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Yanmorg
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posted September 27, 2013 08:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been involved with a Taurus man with his moon in Taurus and his Venus/ Mars in Cancer for a little over a year now. I am a Scorpio female with a Taurus Ascendant, Moon in Libra, Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Sagittarius. I do not know his birth time so I do not know his Ascendant or his house placements or even natal aspects so this is just a general description. Anyway, we've had our fair share of ups and downs and have had one bad break up before this past one and I was the one who ended it out of frustration, hurt, and anger. Anyway, we stopped communicating for about a month and a half and started again about a month ago. My Taurus guy has been the one to contact me randomly here and there ever since us reuniting. Anyway, he recently asked me to meet up and of course I agreed and we discussed our relationship. During our conversation, he said he just wants to be friends right now because being in a relationship would just be a distraction and time consuming. He has been going through a lot lately as far as his life goes. He lost two jobs and is currently in a bad living situation so I cannot be upset with him for wanting to focus on himself and I am not. We discussed our relationship and he said he'll be able to focus on a relationship once he gets his life back on track. He has also said that he hasn't been fooling around with other females, but instead, keeping to himself and focusing on the main goal which is success. Do Taurus men sleep around? How do you know if they think you're worth the trouble? Will a Taurus man keep you as just a friend? I am asking these questions because even though my Taurus guy is pretty straight forward, he still extremely hard to read even when he isn't trying to be. When we were in a relationship, we had our fair share of arguments and fights, but overall, it was a beautiful and fulfilling relationship in every aspect. He even bought me the same exact necklace he bought his mom for Christmas which was an honor. I'm just curious if these men move on quickly or do their actions prove everything? He has also agreed that he would be making a big mistake if he didn't pick our relationship back up once he gets his life together. Do these men mean what they say, generally speaking? I know I should just focus on myself as of right now, but the emotions are still there between us and I can't get him off my mind and it's only been 3 days! Any insight on my situation? I know I'm rambling and I hope you at least skim my question and give me some feedback. Thanks in advance.

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next to neptune
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posted September 28, 2013 03:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Well I can understand his situation completely, he probably feels stressed out a lot and just want's to have peace and relax... he probably got enough of the scorpio drama (it sounds like you had a lot of drama) and want's to be alone for a while to really reload his energy...

I think the worst thing you can do is to push him when he is like this. You should just leave him alone and concentrate on your own life, cause he isn't coming back if he feels you are pushing him at any point... taurus guys are stubborn and they are hard to move..if you try he just gets annoyed...

So you should just leave him alone, if you contact him it should just be sweet messages, not anything like "I MISS YOU, when do you come back to me? When can I see you??? I really wan't to see you soon or I will go somewhere else"
no threatening!
Just be nice and understanding, and that will soften his hard and when he is ready he will come back

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posted September 28, 2013 05:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Move on. Since that moon in virgo and moon in pisces crap, people have been breaking up for good. Just move on.


Edit: misread


Ive been feeling the same way. I want to be alone.

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Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp)
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
Libra mars 3rd
Gemini mercury 11th

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Yanmorg
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posted September 28, 2013 09:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah at this point, I've been wanting to keep to myself too, but of course I miss him and I don't want to move on completely.

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