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Topic: weird pisces guy
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babasheep Knowflake Posts: 29 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 11, 2013 02:07 AM
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Odette Moderator Posts: 6520 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted October 11, 2013 02:48 AM
I just don't like Aries Venus in men. I'm also an Aries Sun and have been involved with a couple of Pisces with a similar chart to my own... but.. regardless of the other things we might've had in common their Aries Venus was too much for me. They're too competitive and insane romantically. They constantly stir the pot bla bla Unlike you, I don't play games at all - and make a huge issue out of lecturing everyone who does lol (but other than Pisces, I also have Capricorn prominent - so I'm a nagger).The other problem is that this guy will likely never admit to anything. Having an honest conversation with a Pisces guy - is not the most common occurrence. So if you try to ask him straight forward questions and put your cards on the table, don't be overly surprised if he continues to lie. You can post your synastry in Personal Readings to get more advice!
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Kerosene unregistered
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posted October 11, 2013 03:18 AM
I like venus in aries. They usually impress me.Especially pisces with venus in aries. I like romantic they are. You could totally tell they would take a bullet for you. One thing I find attractive is blind loyalty... Pisces/aries deliver on that. As for being competive and agressive, I just allow them to think they have the upper hand. I can't trust people who are too calculative.. pisces/aries is all passion and impulsivity I am way too calculative myself, it just would not blend well. IP: Logged |
jjj Knowflake Posts: 394 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted October 11, 2013 03:59 AM
I have a huge crush on a Pisces with Aries venus as well (but he is married, so it changes the situation). He flirted with me in an obvious way... omg, that felt so good. They are very masculine in their approach... liked that... mmmm... Then I couldnt help and fell for him, but nothing has happened apart a mind/emotional connection. Then he started games... I tried to talk with him openly about the matter, he denied everything... LIED in my face... that he even had slightest feelings for me (although he had confessed his feelings once). Now we are in a completely ridiculous place. We cant be in the same room, look at each other etc... when he is in front of me he turns his eyes to the ceiling in order to avoid my glance and I have to stare at his eye whites as if he were dead... yukk. He just cant manage the connection he initiated. I think that his Aries Venus started this flirt and now his Pisces avoiding behaviour has kicked in. We have to see each other due to work, so it is pure... torture. But yeah... i love this combination Pisces/Aries. PS he thinks of himself as of a huge flirter, but the attention he gives to women in general is just kindness and sweetness. He looks quite loyal and I like that about him. PSS I think these Aries venus men are quite macho and they like woman to be the woman. So dont compete with him, let him be in charge (even though they can be quite passive initially, but they will move their a..s, if they dont have choice). And they have difficulties to express their affaction in love because they have a very martian (egostic) nature. IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 6520 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted October 11, 2013 06:03 AM
quote: I think these Aries venus men are quite macho
More like wannabe macho try-hards... It's too funny. It's just that if you laugh at them, they take it so personally... so you have to laugh behind their backs lmao
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Odette Moderator Posts: 6520 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted October 11, 2013 06:14 AM
And in my experience - it's quite the opposite of what you said. They are mostly attracted to very strong women - Aries & Scorpio types who can dominate them.. They are not at all attracted to typically girly girls.This is another reason why we don't match - since I'm way too laid back to go around dominating them, to their little heart's desire. IP: Logged |
jjj Knowflake Posts: 394 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted October 11, 2013 06:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: And in my experience - it's quite the opposite of what you said. They are mostly attracted to very strong women - Aries & Scorpio types who can dominate them.. They are not at all attracted to typically girly girls.This is another reason why we don't match - since I'm way too laid back to go around dominating them, to their little heart's desire.
They are a living contradiction. I agree that they are attracted to strong women (I have tons of scorpio in my chart and this is the third Pisces/Aries who has something for meee), yet they want to dominate/be macho. They dont chase you, and probably secretly want you to chase them, yet they are so macho that chasing them puts them off! So you cant do anything... they dont come to you and they dont like you to come to them (even though they may desire it secretly). I competed with this individual and antagonized him and he started to despise me in front of others and to treat me as if I were a brainless blondie. So overtly competing with them is not a good idea either... If anyone knows how to treat these wannabe machos, please share... IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87 Moderator Posts: 5055 From: Curitiba, Brasil Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 11, 2013 01:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by jjj: They are a living contradiction. I agree that they are attracted to strong women (I have tons of scorpio in my chart and this is the third Pisces/Aries who has something for meee), yet they want to dominate/be macho. They dont chase you, and probably secretly want you to chase them, yet they are so macho that chasing them puts them off! So you cant do anything... they dont come to you and they dont like you to come to them (even though they may desire it secretly). I competed with this individual and antagonized him and he started to despise me in front of others and to treat me as if I were a brainless blondie. So overtly competing with them is not a good idea either... If anyone knows how to treat these wannabe machos, please share...
Hi jjjj! I just kicked one Pisces Sun with Venus in Aries from my life! I'm Scorpio Sun and Venus in Sagg and Leo Moon, just too much lies to cope with. He's a Scorpio Moon, and that was our problem: he hidded a lot from me. It just lasted 3 weeks. He chased me a lot until we dated. Almost one week after that he just lost all that chase. He wanted to dominate my whole life! And we weren't even in a serious relationship! After the second week, he just told me he couldn't be my boyfrind because he still loves his ex. I wanted him badly, so we agreed to see each other and have some fun... in the end of the third week he just sent me a message and said that he didn't want anymore... soooo confusing! So I ended everything, no Facebook, no phone calls... I simply disappeared from his life. It took 3 months to feel better, but now I can tell abaout him without crying, 'cause I was really in love with him. While I was being open with my feeling regard of him, he just lied, lied.... He has Mars in Gemini too (not saying that all are liars, but this one...). My advise to you: Run away from him! Run away from this combo!! IP: Logged |
babasheep Knowflake Posts: 29 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 11, 2013 05:24 PM
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Leap Year Pisces Knowflake Posts: 728 From: Bronx, NY, USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted October 15, 2013 11:19 AM
Ummm... hi I'm a Pisces Sun/Cancer Asc/Leo Moon/Aries Venus, however, not only am I FEMALE - I'm about as honest as they come. This COULD come from 3 or 4 planets residing in Virgo. I just thought I'd add my $0.02 because I've just never felt the need to lie especially in a relationship. So, this is kind of shocking for me. As far as being the dominant or submissive one in the relationship, I can initiate, but I'd rather be submissive. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9168 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 15, 2013 11:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by Leap Year Pisces: Ummm... hi I'm a Pisces Sun/Cancer Asc/Leo Moon/Aries Venus, however, not only am I FEMALE - I'm about as honest as they come. This COULD come from 3 or 4 planets residing in Virgo. I just thought I'd just in because I've just never felt the need to lie especially in a relationship. So, this is kind of shocking for me. As far as being the dominant or submissive one in the relationship, I can initiate, but I'd rather be submissive.
Were you born on Leap Day? That's the day the sun is opposite my natal.
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Leap Year Pisces Knowflake Posts: 728 From: Bronx, NY, USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted October 15, 2013 11:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Leap Year Pisces: [b]Ummm... hi I'm a Pisces Sun/Cancer Asc/Leo Moon/Aries Venus, however, not only am I FEMALE - I'm about as honest as they come. This COULD come from 3 or 4 planets residing in Virgo. I just thought I'd just in because I've just never felt the need to lie especially in a relationship. So, this is kind of shocking for me. As far as being the dominant or submissive one in the relationship, I can initiate, but I'd rather be submissive.
Were you born on Leap Day? That's the day the sun is opposite my natal.[/B][/QUOTE]Lol, yes I was. 2/29/1980 And what does that mean? *EDIT* If that's the day the sun is opposite your natal, that would make you a Virgo Sun, right? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9168 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 15, 2013 11:53 AM
quote: Originally posted by Leap Year Pisces: Lol, yes I was. 2/29/1980 And what does that mean? *EDIT* If that's the day the sun is opposite your natal, that would make you a Virgo Sun, right?
Yep, I'm a Virgo. That's so cool you are born on Leap day! Do you know if your sun is at 9 or 10 degrees Pisces? Mine's at 9 degrees 45 minutes Virgo. It just means once every four years, February gets an extra day lol so all the degrees are thrown off by one. IP: Logged |
Leap Year Pisces Knowflake Posts: 728 From: Bronx, NY, USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted October 15, 2013 12:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: Yep, I'm a Virgo. That's so cool you are born on Leap day! Do you know if your sun is at 9 or 10 degrees Pisces? Mine's at 9 degrees 45 minutes Virgo. It just means once every four years, February gets an extra day lol so all the degrees are thrown off by one.
As a matter of fact it is - 10 degrees and would the second number be the minutes? If so, I'd be 10 degrees 19 minutes. I'm glad I'm waiting until I have more than enough time to study Astrology, it so simple and complex at the same time. Leap Day is interesting although I'd probably pass on paying so many karmic debts at once next time.
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