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fireopal09
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posted October 13, 2013 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fireopal09     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There is a recurring theme in my life. Ex boyfriend's/fiance's/ exhusband all try to get back into my life romantically after a period of time following the break up whether I or the other instigated the break up. Current manfriend is the anomaly, but I have had an ex fiance email on the day I had to go in for a c-section. Usually when a relationship ends, I am completely finished. I know I am somewhat of a karmic touchstone in somwhat. An ex who thought it was okay to go all Nessus on my Dejanira so I broke it off. The woman he dated after me ended up shooting him in the left side of his head, and he is now deaf in his left ear. I have been deaf in my left ear since I was 3. That POS contacted me through email when he heard through the grapevine I was going through my divorce & had the audacity to ask me to meet up with him. I am not sure what I am asking. Maybe just what theories on natal placements would reattract this bullcrap.

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Zander916
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posted October 13, 2013 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Zander916     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow!

That's nuts!

What's going on with your North/South Nodes? Vertex?

I'm sure there are a million other possibilities but those just popped into my mind.

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fireopal09
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posted October 13, 2013 11:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fireopal09     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That is just one instance. Last one was telling my ex husband that his live in girlfriend was ditching him. He was on the phone with me for 2 hours trying to figure it out and trying to get me back.

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fireopal09
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posted October 14, 2013 12:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fireopal09     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Of course, I have a Cappy North Node in the Fourth. Vertex is cranky with my Sun, but is pretty much left alone.

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Claire
"When going gets weird, the weird turn pro."
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Zander916
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posted October 14, 2013 12:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Zander916     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you wouldn't mind it might be helpful if you can upload your chart, or even synastry chart(s).

Then others more likely, or myself may be able to figure it out.

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anonymidarkness
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posted October 14, 2013 12:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you let them go after the relationship ends? Does Venus/DSC make an aspect with your SN?

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posted October 14, 2013 01:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Always happens to me too.

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Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp)
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
Libra mars 3rd
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peachbeigeblue
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posted October 14, 2013 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dude. This happens to me too. Hard for exes to get over me too. Perhaps it my Venus and S/M MP conjunct Vertex

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peachbeigeblue
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posted October 14, 2013 05:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Do you let them go after the relationship ends? Does Venus/DSC make an aspect with your SN?

And my DC is trine my SN by 2.

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Nine
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posted October 14, 2013 05:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
7HR retrograde.

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Mercurian Intellect
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posted October 14, 2013 05:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mercurian Intellect     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm partially deaf in my left ear too
Maybe 7th House ruler Saturn, (Capricorn or Aquarius 7th House) Rx in the 1st?

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starmoon
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posted October 14, 2013 05:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think this is just normal male behavior that happens to most women. It has happened to me, with all but one person, and there is no sign/placement that would explain it away. Personally I think it's just a man thing, and they don't care about timing.

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ash20
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posted October 14, 2013 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ash20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by starmoon:
Personally I think it's just a man thing, and they don't care about timing.

Lol. I agree

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Mercurian Intellect
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posted October 14, 2013 08:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mercurian Intellect     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by starmoon:
Personally I think it's just a man thing, and they don't care about timing.

Yeah, I do too.

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Zander916
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posted October 14, 2013 08:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Zander916     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been dating men this whole time? @_@

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anonymidarkness
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posted October 14, 2013 09:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Zander916:
I've been dating men this whole time? @_@

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fireopal09
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posted October 14, 2013 09:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fireopal09     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Zander, I am on my phone and can't post my charts. Also, I got popped for a DUI in '92. Alaskan Cancer ex fiance used to ride me about that in the late 90's early 2000's. I left him by 2002 and he got popped for a DUI 3 months later. He is the one who contacted me the day of my c-section and he has contacted every 2-3 years since.

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