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Topic: Don't you think venus in scorpio people can be really dominating?
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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 210
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 27, 2013 05:55 PM
  
I always felt like I could be so dominating in my relationships after some time...I hate this trait though, I wan't to be much more like my pisces moon, believing more in love and not get all grumpy and mad:PHow are the people you know with scorpio venus in their relationships? My venus is conjunction pluto, trine jupiter and sextile uranus,saturn and neptune IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 27, 2013 06:10 PM
What does your Mars and Saturn do? In general Venus is a very passive planet, so I don't think it would alone contribute active personality traits like "domineering"...IP: Logged |
Diplopoda
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posted September 27, 2013 06:12 PM
I think they can be manipulative and subtly dominating yesIP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 210
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 27, 2013 06:14 PM
Virgo mars in 4th house(this is the WORST lol), conjunction sun, opposition moon, square uranusCapricorn saturn in 6th, opposite jupiter, square mercury, sextile pluto, conjunction neptune and uranus IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 27, 2013 06:20 PM
Not that I've noticed. I knew one really well, Libra sun/Scorpio Venus and he is more about trying to aggravate people with a subtle anti social streak but still requires people which you would expect from a Libra sun. He came to my house once apologizing profusely and I had no idea why. He gushed, went on and on, and bought me stuff. The entire time I had no idea he had even done anything to bother me. He insisted. I don't know what got into him.IP: Logged |
foxxyxo
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posted September 27, 2013 11:14 PM
i can attest to that. i have venus scorpio conjunct pluto all in 8th house. its not even like i try to be dominating, its just the fact im scared to get close i subconsciously do the whole push pull thing and it leaves the person im with come after me. ill never let myself be controlled by someone else cause thats just not in me lol. its either equal or you chase me. but really its cause deep down i have a fear of being totally vulnerable and becoming hurt. if i keep a distance and be the "dominant" one if the person leaves i dont feel so hurt...IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted September 27, 2013 11:21 PM
So far I’ve not met a dominating Venus in Scorpio but most of them have Mars in Cancer which can be submissive.
Mars in hard aspect with Sun, Moon and Uranus should be enough to make you dominating.IP: Logged |
Samo717
Knowflake Posts: 47
From: Portland, Oregon, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 28, 2013 01:19 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I always felt like I could be so dominating in my relationships after some time...I hate this trait though, I wan't to be much more like my pisces moon, believing more in love and not get all grumpy and mad:PHow are the people you know with scorpio venus in their relationships? My venus is conjunction pluto, trine jupiter and sextile uranus,saturn and neptune
I think having a venus/pluto conjunction makes sense for your domineering trait. Also, there might be a lustful desire to control or manipulate using love and emotions to have 'your way' with others. I have a dear friend with a venus pluto conjunction and she's very level headed... She can naturally dominate in a relationship, but it's very passive and natural, not intentional. She's a Scorpio sun with sag rising, Scorpio stellium. Lovely gal. So wise. ------------------
Cancer sun
Leo rising
Libra moon 17 July 1991 7:27am EST IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 210
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 28, 2013 03:13 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
So far I’ve not met a dominating Venus in Scorpio but most of them have Mars in Cancer which can be submissive.
Mars in hard aspect with Sun, Moon and Uranus should be enough to make you dominating.
Yes... it's like the moment I enter in a relationship I begin to take it much more serious...as long as I'm just dating and having fun I'm much more relaxed and don't care about what the guy is doing and all that, but when I'm having a serious relationship I just get really dominating and nagging and I hate that!  I guess it's also comming from the fear of being hurt, because I feel a commitment is a very serious thing... when you have a boyfriend everyone knows and everyone would know if he broke up or did something wrong, but if it is just someone I'm seeing once in a while it's not a big deal... IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 28, 2013 09:23 AM
I am a Scorpio female with my Mercury/Venus/Jupiter/Pluto in Scorpio with my Venus conjunct Mercury, Mars conjunct Pluto, Pluto opposite Ascendant, so not only do I have a lot of Scorpio planets, but I have tons of Scorpionic energy in my chart as well which inhanses my Scorpio placements. Anyway, yes I always feel very dominating in relationships and the two guys that I've had a thing for out of the guys I've dated, both have mars in Cancer. I always feel like I play the more masculine role and my guy takes on the more feminine role in a sense. I'm very direct when it comes to sexual matters and relationship issues and the guys I usually go for a very indirect and passive so I feel like I have to force my way into their heads just to communicate. It's frustrating but then again, it's one of those reasons I'm so drawn to them in the first place. I guess I have a love/hate thing for my Venus in Scorpio.IP: Logged |
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