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Topic: Difference between Moon/Neptune person and Venus/Neptune person in relationship
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Leocassandra Knowflake Posts: 274 From: Poland Registered: Jan 2013
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posted September 29, 2013 04:17 PM
Where is it? Both can be very idealistic, naive. Or no?IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 4286 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 29, 2013 04:32 PM
Moon Neptune idealizes the family and children while Venus Neptune idealizes love and the partner. IP: Logged |
starrystratosphere Knowflake Posts: 280 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted September 29, 2013 04:35 PM
I have both of these aspects natally.Moon-Neptune is more in harmony. Deeep feeler. Gives good emotional insights to a person. Instinctual emotions will help a Moon-Neptune person really understand others feelings well, including their partner. Venus-Neptune is a beautiful aspect to have as it adds the magical touch of Neptune to Venus' Romance. I just find with this, I sometimes fail to see peoples true intentions. This opens my heart more to give full trust to somebody which I ve come to realize should not be given away as easily. By itself this aspect is a beautiful touch to love but people with this need to also gaurd their emotions and not wear their heart on their sleeve.
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Leocassandra Knowflake Posts: 274 From: Poland Registered: Jan 2013
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posted September 29, 2013 04:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: Moon Neptune idealizes the family and children while Venus Neptune idealizes love and the partner.
I don't know...Moon/Neptune could idealize family sometimes but not only this area IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 4286 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 29, 2013 05:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by Leocassandra: I don't know...Moon/Neptune could idealize family sometimes but not only this area
What other areas do you have in mind? Venus is more about the love life and Moon is about the maternal emotions. The moon wants to cling and will love unconditionally. Venus has an ideal in mind and wants to love that ideal otherwise it's buh-bye. IP: Logged |
Leocassandra Knowflake Posts: 274 From: Poland Registered: Jan 2013
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posted September 29, 2013 05:38 PM
Moon is about emotions not only the maternal. yes, they want to clinge on people (not only family)friends, lovers someone with who they feel connected. Your second post speaks to me more than your 1st:PIP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 790 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 29, 2013 05:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Leocassandra: [b] I don't know...Moon/Neptune could idealize family sometimes but not only this area
What other areas do you have in mind? Venus is more about the love life and Moon is about the maternal emotions. The moon wants to cling and will love unconditionally. Venus has an ideal in mind and wants to love that ideal otherwise it's buh-bye. [/B][/QUOTE] True that. As a venus/Neptune person IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 4286 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 29, 2013 05:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by Zander916: True that. As a venus/Neptune person
I'm a moon/Neptune person and I totally idealize family. I yearn for that "perfect" one big time and don't like the reality of family life much. I have an overly sweet ideal of what family life should be like. Too boring and sweet for most people, and totally out of sync with reality. IP: Logged |
Newrise Knowflake Posts: 338 From: Los angeles Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 29, 2013 06:44 PM
^ That's nice, care to describe your vision of the sweet family? IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 3392 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 29, 2013 06:51 PM
I'm both.... But one is a trine and one an oppositionIP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 4286 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 29, 2013 06:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by Newrise: ^ That's nice, care to describe your vision of the sweet family?
Like the Brady Bunch lol or the Ingalls family. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 5717 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 29, 2013 08:04 PM
Yeah venus/neptune is a tricky thing. I have venus aspecting neptune. I use to base a lot of my relationships based on my first love I tend to project a lot on them, which is unfair and deceitful. Eventually I would be disappointed because well, they are different people.. Although I would highly attracted to people that physically looked similar too lmfao. Neptune is such a hot mess.I kinda wish I had venus trine saturn. My first love has venus/neptune too and also found relationships after us to be disappointing, I guess because we never fell in love with anyone else. IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 790 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 29, 2013 08:19 PM
Kerosene - My Venus/Neptune is like. I have a vision, a dream you might say of the ideal spouse. Mostly about personality but looks too, I won't lie. The Leo side of me has a strong presence in this "dream". LOL It would very much be a Leo type of relationship. Someone who will adore me and who I can shower with affection. I then try to match up someone to my dream, rather than making a dream together with someone who otherwise may be perfectly compatible. SSS - I don't have moon/neptune but I get that a little bit. I'm sure it's nothing as powerful as yours. For me it's very much like IF I have a family one day, I want it to be a certain way. I wouldn't expect trouble to never happen, but simply for everyone in my family to have a close bond to each other. Welcome back btw. Hopefully a good vacation. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 4286 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 29, 2013 08:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Zander916:
SSS - I don't have moon/neptune but I get that a little bit. I'm sure it's nothing as powerful as yours. For me it's very much like IF I have a family one day, I want it to be a certain way. I wouldn't expect trouble to never happen, but simply for everyone in my family to have a close bond to each other.
Didn't you ever wish to be in the ideal family and that you could be put up for adoption? I used to wish that all the time. I often day dreamed about going house to house asking the people inside if they would adopt me.IP: Logged |
fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 83 From: Dallas,TX, Us Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 29, 2013 08:54 PM
Natal 7H Moon is Pisces squaring 4H Saggi Neptune that conjuncts my Saggi Venus.I am too accepting of others as Moon opposes Virgo ASC and too self critical. I have been betrayed & decieved by my family, ex husband, a various "friends". I have also had opportunities to extend kindness, empathy, comfort, and counsel to people who really needed it. I have reached out to FB aquaintances when I the spidey sense felt they weren't right. The shadow side is that I have had mild substance abuse problems and have had stupid moods of self pity.After my daughter was born and **** got real, I learned how to use Merc in Scorp opposite Mars in Taurus to create boundaries and retire Poor Pathetic Pitiful Party Princess. That has been my experience with Pisces & Neptune.------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 790 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 29, 2013 09:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: Didn't you ever wish to be in the ideal family and that you could be put up for adoption? I used to wish that all the time. I often day dreamed about going house to house asking the people inside if they would adopt me.
I don't think I ever took it that far, but I did often feel.... hmmmm.... "less" I suppose having grown up with a single mom who I didn't see often and a distant, sort of awkward relationship with my father. It may have crossed my mind once. (adoption) Mostly, I just wanted to live with my best friend, not realizing that we couldn't have supported ourselves. I've just felt the Venus/Neptune mostly. Having that "perfect" relationship still consumes me although I'm a lot better at staying realistic than in the past. My 9th house Gemini Moon (I think that's the cause) also messed with me pretty strongly back in around 2009. I really wanted to live in another country. I thought I would be happier. (never did it) IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 4286 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 29, 2013 09:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by Zander916: I don't think I ever took it that far, but I did often feel.... hmmmm.... "less" I suppose having grown up with a single mom who I didn't see often and a distant, sort of awkward relationship with my father. It may have crossed my mind once. (adoption) Mostly, I just wanted to live with my best friend, not realizing that we couldn't have supported ourselves. I've just felt the Venus/Neptune mostly. Having that "perfect" relationship still consumes me although I'm a lot better at staying realistic than in the past. My 9th house Gemini Moon (I think that's the cause) also messed with me pretty strongly back in around 2009. I really wanted to live in another country. I thought I would be happier. (never did it)
Did you want to live somewhere in Europe or South America? IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 790 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 29, 2013 09:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: Did you want to live somewhere in Europe or South America?
I was definitely thinking Europe. I don't have any particular fantastic love of Europe. That's just where I was thinking of. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 4286 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 29, 2013 10:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by Zander916: I was definitely thinking Europe. I don't have any particular fantastic love of Europe. That's just where I was thinking of.
Yeah, that would be fun IP: Logged |
thundered Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Australia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 29, 2013 10:48 PM
Moon/Neptune is very connected to the emotions, very inward. IP: Logged |