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Topic: Lilith in 11th house = forever alone in groups?
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NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 900
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 08, 2013 05:57 PM
  
Moon is also in the 11th trine neptune. Although I feel i never fit in with groups of people it feels like i have to sacrifice my individuality or either i'm disappointed and disillusioned with groups, either people like me or they don't. Not an easy placement for lilith  forever an outcast it feels like.IP: Logged |
arcturiann
Knowflake Posts: 375
From: Titan
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 06, 2014 02:22 AM
Gah, I found out that my lilith is actually in the 11th so I started reading up on it, makes too much sense. I know this is an old post but I found it while searching on google. Definitely sucks, I always feel like no matter what, I either don't fit in or my friends betray me in some way. I really don't get it, but now I at least know lilith in the 11th may be cause to blame.What sucks is that I have NN in aqua, which feels conflicting. Anyone else with lilith in 11th? IP: Logged |
whaaat
Knowflake Posts: 224
From: Portland, MA,U.S
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 06, 2014 02:50 AM
Forever alone in groups?? This is the first time I see BML interpreted this way D:
What about BML in the 7th?? Does it mean guaranteed betrayal etc? I feel like I embody her though...(BML square Sun) but it also aspects my Juno (sextile).IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 3522
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted June 06, 2014 02:59 AM
I have the same problem with not fitting in with friends and not fitting in with any group with Lilith exalted in the 11th House (Lilith in Gemini is considered exalted), and Lilith conjunct Moon there as well.While this gets VERY annoying, I actually like it.
I enjoy being different, rather than just another sperm. Every time I try to talk to my friends about anything intellectual, they're not interested. Even about other matters, if it's not video games or something non serious, they don't really care for a discussion.
I mean, I'm probably giving them less credit than they deserve, but this is how I feel, so it must be pretty bad, lol. They all have a passion for video games, while I don't.
Out of all of them, there's two friends who are okay with discussing intellectual things, both are air signs. Ones a Libra, and the other is an Aquarius (Aquarius likes to a bit more I think). But even with them, the discussions are limited, since discussions aren't their preference. They prefer video games while I don't, lol. I used to play video games a lot, but I got bored of them eventually. The only game I can say I probably had a passion for was Halo 3. And it was for good reason, too.
Besides, anything I get my hands on becomes something super competitive for me anyway, so it's not that video games were any different. They're pretty boring specifically, though. I also don't want to be in that competitive sphere anymore. And trust me, I wish I didn't have a super competitive nature because it takes the fun out of everything for me. I was in my prime in Halo 3, and so it was a good time to retire after awhile, lol. Well that last paragraph may have been irrelevant, sorry for my Leo Ascendant liking to talk about himself, lol. Leo Ascendant - "Hey, don't blame me! I never talk about myself..." Me - "Pfft, yeah right! Stop being arrogant." Leo Ascendant - "I'm not being arrogant, you're being ignorant for trying to blame me like I'm the one responsible for it." Me - "Oh, who am I going to blame then? My Virgo Sun?" Leo Ascendant - "True dat, true dat." IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 3522
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted June 06, 2014 03:00 AM
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Originally posted by whaaat:
Forever alone in groups?? This is the first time I see BML interpreted this way D:
Same here. IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster
Knowflake Posts: 34
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 06, 2014 03:53 AM
I have a moon,mars,and chiron (and juno) in the 11th house. I also have all of those signs in Leo,which is pretty unique and strange to me. So I know how you feel. I've never had a best friend or a lot of friends in general. I always feel like sometimes i'm alone when it comes to people,but in a weird way i kinda like it! I always would tell myself that "I would rather have true and honest friends that love me than people who just want something from me for superficial or stupid reasons."I think that's my moon square pluto talking because I can sometimes sense and tell bs with people.
What I've notice with people is that they either love me or hate me. But I think with my Libra rising I can always pull people to me side when it comes to things that I want.
I also always feel in a way that people in group setting try to one up me or are too overly competitive.
I think overall with the 11th house placement it kinda gives us this superiority complex rather we know it or not. I also think it kinda gives us this leader and team player type quality too.
I'll show all my aspect between my moon,mars,juno and chiron!
Moon Conjunction Mars
Moon Conjunction Chiron
Mars Conjunction Chiron This thread was so awesome! IP: Logged |
arcturiann
Knowflake Posts: 375
From: Titan
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 06, 2014 12:17 PM
Gemini and mercury you guys make a good point. I think uranus on my ascendant and opposing my sun makes me feel like I already have a good dose of being "different" or unique. My ego loves it, but deep down sometimes I just want to fit in with people, just so that I can interact with them... I often feel like im outside looking in at all the normal people. Some of my experiences with groups in the past have been terrible with the rejection or the purposeful betrayal, jealously, etc. For this reason I do take my friendships seriously and they have to be genuine. My lilith is also in scorpio, so I wonder if that just adds to the drama of it ~__~ IP: Logged |
manderin
Knowflake Posts: 241
From: New York, NY USA
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted June 07, 2014 01:26 AM
Ketu in Aquarius tends to do this.Add a debilitated 11th lord and it will aggravate the issue. IP: Logged | |
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