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Topic: Venus in Virgo
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m.blade Knowflake Posts: 329 From: I don't know myself yet Registered: Mar 2013
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posted September 26, 2013 01:17 PM
it seems like i need everything to be perfect omg lolmy parents think it's just puberty and so do others but im like no you really do not understand. i just need everything to be perfect. i literally cannot stand people with certain things about them. I analyse EVERYTHING about people and their looks omg IP: Logged |
LoVeLy Knowflake Posts: 350 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 26, 2013 02:12 PM
Well perfection is not really a bad thing I have venus at 3° Vir exactly conjunct my Sun ♥ I like everything to be perfect too lol ------------------ Sun in Virgo conjunct Venus ( 11th House ) Moon in Libra Rising sign Libra Honesty is Confidence - Hoodie Allen ❤ IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 5663 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 26, 2013 02:29 PM
Well humans can't be perfect, I think there's 2 percent of the population that would be considered perfect by most people. Even then looks are so subjective to culture etc.If you can embrace your own flaws you shouldn't have trouble do the same for others. In general I think we can all be critical if we're in a bad mood but the best thing to do is take a look in the mirror and remind yourself your not perfect either and know that it's okay. Then again venus/jupiter makes me optimistic. As for your taste in lovers, that's your prerogative. Obviously the more critical you are less likely you'll ever find someone You are young and as you mature you'll find it easier to look at things in a logical perspective. IP: Logged |
IrisRainbow Knowflake Posts: 311 From: Pluto Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 26, 2013 03:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by m.blade: it seems like i need everything to be perfect omg lolmy parents think it's just puberty and so do others but im like no you really do not understand. i just need everything to be perfect. i literally cannot stand people with certain things about them. I analyse EVERYTHING about people and their looks omg
I don't have any planets in virgo at all but i'm a control freak/perfectionist.I blame it all on Saturn :P IP: Logged |
Moon is Lunatic Knowflake Posts: 216 From: Moon Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 26, 2013 04:22 PM
Yeah, I can relate... And I have Sun & Moon in 6th house.IP: Logged |
elixir Knowflake Posts: 1337 From: United States Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 26, 2013 05:09 PM
Does it make you self-critical as well?IP: Logged |
m.blade Knowflake Posts: 329 From: I don't know myself yet Registered: Mar 2013
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posted September 26, 2013 05:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by elixir: Does it make you self-critical as well?
Definitely. And i can't stand when people say 'oh it's just puberty you want everything to be perfect' because it's really just not like that. IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 957 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 26, 2013 05:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by m.blade: it seems like i need everything to be perfect omg lolmy parents think it's just puberty and so do others but im like no you really do not understand. i just need everything to be perfect. i literally cannot stand people with certain things about them. I analyse EVERYTHING about people and their looks omg
Don't worry. It gets better. You're still a teenager I guess and I remember being that discriminating too but nowadays there are more things I love about people which includes their so-called "flaws".
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FruitTreeFresh Knowflake Posts: 244 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 27, 2013 09:18 AM
Do you feel as you get more mature you are looking for something more than looks and outer personality? Like uniqueness?IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 785 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 27, 2013 01:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by SmilingHeart: Don't worry. It gets better. You're still a teenager I guess and I remember being that discriminating too but nowadays there are more things I love about people which includes their so-called "flaws".
' ' yeah, it'll improve as you age. there will still be things you want 'perfect' about yourself or a friend/partner, but you'll ease up. as a teenager I was obsessed with having the towels in my bathroom perfectly folded at all times and would almost cry if they were messed up. I wanted my bathroom space to be perfect. stuff like that becomes much less important as you age, so certain things will go away - don't worry! :-)IP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 163 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 27, 2013 05:01 PM
There were gazillion posts about Virgo Venus since I joined this forum. Seems, like this topic is even more popular, than "Scorpio Man made me lick my feet and I enjoyed it". m.blade, don't worry, things will get better! I have Venus in Virgo as well, and I eased down with age. My advices for you are: 1. your need for perfection in others will eventually evolve into you criticising yourself. Make sure you are not too hard on yourself. Love yourself for who you are! 2.Find a balance. Before you criticize other people, before you voice your opinion, look at yourself. Are you as good, as you expect other people to be? Good luck with everything! x
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