posted October 02, 2013 12:57 AM
Ok, this will be chatty. I have to be honest, I'm a little uncomfortable as I've only seen a blog, this is all just online, and I'm kind of on the spot instead of it just naturally occurring in passing life. However, I'll play ball and just give what think.
I'm always open to being wrong.
Oh, also, if you say she's Cancer, then I get an idea (and she seems to fit right in with Cancers I've known) but I can't just observe people and go "Oh, they're a Gemini. They have to be". I'm terrible at guessing signs. The Cancers I've personally known, they like to project an image of Innocence, even if it's not true. That's just the ones I've known. Maybe I draw in a certain kind of Cancer. LOL
Anyway.. moving on.
A lot of this has to do with her business. Not ONLY because that is what was exposed to me, but because it just seems like a powerful part of her life.
A lot of Cancers I've known, do like attention, much like Leo's do but they are more sideways about it and less in your face. It shows here. She may never admit it to us, but I think she has a big concern with her image and what people think about her.
I think her business is more than a hobby, or a business. I think it's deeply rooted into her as a person. It's part of her identity. It's where a large part of her confidence is. She probably IS very emotional but tends to hide it if she can. Particularly due to her business and the image to maintain. If someone who actually knows things about fashion (I do not. LOL) criticizes her style, or what she did, etc. It probably hits her very deeply and strikes up strong emotion. I don't feel that she would show it though. She would probably respond very politely.
She only mentioned her husband very briefly. I get the impression that she loves him VERY deeply. She mentioned that she uses his photographing skills to help her with her business. I think it's much more than that. This business/hobby is a part of WHO she is. I think with this love for her husband, she wants him to be a part of it with her. It's a strong bonding, merging experience for her I believe. Maybe even if they've had a bit of a tiff they may both go to work together, both doing something that they enjoy, and doing it together and it may act as a healer... smoothing over or erasing whatever it was that they had a tiff about.
So I think she's quite sensitive and emotional, but privately, with her husband. I think that her love for him is probably deep. Maybe even, she'll ask him for his opinion on her personal fashion EVEN though she's supremely confident. She cares what HE thinks, even if she would disagree. It's somewhat about pleasing him as well. Her confidence and boldness lies in this business... in her skills there and in the end it's still HER, and him sharing in it with her.
She also enjoys dressing up OTHERS. They then feel good about themselves and she can feel good about herself for drawing in this kind, loving energy (and attention) to herself.
On LL.
I think she would probably be just about everybody's friend and non-confrontational. She would probably compliment others often, be interested in others personally. When given an opportunity to plug in her fashion skills here, she would.
"OMG if you do ______ it will really bring out your cheekbones" or "You'd look great in this top with _____" etc. Things of that nature. She'd be incredibly sweet to everyone.
If someone had a disagreement with her, she may be apologetic and/or express gratitude for correcting her. Depending on what it might be. If it's fashion, she'd probably be a BIT more bold, but always polite. "I'm sorry that you feel that way." However, if it continued, she still would never be rude, but might start to state her experiences and validity for her opinion/choice.
Anyway... I could have it all wrong. LOL
It was just a fashion blog afterall.