it made him uncomfortable but it was never brought up. Ok...so he had previously invited me to a gig tomorrow night and I promised I would bring his pack of cigerrettes he left in my purse...but I haven't talked to him since Sunday. Should I not go or show up anyway? Thought I would just keep it casual if I did...just say I promised I would come and you never retracted your invitation so here I am and I just wanted to say goodbye with a hug and a smile and maybe a subltle hand placed on his chest. And it's a full moon tomorrow night. But idk if I should go or not. IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
Knowflake Posts: 75
From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 19, 2013 07:12 PM
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Originally posted by LoVeLy:
I'm sure he has VERY strong feelings for you and you said that he spoke about not being able to provide that is what has got him worried
Give him sometime don't push him to get in touch or meet up
Why don't you just send him one last text saying you don't have to provide for me... I just want to be in your life Oh and btw your story is so romantic
posted September 19, 2013 03:35 PM
Well...this also happened right after we had dinner and he was low in money...struggling musician...and I paid...to me it isn't a big deal...then we went to the nursery and I bought some flowers. I think he is self conscious about his income and work life...and I'm a grad student that comes from money but it doesn't mean anything to me really. I had a suspicion that it made him uncomfortable but it was never brought up. Ok...so he had previously invited me to a gig tomorrow night and I promised I would bring his pack of cigerrettes he left in my purse...but I haven't talked to him since Sunday. Should I not go or show up anyway? Thought I would just keep it casual if I did...just say I promised I would come and you never retracted your invitation so here I am and I just wanted to say goodbye with a hug and a smile and maybe a subltle hand placed on his chest. And it's a full moon tomorrow night. But idk if I should go or not?
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Samo717
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: Portland, Oregon, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 20, 2013 10:10 PM
Don't contact him, go to the gig. If he approaches you, do what you said/feel in the moment. I'm a cancer sun, and your story is somewhat similar to what happened to me 2 months ago. Never in my life have I wanted to completely forget about a person, nor have I ever felt so betrayed. A cancer wants security, commitment, and mutual love. We are TERRIFIED of letting go of something that we EXPECT is there for good, like a net. We do not get involved in something serious unless we have a strong feeling that it will last for a while. It could have been too much too soon for him. We are also terrified of getting rejected, moreso than other signs because it challenges our sense of self-security, which is unstable enough as it is, being water.
Show him you care through ACTIONS. Words helps too, but you better make sure you mean every word you say, because he trusts you are being sincere and if you arent, he will be able to tell immediately and will retreat into his shell even more. Just be honest and sincere, that is how you can get him to crawl out of his shell. A good antidote is to come across a little Capricorn-like be straightforward and serious. That earth energy will be a good stabilizer for his watery self at the moment. Good luck!!! ------------------
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LoVeLy
Knowflake Posts: 350
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posted September 21, 2013 02:13 AM
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Originally posted by Samo717:
Don't contact him, go to the gig. If he approaches you, do what you said/feel in the moment. I'm a cancer sun, and your story is somewhat similar to what happened to me 2 months ago. Never in my life have I wanted to completely forget about a person, nor have I ever felt so betrayed. A cancer wants security, commitment, and mutual love. We are TERRIFIED of letting go of something that we EXPECT is there for good, like a net. We do not get involved in something serious unless we have a strong feeling that it will last for a while. It could have been too much too soon for him. We are also terrified of getting rejected, moreso than other signs because it challenges our sense of self-security, which is unstable enough as it is, being water.
Show him you care through ACTIONS. Words helps too, but you better make sure you mean every word you say, because he trusts you are being sincere and if you arent, he will be able to tell immediately and will retreat into his shell even more. Just be honest and sincere, that is how you can get him to crawl out of his shell. A good antidote is to come across a little Capricorn-like be straightforward and serious. That earth energy will be a good stabilizer for his watery self at the moment. Good luck!!!
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LoVeLy
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posted September 21, 2013 02:15 AM
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Originally posted by ProudLeo:
Well...this also happened right after we had dinner and he was low in money...struggling musician...and I paid...to me it isn't a big deal...then we went to the nursery and I bought some flowers. I think he is self conscious about his income and work life...and I'm a grad student that comes from money but it doesn't mean anything to me really. I had a suspicion that it made him uncomfortable but it was never brought up. Ok...so he had previously invited me to a gig tomorrow night and I promised I would bring his pack of cigerrettes he left in my purse...but I haven't talked to him since Sunday. Should I not go or show up anyway? Thought I would just keep it casual if I did...just say I promised I would come and you never retracted your invitation so here I am and I just wanted to say goodbye with a hug and a smile and maybe a subltle hand placed on his chest. And it's a full moon tomorrow night. But idk if I should go or not.
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ProudLeo
Knowflake Posts: 75
From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 12:53 AM
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Originally posted by LoVeLy:
I hope you went for the gig
I did not go . I looked for a reply but didnt see one by the time I made plans for the evening. I did send a message wishing him well...no reply of course. I was scared to go...I mean, what if he does need his space and then I show up making him feel all uncomfortable while he is performing...that's his life and I wouldn't want to be a hindrance to any of his goals. I don't want to hurt him...so I didn't go . I can keep an eye out for the next one and show up there. I think I ruined my chances anyway because I went with some friends to a local hang out and it was a hard week so I drank way WAY too much...I was incredibly intoxicated....and out of alcohol and misery I hit on one of the bar tenders who I knew was previously into me....who is a friend of my cancer...my god...go, me. Later I told him "please don't pay any attention to me when I've had too much to drink" and he seemed understanding...but I'm sure it will get back to my cancer . I wish I could rewind, but I think I've lost one of the best chances of my life. The thought of another man even touching me makes my stomach turn...and it's gonna be really, really hard to get over him. I think I'm ruined in the sex dept for life because I just can't imagine it being that good with anyone else. I miss him IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
Knowflake Posts: 75
From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 12:56 AM
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Originally posted by LoVeLy:
I hope you went for the gig
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Originally posted by LoVeLy:
I hope you went for the gig
I did not go . I looked for a reply but didnt see one by the time I made plans for the evening. I did send a message wishing him well...no reply of course. I was scared to go...I mean, what if he does need his space and then I show up making him feel all uncomfortable while he is performing...that's his life and I wouldn't want to be a hindrance to any of his goals. I don't want to hurt him...so I didn't go . I can keep an eye out for the next one and show up there. I think I ruined my chances anyway because I went with some friends to a local hang out and it was a hard week so I drank way WAY too much...I was incredibly intoxicated....and out of alcohol and misery I hit on one of the bar tenders who I knew was previously into me....who is a friend of my cancer...my god...go, me. Later I told him "please don't pay any attention to me when I've had too much to drink" and he seemed understanding...but I'm sure it will get back to my cancer . I wish I could rewind, but I think I've lost one of the best chances of my life. The thought of another man even touching me makes my stomach turn...and it's gonna be really, really hard to get over him. I think I'm ruined in the sex dept for life because I just can't imagine it being that good with anyone else. I miss him IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
Knowflake Posts: 75
From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 01:03 AM
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Originally posted by Samo717:
Don't contact him, go to the gig. If he approaches you, do what you said/feel in the moment. I'm a cancer sun, and your story is somewhat similar to what happened to me 2 months ago. Never in my life have I wanted to completely forget about a person, nor have I ever felt so betrayed. A cancer wants security, commitment, and mutual love. We are TERRIFIED of letting go of something that we EXPECT is there for good, like a net. We do not get involved in something serious unless we have a strong feeling that it will last for a while. It could have been too much too soon for him. We are also terrified of getting rejected, moreso than other signs because it challenges our sense of self-security, which is unstable enough as it is, being water.
Show him you care through ACTIONS. Words helps too, but you better make sure you mean every word you say, because he trusts you are being sincere and if you arent, he will be able to tell immediately and will retreat into his shell even more. Just be honest and sincere, that is how you can get him to crawl out of his shell. A good antidote is to come across a little Capricorn-like be straightforward and serious. That earth energy will be a good stabilizer for his watery self at the moment. Good luck!!!
Thank you so much for this advice. I didn't go...I was too scared and I didn't want to make him uncomfortable while he was performing. I wonder if he thought about me at all. I want to tell him a hundred very true things but I'm very scared I will say the wrong things and do even more damage. I just miss him. And it really hurts. I can keep an eye out for his next gig and just show up...other than that I don't have any options except showing up at his work or texting or calling. Maybe a little more time...I don't know what to do but I haven't contacted him other than wishing him well at his gig...which I got no reply...but it just didnt feel right to not even wish him well IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
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From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 10:48 AM
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Originally posted by LoVeLy:
Help! So update....my cancer just sent me a text in reply to the one I sent Friday night wishing him well at his gig. His text says "thank you so much for that. Hope you had a good weekend too!" I almost want to be like "you talking to me?" Because I haven't heard anything from him in over a week. So what do I do? Is he just being polite? I wouldn't think that because he ignored the texts I sent him the first two days even tho he could tell I was hurting. So I stopped texting and only sent the one Friday night wishing him well. I don't want to say the wrong thing...and I know I'm supposed to keep a little mystery about myself and not give too much info and not move too fast or seem needy. If I tell him the truth about my weekend...well it was pretty miserable because I couldn't stop thinking about him and I missed him. Should I tell him about my drinking way too much and hitting on his friend....or just drop it subtly like well I went out sat and drank way too much and prob said things I'm not proud of...or something like that. I'm not answering that damn text until I know what to say....what is his reason for texting me after saying we needed to go separate ways and not texting me all week! Help!! I'm so happy to hear from him tho. I haven't smiled like that in over a week!
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ProudLeo
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From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
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posted September 23, 2013 10:50 AM
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Originally posted by Samo717:
Don't contact him, go to the gig. If he approaches you, do what you said/feel in the moment. I'm a cancer sun, and your story is somewhat similar to what happened to me 2 months ago. Never in my life have I wanted to completely forget about a person, nor have I ever felt so betrayed. A cancer wants security, commitment, and mutual love. We are TERRIFIED of letting go of something that we EXPECT is there for good, like a net. We do not get involved in something serious unless we have a strong feeling that it will last for a while. It could have been too much too soon for him. We are also terrified of getting rejected, moreso than other signs because it challenges our sense of self-security, which is unstable enough as it is, being water.
Show him you care through ACTIONS. Words helps too, but you better make sure you mean every word you say, because he trusts you are being sincere and if you arent, he will be able to tell immediately and will retreat into his shell even more. Just be honest and sincere, that is how you can get him to crawl out of his shell. A good antidote is to come across a little Capricorn-like be straightforward and serious. That earth energy will be a good stabilizer for his watery self at the moment. Good luck!!!
Update: he sent me a text this morning and I want to be sure I don't make any more mistakes! Read above. What should I do? Any advice would be much appreciated. IP: Logged |
Samo717
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From: Portland, Oregon, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 07:09 PM
So it's clear he was at least thinking about you even though he didn't text you right away. He didn't ask you anything in the text so there's not necessarily a need to respond... It might be good for him to get a taste of his own medicine, but also you want to be careful that you aren't playing games, especially with a Cancerian. Respond later, maybe the next day. Just say thanks, that it was an okay weekend. How would you feel about meeting up with him? All you'd have to say is that you want to be his friend at the least... To know how he's doing and to just be part of his life. You can't force anyone to be ready for a relationship, but he might be open to being friends. If you're up for meeting up with him, just say "let me know if you're up for meeting up some time" or something... ?IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
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From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
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posted September 23, 2013 09:13 PM
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Originally posted by Samo717:
So it's clear he was at least thinking about you even though he didn't text you right away. He didn't ask you anything in the text so there's not necessarily a need to respond... It might be good for him to get a taste of his own medicine, but also you want to be careful that you aren't playing games, especially with a Cancerian. Respond later, maybe the next day. Just say thanks, that it was an okay weekend. How would you feel about meeting up with him? All you'd have to say is that you want to be his friend at the least... To know how he's doing and to just be part of his life. You can't force anyone to be ready for a relationship, but he might be open to being friends. If you're up for meeting up with him, just say "let me know if you're up for meeting up some time" or something... ?
Ok so I didn't answer that first text and he sent another this evening that said "the gig went well. It was a lot of fun. I kinda figured you wouldn't want to go". So I reply "I really wanted to be there but I wanted to be respectful to you" he replied "thanks, I guess". Wtf? I said " I'm sorry. I really did want to be there and give my support and show that I care but I thought you made it clear that you didn't want to see me again so I wanted to respect your wishes. I don't want to overstep my boundaries. I hope you understand that. I would never want to do anything to hurt you or be a hindrance to you. All I know is how to be honest...and honestly I want to be in your life...a good friend to support you and care about you. I just don't know what you want. But I would like to come to your next show if that's ok? He replied "of course that's ok . I don't mind at all if you come to my next show as long as we can be friendly and not much else. I would love to see you at my next show!" So I say "I would like that. I always wanted to be your friend." So....what's he doing?! I'm not going to text anymore. Just leave it...it's better than not talking at all. I don't understand what he is doing tho. Its almost as if he is acted like nothing happened at first and then made it like he ws just doing some public relations work for his band...then says "be friendly and not much else". It didnt really say "we can be friends" or define what "not much else means". Ahhhhhhhhh. What to do? IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
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posted September 23, 2013 09:17 PM
But if he didnt care about me at all....then he would have never texted and just left things alone right? So maybe he is just being super cautious?IP: Logged |
mir
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posted September 24, 2013 09:55 AM
Do not expect anything from this guy. The one thing I learned from men is that they mean what they say and say what they mean - Straight Away. Ofcourse, it's not Always that black & white but in this specific case I wouldn't have another doubt about his (lack-of) 'intention'. He's super cautious because he's afraid you might expect something *more* than just relating on a friendly level. If his feeler senses any 'sticking' he'll get his proof that relating on a 'platonic level' isn't possible and he will be gone as if nothing ever happened (sadly enough he's already acting as such). Beware, this "be friendly and not much else" just smells as him keeping the option open for "sex-only" under the ofcourse "just-friends" condition puhh!IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
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From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
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posted September 24, 2013 04:44 PM
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Originally posted by mir:
Do not expect anything from this guy. The one thing I learned from men is that they mean what they say and say what they mean - Straight Away. Ofcourse, it's not Always that black & white but in this specific case I wouldn't have another doubt about his (lack-of) 'intention'. He's super cautious because he's afraid you might expect something *more* than just relating on a friendly level. If his feeler senses any 'sticking' he'll get his proof that relating on a 'platonic level' isn't possible and he will be gone as if nothing ever happened (sadly enough he's already acting as such). Beware, this "be friendly and not much else" just smells as him keeping the option open for "sex-only" under the ofcourse "just-friends" condition puhh!
Oh yes...I'm very aware of that! I've decided that this time around is going to be much, much different! We are going to be friends for sure and anything further than that then he will have to court me appropriately. He knows as good as I that we have a very real connection but really, neither one of us are in a position to pursue a committed relationship. I told him that from the very beginning but our emotions ran too fast...and mine got out of control for a minute Im sure....but it isnt like he didnt express strong emotions as well. I reslly think what hallened was he realized henhad feelings for me and he realized the potential....and it scared him. I won't let my emotions get the best of me again. I will be happy to take things slowly and become friends and then see where things take us as we work toward our own goals in life. I really wish someone would interpret my chart for me, or give me a reading (I've never had one) but I can't seem to find anyone to do it for me. I also want to get my hands on his chart.....in due time lol.
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fireopal09
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posted September 24, 2013 05:21 PM
I dated my fair share of musicians/actors back in my 20's (I'll be 40 in a couple of weeks. Blech). They have girls going after them all the time. It is too easy for them and they have usually have a a bit of a narcissistic streak.My advice is to ignore him and be icily polite when you do run into him. Also, be subtly arrogant. Fly your Leo flag.------------------
Claire
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fireopal09
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posted September 24, 2013 05:28 PM
Oh, my Pisces Moon wants to hug your Cancer Venus. My 3H Scorpio opposite Mars wants to verbally eviscerate him. ------------------
Claire
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fireopal09
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posted September 24, 2013 05:37 PM
*3H Mercury Scorpio* Sorry I------------------
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LoVeLy
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posted September 26, 2013 02:17 PM
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Originally posted by ProudLeo:
Oh yes...I'm very aware of that! I've decided that this time around is going to be much, much different! We are going to be friends for sure and anything further than that then he will have to court me appropriately. He knows as good as I that we have a very real connection but really, neither one of us are in a position to pursue a committed relationship. I told him that from the very beginning but our emotions ran too fast...and mine got out of control for a minute Im sure....but it isnt like he didnt express strong emotions as well. I reslly think what hallened was he realized henhad feelings for me and he realized the potential....and it scared him. I won't let my emotions get the best of me again. I will be happy to take things slowly and become friends and then see where things take us as we work toward our own goals in life. I really wish someone would interpret my chart for me, or give me a reading (I've never had one) but I can't seem to find anyone to do it for me. I also want to get my hands on his chart.....in due time lol.
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Regulus18
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posted October 02, 2013 09:46 AM
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Originally posted by ProudLeo:
Well...this also happened right after we had dinner and he was low in money...struggling musician...and I paid...to me it isn't a big deal...then we went to the nursery and I bought some flowers. I think he is self conscious about his income and work life...and I'm a grad student that comes from money but it doesn't mean anything to me really. I had a suspicion that it made him uncomfortable but it was never brought up. Ok...so he had previously invited me to a gig tomorrow night and I promised I would bring his pack of cigerrettes he left in my purse...but I haven't talked to him since Sunday. Should I not go or show up anyway? Thought I would just keep it casual if I did...just say I promised I would come and you never retracted your invitation so here I am and I just wanted to say goodbye with a hug and a smile and maybe a subltle hand placed on his chest. And it's a full moon tomorrow night. But idk if I should go or not.
I know this is old...but please tell me you went to his concert...
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