posted September 21, 2013 01:22 PM            

I've been oppressed by loving someone I can't have, and liking someone right now, SO MUCH, has finally helped me go "who what? OH HIM? who cares!"... finally! I can't believe I'm feeling this way, so happy

However, the new one is my first Scorpio ever. I don't know his ASC/time of birth, but he's certainly a Scorpio Moon and Scorp Venus.... intense, right?

Now, I'm an Aqua... with no water planets, save a Uranus singleton in... dun, dun, dun.. Scorpio!!! And I have a heavily aspected first house Pluto (exact sextiles).

This Uranus Singleton sits exact on Mr Scorpio's Sun, with about a 2 - 3 degree orb on either side conjuncting his Mercury and Venus too. And Jupiter!!!

His Cappy Mars is also exact on my Cappy Moon (with both of us experiencing the current Pluto transit over 8 - 10 Cap, ugh).

I'm constantly surrounded by Scorpio women as close friends but I've never dated a Scorpio, let alone been infatuated with one.

Scorpio is my 2nd house.

I have Venus and Neptune approx 30 degrees away from all this Scorpio stellium/Uranus shenenigans at 19 Sag.

I guess I'm wondering, really... how intense is this guy? He comes off as quiet and thoughtful... not so much intense. In fact, the first hour or so we met, he promptly scolded me for overthinking about dating and such (lol... perceptive **** !).

I had a female friend in the past who was a triple Scorpio (ASC/Sun/Moon) and she was one of the most jealous and intense, depressed and eventually manipulative people I have ever met. So all this Scorpio worries me. He seems pretty together though... she was an obvious mess for years.

I'm also wondering what all those Uranus aspects feel like to him??? Have you ever had such a Uranian relationship before?

The way things look, this will be a cross-continental love affair... even before seeing the Uranus stuff, I just don't think realistic to consider this becoming anything more than a deep freindship with sex and sexual attraction when we see each other. He's coming to my part of the world at Xmas (hopefully) and I will be back in his part of the world this summer (almost certainly).

posted September 21, 2013 01:54 PM            

I have Uranus as H5 ruler, aspecting H11 Sun, and I enjoy Uranus contacts.
Pluto does little in my chart, and I can be very.. Challenged, let's put it this way, when somebody's Pluto makes contacts to my planets.

posted September 21, 2013 08:56 PM            

So all these Scorpio placings worry me - all my other Scorpio friends and family members have a lot of air in their chart and just other placements in general that soften them and make them a little more varied and nuanced.

I DO think I'm a good judge of character and I do think this guy is a good person, no... GREAT person, and genuine. Just not sure how all that Scorp will play out.

VenusDiSirius, ahaha... I have been SO obsessed with MY Uranus that I keep forgetting and overlooking the fact that his Uranus makes an exact sextile to my Mars and Sun (1 orb) & Jupiter (1 orb). Also sextile my ASC with a 3 degree orb.

Lots and lots of exact Uranus back and forth between us.

posted September 22, 2013 11:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Venus De Milo:
Anything to offer on men with lots of Scorpio in the chart? LOL. Anyone?

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Be prepared for INTENSITY. Plain & simple! I know Aquarius can emotionally detach themselves - be prepared to be 'pushed' emotionally. Scorpios are NEVER very light-hearted unless they have tons of Air in their chart.

You do have Pluto in your 1st House (as do *I*) so that will definitely be a plus here! Your Cappy Moon may or may not crave this kind of man because you could very much benefit from being forced OUT of your box. Get what I mean?

posted September 23, 2013 05:52 AM            

If we were in the same country, it would be hard not to rush and fall into an insta-relationship because we spent every day together since we met (which was only a week ago, LOL!!! We spent 5 days together and bantered via Facebook messages when we weren't together)... it was that kind of energy each day like:

"hey!"
"hey!"
"what are you doing? want me to come pick you up?"
"ok!"
"see you in 30 minutes"

Very uncomplicated and lighthearted and fun and we obviously really, really enjoy each others company.

I'm being vague because I'm paranoid (lol), but he lives in the country my father is from... and I am planning to get a passport/citizenship from there anyway. I do think I want to live there eventually and its an EU nation, so a passport is very valuable.

On the other hand, he was planing a trip to my country at Christmas... and it sounds like its definite now! I was planning to return to his country next summer. I just left this weekend

So the story can continue over christmas and next summer... but especially as an Aqua, for me the most awesome thing is how much I enjoy his friendship. I feel like even if the romantic part fizzles due to distance, I have this incredible friend that I like so, so much

So if anything come out of this, I don't think its possible to rush it. But I'm pretty certain if I was there right now, we'd have hung out more or less every day and it would be pretty intense at this stage.

posted September 23, 2013 11:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Venus De Milo:
VenusDiSirius, ahaha... I have been SO obsessed with MY Uranus that I keep forgetting and overlooking the fact that his Uranus makes an exact sextile to my Mars and Sun (1 orb) & Jupiter (1 orb). Also sextile my ASC with a 3 degree orb.

Lots and lots of exact Uranus back and forth between us.

Not that much Saturn in either synastry or the composite, so probably no long term future. I mean there is stuff THERE, but not a lot... then again, I don't know his ASC, so I really can't say. His ASC/MC lines could intensify everything.

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I meant what is Uranus doing in his chart? Is it important to him?

There should be no issues, if behind his *intensity* is a strong, confident man not... Heathcliff.

posted September 24, 2013 01:35 AM            

Like mine. My Uranus is a "double" singleton in Scorpio. It also does not aspect any other planets and it is also my only water planet.

One of our tightest aspects is also his Mars conjunct my Moon in Capricorn (his Mars 9 Cap, my Moon 10 Cap... current position of Pluto right on both)... however I punched in Juno & Black Moon Lillith last night... Juno is at 11 Capricorn & Lillith is at 16 Capricorn!

My former fiance had Lillith opposed my Sun and we had incredible sex(and incredible fights... double whammy Saturn-Mars squares and oppositions)... and about a year after him I met another person I had incredible chemistry with.... his was born a day after my fiance!!! So same aspects.

The best sex of my life hands down I had with someone who I had double whammy Moon-Juno conjunctions with, lol.

We have been having long online conversations... especially now with smartphones, you can more or less chat all day, which we have been doing a lot of

He feels really safe... in a good way. I feel like I can't imagine him ever hurting me or lying to me or behaving poorly or unfairly in any way. Obviously, a lot of that is because we're new to each other and on our best behvaiour, rose coloured glasses, etc, etc.

posted September 24, 2013 06:02 AM            

It could very well be that he is quiet, observing, efficient man, since his Scorpio stellium is disposited in Capricorn Mars (I like using traditional rulers). The thing with the water run deep Scorpios, is that they're still Scorpios. It may take time to show their possessive side, that can be unhealthy too. What if he never met anyone like you and he doesn't know how to handle all that... feelings? Cappy doesn't like losing (self) control either. He may not be a solid mountain but volcano, when you mix Scorpio with Cap. Of course, these are all possibilities.

The reason I rambling on is that we both have Cappy Moon and I have Uranus in aspect to Sun, so I think my experiences may prove useful to you.

No Cappy Moon wants to be suffocated. And since Caps and Scorpios understand each other so well, Caps often encounter that overwhelming side of the Scorpios, just like Scorpios get cold showers from Caps. We understand each other, we feel the same but we don't express it in a way that translates well. It takes years for Scorpio to get the silent, unrelenting and devoted side of Cap. Cap takes time, but when they fall, they are all yours. You can use this even in natals, not just synastry, the energies mix similarly in the natal chart as well.

I imagine that he could be smitten with you, if you consider that your Moon conjuncts all his relating planets, indirectly. Would it be too much for him? What if you're tick everything he likes, turned up to 11? Moon conjunction Mars is ridiculously hot. It doesn't work for me as amazingly as Mars-Venus does, but I have seen it work many times. My point is, that Scorpio can be overbearing if you become the sole focus of his attention and later on, love. So, it would be great for him to have some grounding bits in his natal.

What doesn't your Moon rule?? This would the be "safe" sentiment he wakes in you...

posted September 24, 2013 02:08 PM            

I would never presume that he was smitten (cant lie, I enjoy the idea of it, hehe)... I honestly feel like he hasn't pulled back like, completely, no contact... but I feel like he's being guarded and I am being observed right now.

I am aware that I am being observed and assessed, lol.

I didn't really know what was going to happen. I had a crush on him almost immediately, but since I was leaving so soon and not open to sleeping with him, I just didn't think anything would come of it, romantically. I remember the second night we hung out, we were still in friends mode, but we went to dinner. And in spite of "friends mode", it became very date-ish very quickly. Like we were chatting and BEAMING at each other over the dinner table. And when we left, I had to hold myself back from grabbing his hand, lol. I thought... he will think I am absolutely bonkers, dont do that!

The next night we kissed, hehe. He was very nervous and very sweet and respectful in how he went about it too. It was adorable, lol.

I've experienced a lot of Mars-Moon energy, I love it!!!!

posted September 25, 2013 03:04 PM            

He told me himself he is "very private, very reserved"... his words, 100%.

I'm the Cappy moon though, he is a Scorpio Moon!

Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter all in Scorpio!

I don't think I know another person with so much Scorpio in their chart.

While I still think the world of him, all of a sudden today the whole romantic thing seems completely absurd to me. Maybe its because I haven't spoken to him in a day or two? Maybe its my fickle Uranian heart? LOL.