posted September 26, 2013 02:37 AM            

One thing I noticed was this paragraph:

Heavily populated 5th House

The fifth house is the house of romance and sex. When you have planets in your fifth house, you are likely to see sex as casual and recreational, rather than a serious expression of love. This is especially true if Venus, Mars, Uranus, Jupiter, Neptune, Pluto, or especially if the ruler of your 8th house is located in your fifth house. (http://starscopestoday.wordpress.com/2012/11/09/sexual-promiscuity-in-the-natal-chart/)

I cringed and immediately thought of my somewhat bumpy relationship with my SO (his past laundry list is...er...long) and some faith issues along the way. It almost rivals Tiger Woods (I say that because of similar situation and same Cap Sun, Sag Moon, Virgo Rising Combo- But T.W. doesn't have a loaded 5th house when I looked on astrotheme). His Sun, Jupiter, Mercury, Neptune all in the 5th house. I wondering if I should run once and for all now?

Anyways, I wanted to know other's experience with the 5th house. Do you or someone you know have this and the description fits?

My 5th house isn't as fun lol.

posted September 26, 2013 07:46 AM            

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My 5th house isn't as fun lol.

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Neither mine, even though there's a lot going on there: Sun, Venus, Neptune, Saturn, NN. The cusp is in Capricorn. I haven't even had sex or been in a relationship and it doesn't look like it will change in the near future Ami would say it's my Saturn But you know what? I'm ok with that

posted September 27, 2013 03:59 PM            

When I was younger I experimented a lot "just to try it." I even accepted membership into a sex club for a few months where I had sex with people and I didn't even know their name (it was very careful, however, had to see one of THEIR doctors before they let you in and there were strict rules in place). This wasn't an "Oh my gosh, sex, sex, sex!" This was, for me, "I never tried that before, I wonder what that's like?" Once my curiosity was satisfied I usually lost interest in it. It's perhaps ironic that my attitude toward sex is casual and yet I'm a lot less obsessed with it than most other people seem to be.

I'm fine with the idea of polyamorous relationships, too. I wouldn't want to be part of an open relationship, but polyamorous would be fine as long as we all knew each other well.

posted September 28, 2013 06:29 PM            

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Originally posted by themischievousone:
I can understand some people don't mind/can do/love recreational and casual sex. Is this preferred over a love relationship?

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At least for me, I will respect respect established boundaries and not betray a lover's trust, so when I commit to a monogamous relationship I am monogamous. I'm much more trustworthy than a great many people who champion monogamy and "it's for love only" type people. I am not a "player."

However, I seem to be demisexual. I believe that's because I have so many interests that I can easily focus my energy (and desire) elsewhere. In any case sex is not a necessity to me, especially now that I've satisfied my curiosity about it.

posted September 28, 2013 06:38 PM            

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and wish people wouldn't equate one with the other because it's inaccurate

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posted September 29, 2013 01:20 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
At least for me, I will respect respect established boundaries and not betray a lover's trust, so when I commit to a monogamous relationship I am monogamous. I'm much more trustworthy than a great many people who champion monogamy and "it's for love only" type people. I am not a "player."

However, I seem to be demisexual. I believe that's because I have so many interests that I can easily focus my energy (and desire) elsewhere. In any case sex is not a necessity to me, especially now that I've satisfied my curiosity about it.

And it could be that if I was more obsessed with sex as so many others are then I'd find it much more of a struggle to deal with...though in that case I believe I'd INSIST on alternative relationships and thus anyone insisting on monogamy would be a deal breaker to me as I don't like lying to people I care about on things like that (unlike many who make a big deal about monogamy). And given all the polyamorous I've known who invited me to share relationships with them I'm sure I'd be happy that way today were I so obsessed with sex as the vast majority of everyone else is. And I bet I'd be a lot more honest than so many (epidemic) of those hypocritical & selfish "monogamists" who insist on monogamy while cheating themselves behind their partner's back (and denying it of course). Furthermore, being the selfish gits they are these "monogamists" also tend to be less skilled lovers (as they're only concerned about their own needs which is why they demand higher standards for others that they won't live up to themselves) as well as not caring if they say catch HIV and give it to their significant other later. And if more women knew how many married men used prostitutes they'd insist their husbands wear condoms just to be safe! ('Course plenty of "monogamous" women are also big cheaters.)

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This view on it I can understand and respect. Thank you.

It's the one's pretending to be monogamous when they aren't and don't plan to be that drive me up the wall.

Personally. I would rather be with one person I'm serious with but that is because I'm shy and takes me so long to get to a comfortable with someone point that I don't want to do it multiple times.
Then I'm with someone who would likes to see prostitutes just for the sheer fun of it. If that is the life he wants to lead, that's fine but leave me out of it. This experience has given me kinda bad feeling about guys in general. I'd rather be alone.

posted September 29, 2013 01:23 AM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
My DSC ruler is in the 5th and it doesn't look like I'll ever try casual sex...

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My DSC ruler is also in the 5th (saturn). I have tried casual sex with someone and it ended up turning into a relationship, albeit not one with a happy ending.

I joke with friends about it like "Damn, I can't even do a one night stand right".

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I have 5th house ruler conjunct asc.
I'm not promiscuous but I am a major tease or at least I look promiscuous.

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posted September 29, 2013 04:34 PM            

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Originally posted by jjj:
I dont even flirt. My flirting consists in a direct and intense eye contact haha.

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That is too funny.

posted September 29, 2013 04:59 PM            

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Originally posted by jjj:
I dont even flirt. My flirting consists in a direct and intense eye contact haha.

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lol!

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I don't know what it is about you that closes and opens, only something in
me understands the voice in your eyes is deeper than all roses

e e cummings

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posted May 21, 2016 02:04 PM            

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Originally posted by themischievousone:
The fifth house is the house of romance and sex. When you have planets in your fifth house, you are likely to see sex as casual and recreational, rather than a serious expression of love. This is especially true if Venus, Mars, Uranus, Jupiter, Neptune, Pluto, or especially if the ruler of your 8th house is located in your fifth house.

I cringed and immediately thought of my somewhat bumpy relationship with my SO (his past laundry list is...er...long) and some faith issues along the way. It almost rivals Tiger Woods (I say that because of similar situation and same Cap Sun, Sag Moon, Virgo Rising Combo- But T.W. doesn't have a loaded 5th house when I looked on astrotheme). His Sun, Jupiter, Mercury, Neptune all in the 5th house. I wondering if I should run once and for all now?

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posted May 22, 2016 06:33 AM            

Mercury Conjunct Sun,
Mercury conjunct Jupiter
Mercury conjunct Mars
Mercury Trine moon.

I don't see myself promiscuous at all, heck I get flack from everyone asking why aren't I in a relationship,lol.

Heck my parent even bought me a car with the assumption I would bring home someone, there both Cancers and expect me to deliver them grand-children.

I'm really more into my own "thinking" as a result of my placements. Not many people "think and view the world" as I do.

So I don't really get involved in relationships, unless I've established that we see eye to eye.

But... if anything it must be do to my Venus in Taurus that keeps me back which is in my third and my mars being in my 6th house.