posted September 19, 2013 08:27 PM            

Basically, how did it feel?

Do you LOVE the part of the other person's personality that was conjunct your Venus? Or conversely, did you feel the Venus person loved a certain part of your personality?

Or was it that the planet person Loved the Venus person's personality? Or did it go both ways?

Tell me about your experiences... Also, what synastry houses did the conjunction fall into for you and the other person? (If you know their birth time.)

Do you feel the house locations effected how the conjunction was expressed?

posted September 19, 2013 09:42 PM            

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Lately, I've been wondering about Venus conjunct personal planets in synastry... As in Venus conjunct Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter or even Saturn (Not really a personal planet but if someone feels it's relevant then do mention it).
Basically, how did it feel?

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In this relationship the only person planets in direct conjunction is venus and mars.
Which is about a degree apart.

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Do you LOVE the part of the other person's personality that was conjunct your Venus? Or conversely, did you feel the Venus person loved a certain part of your personality?

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Haha yeah, the venus person always makes me feel loved.

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Or was it that the planet person Loved the Venus person's personality? Or did it go both ways?

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Actually when we first met I was like, who is this self satisfied adonis?..
I actually felt really awkward around the venus person at first (venus sextiles my saturn)

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Tell me about your experiences... Also, what synastry houses did the conjunction fall into for you and the other person? (If you know their birth time.)

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haha we have so many experiences but actually the relationship was never that sexual, at first we were friends then became lovers.

11th/5th house

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Do you feel the house locations effected how the conjunction was expressed?

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posted September 20, 2013 07:26 AM            

Venus/Jupiter
Had it twice.
Once I was Venus, the other time I was Jupiter.
When I was Venus the conjunction was absolutely exact! It was with my former best friend – we always had supreme fun together but it was hard being serious around each other. The feeling was mutual and it’s hard to say which one adored the other more.
When I was the Jupiter the effect was the same but much weaker.

Venus/Mars
With a guy friend. I’ve always felt like he’s attracted to me but he’s always been super secretive and subtle about it. He has a Scorpio stellium (including his Mars) in the 12H while mine is in the 6H (including Venus and it’s in Scorpio again). I didn’t reciprocate.

posted September 20, 2013 03:36 PM            

She does seem to always be concerned about how I'm feeling. She will ask when she sees me which is common but she reacts very seriously to my response (excited if it's positive, concerned if not, etc. Curious as to why I'm single) and digs a little deeper to understand what is behind my answer. It's very pleasant for me.

I feel Romantically attracted, however, she is married. (my Venus is in the 12th house)So I leave it alone and keep a distance.

posted September 20, 2013 06:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Selene:
Does Venus conjunct DSC exact count?

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posted September 23, 2013 05:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I guess my Venus conjunct Jude Law`s Sun doesn´t count or is at least irrelevant for this thread?

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Sure it counts!

posted September 25, 2013 05:05 AM            

I have an interesting story about Venus transits.

I just so happens that on the day where Venus transited my 7th house ruler... (I have a Gem Dsc, so my 7th house ruler is Mercury)... I was approached by a guy while at a shopping center, who asked me out. He said he'd seen me on public transport a number of times and that he thought I was very attractive, but that he didn't want to saying anything before because he didn't want to make me nervous. I politely declined the date as he really wasn't my type. Fortunately he was easygoing about it.

Anyway, I guess the point of mentioning this was that Venus transits to personal planets, or perhaps the 5th, 7th, and 8th house rulers, could indicate romantic opportunities.

posted September 25, 2013 05:14 AM            

I actually did have a look at the housesynastry with mr Law, and am still making up my mind about which ones I should post. lol

"o include transits as well as synastry."
Interested in that.

As a matter of fact I am currently studying the interrelations of transits, secondary and tertiary progressions, especially in relation to synastry.
But it is such a workload. lol

"I was approached by a guy while at a shopping center, who asked me out."
That`s cute somehow!

Too bad he wasn`tz your type.

While I don´t believe Venus in transit having the power for lifechanging events, it definitely plays a role if it is supporting other major transits, and in the case of flirtative approaches, which may not change your life, but may brighten up your day.

"Anyway, I guess the point of mentioning this was that Venus transits to personal planets, or perhaps the 5th, 7th, and 8th house rulers, could indicate romantic opportunities."
I think opportunities is a good word.

Well, I guess I will have to wait for this then. Transiting Venus is nowwhere near any of these rulers. In fact it is going to square my Moon, while Tr Mars will be opposite my Moon next week.

"So if nobody has a Venus synastry story, "
I am still puzzled by the absence of Venus-synastry with the guy I am very stubbornly crushing on.

posted September 25, 2013 08:33 AM            

Anyway

my primary 7th house ruler, Mercury:
- sextile his Moon, his 8th ruler
- conjunct his Mercury, his 7th ruler, but widely (just shy of 5 degrees)

my secondary 7th house ruler, Uranus:
- conjunct his Moon, his 8th ruler

my intercepted sec 7th house ruler, Neptune:
- conjunct his Venus, his 5th and 10th ruler
- conjunct his ASC exact

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my primary 5th house ruler (Venus)
- conjunct his Sun, his 8th ruler
- square his Pluto
- square his MC

my secondary 5th ruler, Saturn
- opposite his Jupiter, his 1st ruler, exact
- conjunct his SN exact

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my primary 8th ruler, Moon:
- trine his Saturn, his 2nd ruler

my secondary 8th ruler, Mars:
- conjunct his Neptune exact
- conjunct his ASC widely at 4 degrees

posted September 26, 2013 12:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
As a matter of fact I am currently studying the interrelations of transits, secondary and tertiary progressions, especially in relation to synastry.
But it is such a workload. lol

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Interesting, make a thread on this if you come to any conclusions. I tend to love slightly obscure astrological topics like this. Actually, lately I have been vaguely wondering about the interrelations between transits and progressions… Hope you don’t wear yourself out!

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Too bad he wasn`tz your type.

While I don´t believe Venus in transit having the power for lifechanging events, it definitely plays a role if it is supporting other major transits, and in the case of flirtative approaches, which may not change your life, but may brighten up your day.

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Yeah, too bad it wasn’t the man of my dreams. Sigh.

I also see Venus as not a major life-changer in transits… But if other important things are going on, like maybe some type of outter planet configuration, and Venus comes along at sets things off, then things can really happen. Otherwise, it may simply indicate Venus-themed opportunities which that overall are unlikely to significant impact.

I’m hoping somebody will post a cool story about Venus transits, that do involve other important factors present as well.

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I am still puzzled by the absence of Venus-synastry with the guy I am very stubbornly crushing on.

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Hey, where Venus fails to show, there’s almost always some type of 7th house theme going on!

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
(I honestly loathe to even be writing about him again. I don´t like to like him).

Anyway

my primary 7th house ruler, Mercury:
- sextile his Moon, his 8th ruler
- conjunct his Mercury, his 7th ruler, but widely (just shy of 5 degrees)

my secondary 7th house ruler, Uranus:
- conjunct his Moon, his 8th ruler

my intercepted sec 7th house ruler, Neptune:
- conjunct his Venus, his 5th and 10th ruler
- conjunct his ASC exact

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House-ruler synastry strikes again! I get the part about not wanting to be drawn to something/someone, and yet the astrology shows why even if you have misgivings about it. As celeb crushes go, JL’s rep has been tarnished somewhat by the whole Nanny debacle.

For some reason whenever I think Jude Law the word ’dandy’ comes to mind. Not that he is one, he just gives of this ’English gentleman’ type vibe… Like I could see him in the lead for a period-piece film or something. Lol.

Definition of a Dandy: A dandy[1] (also known as a beau or gallant[2]) is a man who places particular importance upon physical appearance, refined language, and leisurely hobbies, pursued with the appearance of nonchalance in a cult of Self.[3] Historically, especially in late 18th- and early 19th-century Britain, a dandy, who was self-made, often strove to imitate an aristocratic lifestyle despite coming from a middle-class background.

posted September 26, 2013 01:52 AM            

their pSun conj my nVenus @ 27 Taurus
pVenus conj pVenus
my pMars @ 12 Gemini conj their nVenus @ 13 Gemini
my pVenus @ 9 Cancer conj their nMars @ 11 Cancer

Truth - we do not get along!

The first time I saw this person I was ignored. Couple weeks later I initiated conversation, again I was flatly ignored. I persisted, and when I tried to make a joke it was ill received & I was retaliated against.

posted September 26, 2013 09:32 AM            

"Actually, lately I have been vaguely wondering about the interrelations between transits and progressions…"
Very significant and underrated!

I currently have Transit Pluto conjunct progressed ASC (and recently Tr Pluto pposite pr Moon).

The last year has definitely been one of the most transformative for me, showing visibly in shedding over 30 kilos until now. Though this is of course an expression of something internal going on.

Interestingly I didn´t start this journey when Tr Pluto was conjunct my natal Venus, which would have made sense (and the transit has just ended with my Venus being on 6 Capricorn), it had its impact but more so in a slow adjustment of the mindset, realizing what was wrong or not working anymore.

but the actual work didn`t start to take place or manifest, until Pluto started transiting my progressed ASC.

"Hope you don’t wear yourself out!"
#well I probably do.

My tightest midpoint picture doesnt´allow anything else: Moon=Mercury/Pluto. = Sun/Pluto

"But if other important things are going on, like maybe some type of outter planet configuration, and Venus comes along at sets things off,"
Yes, I think the inner planets like Venus or Sun or Mars are very great as timers and triggers of underlying biggies.

"Otherwise, it may simply indicate Venus-themed opportunities which that overall are unlikely to significant impact."
Yes, agree.

Interestingly, I have sort of had Venusian things happening to me today.
A colleague of mine elaborated on how much she was admiring me, and how I was ar ole model for her, because her admiration of people who are able to change and transform in healthy ways and always improve themselves. I was definitely surprised, this colleague is over 10 years older than me. But she is a sweet woman who still has a certain positive childlikeness to her.

Another colleage, when I talked to him, almost embraced me or put his arm around my shoulder. He actually was already almost doing that,w hen he probably noticed in the literally last second that this was definitely inappropriate for very many reasons.
(though it was not the first time something like this almost happened. lol)

Well, today Tr Venus is on 17 Scorpio exactly trine Tr Jupiter on 17 cancer.

Tr Venus squares my natal Moon on 17 Aquarius.
Tr Jupiter conjuncts my natal Saturn on 17 C ancer and trines my natal Juno on 17 Pisces.
And my pr Jupite ron 18 Pisces.

In the case of the male colleague, well
his natal Mars is at 14 Taurus, and so the transiting Venus-Mars-square roughly set off our synastric Mars-Moon-square.

Speaking about progressions, he has currently pr Venus on 5 Aquarius trine pr Mars on 5 Gemini.
How that relates to me?
my pr Sun is on 5 Aquarius, my natal MC on 5 libra. my natal Mars on 5 Sag and my natal DESC on 7 Gemini.

so his pr Venus conjunct my pr Sun
his pr Mars opposite my natal Mars
his pr Mars conjunct my natal DESC

Anyway, Tr Venus is conjunct my progressed MC currently, and I have found angle-involvement to be important to bring planetary aspects into manifestation. Almost like whatever touches the angles (or maybe Sun, too) gets some kind of "spotlight".

posted September 26, 2013 09:36 AM            

"Hey, where Venus fails to show, there’s almost always some type of 7th house theme going on!"

There definitely is!

My primary 7th house ruler
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- conjunct his Sun
- conjunct his Moon, his 5th house ruler
- conjunct his MC
- square his ASC
- square his Vertex
- square his Saturn (on his DESC)

my secondary 7th house ruler
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- conjunct his Mercury, his 4th and 7th ruler
- square his Mars, his 1st ruler
- square his Jupiter, his 10th house ruler

his primary 7th house ruler
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- conjunct my Mars, 4th house ruler, wide (4)
- square my Jupiter, 1st house ruler
- conjunct my Neptune
- sextile my Pluto
- conjunct my NN
- conjunct my ASC

his secondary 7th house ruler
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- conjunct my Sun
- conjunct my Mercury, 7th house ruler

posted September 26, 2013 09:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Funny, there a Taurus with whom I have a peculiar relationship. Aspects

their pSun conj my nVenus @ 27 Taurus
pVenus conj pVenus
my pMars @ 12 Gemini conj their nVenus @ 13 Gemini
my pVenus @ 9 Cancer conj their nMars @ 11 Cancer

Truth - we do not get along!

The first time I saw this person I was ignored. Couple weeks later I initiated conversation, again I was flatly ignored. I persisted, and when I tried to make a joke it was ill received & I was retaliated against.

Odd, as I would read such a synastry as highly romantic and sexual. We've also got nMoon in Virgo square nMoon in Sagittarius, with pMoon in Pisces square pMoon in Gemini.

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That is interesting and puzzling.

Was there a progression in play that spoiled the fun?

Like Saturn was squaring any of it?

EDIT:
Maybe the Moon-squares are indicative of "not getting each other", and disturbing an otherwise possibly sparkly synastry?

posted September 26, 2013 06:16 PM            

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EDIT:
Maybe the Moon-squares are indicative of "not getting each other", and disturbing an otherwise possibly sparkly synastry?

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Possible. It has been my experience that Mars-Venus alone can turn sour because Mars gets rough with Venus. At least I expected the Venus-Venus, and Sun-Venus to smoothen things out.