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Topic: Unwanted reattraction of Exes.
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fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 110 From: Dallas,TX, Us Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 13, 2013 08:52 PM
There is a recurring theme in my life. Ex boyfriend's/fiance's/ exhusband all try to get back into my life romantically after a period of time following the break up whether I or the other instigated the break up. Current manfriend is the anomaly, but I have had an ex fiance email on the day I had to go in for a c-section. Usually when a relationship ends, I am completely finished. I know I am somewhat of a karmic touchstone in somwhat. An ex who thought it was okay to go all Nessus on my Dejanira so I broke it off. The woman he dated after me ended up shooting him in the left side of his head, and he is now deaf in his left ear. I have been deaf in my left ear since I was 3. That POS contacted me through email when he heard through the grapevine I was going through my divorce & had the audacity to ask me to meet up with him. I am not sure what I am asking. Maybe just what theories on natal placements would reattract this bullcrap.------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 935 From: I visit a lot of planets, but the Sun is my home. Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 13, 2013 10:45 PM
Wow! That's nuts! What's going on with your North/South Nodes? Vertex? I'm sure there are a million other possibilities but those just popped into my mind.
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fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 110 From: Dallas,TX, Us Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 13, 2013 11:50 PM
That is just one instance. Last one was telling my ex husband that his live in girlfriend was ditching him. He was on the phone with me for 2 hours trying to figure it out and trying to get me back. ------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged |
fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 110 From: Dallas,TX, Us Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 14, 2013 12:05 AM
Of course, I have a Cappy North Node in the Fourth. Vertex is cranky with my Sun, but is pretty much left alone. ------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 935 From: I visit a lot of planets, but the Sun is my home. Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 14, 2013 12:31 AM
If you wouldn't mind it might be helpful if you can upload your chart, or even synastry chart(s). Then others more likely, or myself may be able to figure it out. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 3229 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 14, 2013 12:45 AM
Do you let them go after the relationship ends? Does Venus/DSC make an aspect with your SN?IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1128 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 14, 2013 01:33 PM
Always happens to me too. ------------------ Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp) Cancer asc 1st Taurus moon 11th Taurus venus 11th Libra mars 3rd Gemini mercury 11th IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 3470 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 14, 2013 04:58 PM
Dude. This happens to me too. Hard for exes to get over me too. Perhaps it my Venus and S/M MP conjunct Vertex IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 3470 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 14, 2013 05:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: Do you let them go after the relationship ends? Does Venus/DSC make an aspect with your SN?
And my DC is trine my SN by 2. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 1539 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted October 14, 2013 05:10 PM
7HR retrograde.IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect Knowflake Posts: 1286 From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow. Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 14, 2013 05:17 PM
I'm partially deaf in my left ear too Maybe 7th House ruler Saturn, (Capricorn or Aquarius 7th House) Rx in the 1st?------------------ Virgo Sun/2nd/Taurus Decan Gemini Moon/11th/Aquarius Decan Leo Ascendant/Sagittarius Decan IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 818 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted October 14, 2013 05:34 PM
I think this is just normal male behavior that happens to most women. It has happened to me, with all but one person, and there is no sign/placement that would explain it away. Personally I think it's just a man thing, and they don't care about timing. IP: Logged |
ash20 Knowflake Posts: 75 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 14, 2013 06:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: Personally I think it's just a man thing, and they don't care about timing.
Lol. I agree IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect Knowflake Posts: 1286 From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow. Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 14, 2013 08:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: Personally I think it's just a man thing, and they don't care about timing.
Yeah, I do too. IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 935 From: I visit a lot of planets, but the Sun is my home. Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 14, 2013 08:53 PM
I've been dating men this whole time? @_@IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 3229 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 14, 2013 09:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by Zander916: I've been dating men this whole time? @_@
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fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 110 From: Dallas,TX, Us Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 14, 2013 09:14 PM
Zander, I am on my phone and can't post my charts. Also, I got popped for a DUI in '92. Alaskan Cancer ex fiance used to ride me about that in the late 90's early 2000's. I left him by 2002 and he got popped for a DUI 3 months later. He is the one who contacted me the day of my c-section and he has contacted every 2-3 years since. ------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged |