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Topic: First Date with a Capricorn...Tips and Advice?
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happyaskings
Knowflake Posts: 592
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Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 20, 2013 04:47 PM
  
So the Cap I've been talking to asked me on a date and I'm actually pretty nervous. Caps always seem so serious and I'm such a goofball I feel like it will be hard for me to chum it up (my expertise!).So I was hoping the good people of LL could give me some do and dont's and let me know how to tell if he's enjoying things. I know the bottom line is to be myself or it won't work period but I am hoping I can get some insight on what to look out for... I haven't been so nervous about a date in a long time! IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87
Newflake Posts: 11
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 20, 2013 04:50 PM
Hi happyaskings!First of all, take it easy! 
I think it will depends of the entire chart, the moon position and venus... if you can get these info.. IP: Logged |
happyaskings
Knowflake Posts: 592
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Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 20, 2013 04:56 PM
Nope couldn't get it  when I asked his bday he gave me the round about time and moved the conversation along...typical Cap!IP: Logged |
lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 3348
From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 20, 2013 05:00 PM
Have a great time  ------------------
"For all those who believe, expect a miracle.”
Linda Goodman 1925-1995 IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
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posted September 20, 2013 05:10 PM
Anything that he might find not attractive, don't reveal them too early until he invests fair amount of time on you mm I don't know maybe 3 months, so that way it gets harder for him to leave if troublesome times occur in the future (making the thought of leaving the least likely option in all circumstances)Practice social skills (Example: don't be late on the date, keep the conversation light and funny unless he brings serious topics up, ***don't talk about your exes unless he asks and laugh at his jokes Whatever he does for you, be sure to return the favour as much as you can Make sure you are reachable but at the same time a little out of reach Do not let him kiss you on the first date
All he gets on the first date is just a little tap or one poke on arms or shoulder (but I guess a hug is ok) Just giving you a different view You probably won't need any of this though
He must find you attractive since he asked you out and... power of beauty is VERY VERY hard to defeat IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 1021
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted September 20, 2013 05:23 PM
Don't play games and be yourself!!! IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 2076
From: Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 20, 2013 05:31 PM
quote:
Originally posted by charlie:
Don't play games and be yourself!!!
Correct. ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 5968
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 20, 2013 06:40 PM
Dress elegantly! Classy! Appropriate for the occasion. Mind your manners. Let him hold the doors open and pick up the bill, if he wants. Keep the conversation lively and jovial. This is coming from a male Capricorn. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 47543
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 20, 2013 06:40 PM
quote:
Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Dress elegantly! Classy! Appropriate for the occasion. Mind your manners. Let him hold the doors open and pick up the bill, if he wants. Keep the conversation lively and jovial. This is coming from a male Capricorn.
Exactly. I was gonna say don't be tacky  ------------------
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Faith
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 20, 2013 11:36 PM
Aside from looking your best, hint about how much money you have, or the job you're about to get which will supply a steady cash flow, compliment him constantly, tread carefully around his ego, use big words, drop names...That kinda stuff.  IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
Knowflake Posts: 1013
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 21, 2013 12:21 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
Aside from looking your best, hint about how much money you have, or the job you're about to get which will supply a steady cash flow, compliment him constantly, tread carefully around his ego, use big words, drop names...That kinda stuff.
Cap men tend to like me. I really don't think you need to compliment him constantly (if you must, keep it genuine and throw a couple at most) or hint at income (lol). It's all about being honest, being yourself, showing you don't take yourself too seriously, knowing when to be serious and when to lighten up and always be classy.
They seem to like independence too and the ability to being calm and collected (they don't really like girls who dramatise their emotions). IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 5968
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 21, 2013 09:03 AM
Let me put it in male language. Stand tall and walk even taller. Spesk intelligently. Know your brain from your assets. Don't flash your b00bs, kiss only lightly if at all, and never give him anything until at least 3 to 5 dates later. IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 22, 2013 09:48 AM
So, he paid for everything, opened doors, started planning something to do for next time, and flat told me how much money he makes....I did good?IP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 676
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 10:10 AM
He just flat out told you how much he makes ?? Wow...Hehe by the sound of it, yeah I think things went well. Congrats  IP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 7786
From: Aries fantasy land ^_^
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 22, 2013 11:07 AM
quote:
Originally posted by happyaskings:
So, he paid for everything, opened doors, started planning something to do for next time, and flat told me how much money he makes....I did good?
Go, Happy!! But I am more interested to know.. did YOU have fun? Did *he* do good for you? IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 86
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Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 02:33 PM
quote:
Originally posted by happyaskings:
So, he paid for everything, opened doors, started planning something to do for next time, and flat told me how much money he makes....I did good?
Very nice
Power of beauty
undefeatable now all u gotta do is
try ur best not to make him your girlfriend or psychiatrist don't make him uncomfortable by talking about your problems for too long (max 5 min)
and nag as least as possible
Men hate nagging IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 5439
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 22, 2013 03:07 PM
quote:
Originally posted by happyaskings:
So, he paid for everything, opened doors, started planning something to do for next time, and flat told me how much money he makes....I did good?
Yeah caps always flaunt their wealth when their trying to impressive or hurt your feelings. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 5968
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 22, 2013 04:11 PM
It's not very nice to give paycheck numbers upfront. It's usually a matter of flaunting or a matter of insecurity. Well, I don't need to tell Anybody my paycheck. Lol. The answer is that it's "enough." Most people can see its evidently adequate. I learned from young that you're never very special in the face of others. There are often others who are much better. IP: Logged |
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