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Topic: cannot be in the same room, what causes this obsession?
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jjj
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posted October 07, 2013 11:05 AM
  
Things have gotten really weird between me and this Libra. Recently we had to spend some days together (in a group setting), but we were never alone. He still chose to come to that event knowing that I would be there as well. His avoiding behaviour bordered obsession... he cant look at me, cant stand next to me, cant talk to me... he was tense and in pain. I initiated a chat 2-3 times, it was good, but he cut it short. When we talked, this uncomfortable feeling disappeared, but it reappeared every time we were some time apart. IP: Logged |
blueskiez06
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posted October 07, 2013 11:21 AM
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Venusian Moon
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posted October 07, 2013 11:28 AM
Hes married just dont initiate anything anymore. Been there done that. You'll just get hurt. Thats obviously why he's acting that way. Dont tempt him. Just stay away.------------------
Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp)
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
Libra mars 3rd
Gemini mercury 11th IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted October 07, 2013 11:28 AM
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Originally posted by blueskiez06:
you SHOULD make it go away - astrology or no astrology,
Needless to say, these feelings dont go away... And I dont initiate anything, we just see each other due to external circumstances and he always makes it so, that we see each other. This Neptune is probably a big part of it, it gives a really tender feeling between us, as if we cared about each other no matter what. IP: Logged |
blueskiez06
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posted October 07, 2013 11:38 AM
jjj uhmmm try picturing him wearing funny underwear, with a rudolph raindeer red nose, doing a Carlton funny dance to stop this Bella and Edward haze ... 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jKlxjbhB9HE IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted October 07, 2013 11:42 AM
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Originally posted by jjj:
Needless to say, these feelings dont go away...And I dont initiate anything, we just see each other due to external circumstances and he always makes it so, that we see each other. This Neptune is probably a big part of it, it gives a really tender feeling between us, as if we cared about each other no matter what.
Neptune isnt always a good thing. Can cause delusions. You'll think you found your prince charming. Everythings perfect. Then eventually everything comes crashing down and reality hits.
With neptune u will see what u want to see and feel what u want to feel for a while. IP: Logged |
blueskiez06
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posted October 07, 2013 11:49 AM
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jjj
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posted October 07, 2013 11:53 AM
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Originally posted by blueskiez06:
jjj uhmmm try picturing him wearing funny underwear, with a rudolph raindeer red nose, doing a Carlton funny dance to stop this Bella and Edward haze ...
megaLOL Yeah, this Neptune delusion has hit already, but somehow it still continues and we get closer when we manage to talk. I would like to get rid of any expectations and to be able to relate to him normally, but this seems like an impossbile task. We both seem to wake strong fears in each other and this makes normal relating difficult. We both can relate normally to whoever, we just freeze in each other s presence. Then we need some minutes to readapt, but once we start talking, we get very comfortable and we could go on and on... It was like that some time ago, but now he has gotten really weird. It feels like I have lost a friend. IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted October 07, 2013 02:40 PM
sometimes it can be planets in 8th/12th synastry ... IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted October 07, 2013 04:39 PM
His Mars is in my 12th, but he puts nothing in my 8th. I dont know his birth time.IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted October 07, 2013 04:48 PM
Hi JJJ,I have someone activated my 12th house and I felt extremely vulnerable, like that person was able to see right through me. It supposes to activate areas hidden to yourself, your life, sensitive things you don't want to talk about, subconsciousness et al ... that's all I can say. IP: Logged |
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