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Topic: Saturn in 11th and Relationships !!!
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4lifephrases Knowflake Posts: 291 From: London, United Kingdom Registered: Nov 2010
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posted September 20, 2013 07:11 AM
As we know relationships are important to anyone who has Saturn in 11th. I have met lots of people who are amazingly manipulative and I have given quiet a lot. And when I try to put an end to it and when they do not get there way around they would pull up card of "oh!Relationships are important to me and you should too or otherwise you would die alone."It is very difficult not to feel that way as it is your Saturn. I know it is just a fear but it keeps coming and just also thought of not being able to good in relationship sucks. I am trying to learn yes, it is ok I can't be good in all relationship and it sucks but every time somebody would say it I wonder whether that they are really right or they are just saying so that they can be further abusive. I have been removing many old bad relationship out of my life. I think I am doing saturn work. It is very difficult to shake it up and say with confidence. "I don't care about relationship" as I really do but just not with anybody and everybody. I highly care about relationship and people but I do struggle putting right boundaries and limitation.I am afraid of consequences of my action by removing unyielding relationships. This is sort of new skill for me to learn. So my question to other fellow in Saturn in 11th. How do you deal with stuff like this ? Although I must say, I was very impressed with the Saturn in 11th list. http://www.astrotheme.com/celebrities/saturn/m11/1.htm IP: Logged |
Diplopoda Knowflake Posts: 699 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 20, 2013 07:22 AM
You either experienced social isolation, shunning by friends, or you're the person that hurt them in their livesOn the upside your friends may be loyal to you IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 1016 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted September 20, 2013 08:38 AM
I have Leo Saturn in 11H opposite Cap Moon in 5H and I have never had one friend who hasn't f ucked me over or tried to f uck me. Not a single one. IP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon Knowflake Posts: 172 From: Atlanta. Georgia, United States Registered: Jan 2013
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posted September 20, 2013 10:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: I have Leo Saturn in 11H opposite Cap Moon in 5H and I have never had one friend who hasn't f ucked me over or tried to f uck me. Not a single one.
Same here. I have Cap Saturn in the 11th house Square Mars and conjunct Neptune and most people I come across shun me over trivial things, bully me physically, verbally, and mentally, "use" me, pretend to ve my friend, and so on. Usually someone in my own age group is the perpetrator, but, even my elders are really horrible towards me for no apparent reason.IP: Logged |
SagittariusRising Knowflake Posts: 188 From: Maintaining my timeshares on the Moon, Venus, Jupiter, & Neptune Registered: Apr 2011
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posted September 20, 2013 10:51 PM
11H Saturn conj. Mars; trine 7H Sun-Mer-Ven; sextile 1H Jupiter.I've had pluses and minuses with friends. Sometimes I'm loaded with friends, online and IRL, and other times I'm friendless. I am currently friendless, and quite all right. Experiencing the last go-round in my Saturn Return; friends have been calling me with crises or desiring my companionship, and IDGAF at all. I have felt largely used by two longtime friends in particular--I obliged them once, and no more. I don't really care if we're done for good, but I do wish them well. Romance is dead, too. But that's because I've been like a hermit lately, so that's explainable. I can easily turn that around if I so choose. IP: Logged |
inaworldofsong Knowflake Posts: 232 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 20, 2013 10:53 PM
I have Saturn in the 11H exactly square my 8H Sun.Oddly enough, I've never really have friends that have screwed me over. I usually drop the ones I can tell aren't trustworthy. I mostly just have problems socializing in groups of people I'm not too familiar with. I get very shy and come off as a lot more uptight and serious than I actually am. I panic when strangers approach me. I've met a lot of people that are manipulative, but usually the only reason they're around is because they're tolerated as friends of friends. My friendships are actually really tight. I wouldn't trade them for anything. IP: Logged |