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From: Neptune_uranus_jupiter
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posted October 10, 2013 12:44 AM            

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Can someone help me gain more clarification? I feel I have been going through this transit for the last two years.

End of December 2013 until mid-October 2014: This influence signifies a time of severe testing in your relationships with others. The demands of your work or the demands of your personal life will force you to reevaluate which relationships in your life are worth keeping and which are not. If you do not face this challenge consciously, the pressure of events will force you to do so, because people who have been with you for a long time will leave against your wishes.
There is often a strong tendency to build a wall between you and others without even realizing it. The only way you will know is that suddenly you will feel alone and out of touch with everybody. You may feel that you have no support from others, even loved ones whom you have counted on in the past for love and support. This may represent a temporary state of affairs or a passing mood. Or it may represent a serious breakdown in your relationships because of misplaced priorities in the past or because of associating with people who were wrong for you in terms of your personal goals and needs.
In the case of misplaced priorities, perhaps you have paid more attention to getting ahead in life than to giving and receiving love. Or perhaps in the past, fear of your own inadequacies or fear that you are unlovable has made you withdraw from others. Now the consequences of these problems are emerging, causing you to feel alone.
In the second case, the problem is that in terms of your direction in life, the people you associate with are a distraction or are actually opposed to your interests. In this case, no matter how much you love them, walls will form between you and them, and you will have to begin a new life without them.
With this influence several significant relationships will inevitably end. But if you have a clear idea of where you are going, this will not be a great disadvantage. Whatever remorse you feel will be quickly displaced by a new sense of freedom, because you are no longer wasting energy in trying to maintain inappropriate relationships.

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posted October 10, 2013 01:08 AM              

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I have Saturn sq ASC and i dont agree, what sign is ur asc in

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posted October 10, 2013 01:27 AM            

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If you feel like you’ve been going through this transit in last two years then either your birth time may be incorrect or you may have been going through a transit that produces similar effect to this one, Saturn/Sun or Saturn/MC comes to mind.

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posted May 17, 2023 06:28 PM            

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I have that one friend where I can't say anything about my job and she will tell me I should quit my job. It's sort of annoying. But then I do get pretty exploited at my job because I'm a preschool teacher.

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posted May 17, 2023 06:41 PM            

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Actually I have this in natal and that opening statement sums me up very well. I do go through the loss of MANY relationships. And I do experience a pressure to choose between my goals/priorities and people. I have a lot of walls, and sometimes (most of the time) I don't know how to let them come down. I definitely resonate with this.

I suppose Stawr what you are saying sounds right... it would seem as though the friend didn't understand your venting and therefore would not feel supportive to you. Are you experiencing this transit?

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