posted October 14, 2013 03:39 PM            

1) Decide what both of you want and whether YOU are getting what you want out of relationship.
Without knowing reason of on/off
Can you lay some disciplinary actions,structure or let's say rules in your relationship which gets followed by your ex partner and you which would help commitment outcome?
If you don't are you willing to move on.

2) Also with the fact with how much of you want to get involved with his son. Are you considering that is something you want to do and whether your life has time for it ?

Supposedly 11H Scorpio here too and having Saturn Return already.

I am not sure if this is going to sound positive or anything closer to what you have been experiencing.

I have learnt to love myself more rather than people. Not trying to mend relationship which are hurting me. I have found peace with some relationships not being there and has made me realize why did I tried so hard???? I do miss those relationships and I am sure I am supposed to grieve them.
Trying to see relationship works and not ones which aren't working.

Any new relationship or any new commitment
think about it before hand itself. Not let's do it and how it goes. Be aware of my own commitments to people. It is having appropriate boundaries as I felt some relationships weren't just worth the effort.

Making structure for Dreams I have. Putting my personal needs first then other people's needs. Saying No and becoming my own authority.

I want to do events and I have figured I should be good at it however I have tried to do it on small scale and I have felt they were too time consuming and I had to go back to drawing board.

More Strategizing. Doing Accounts and Delegating.

Finishing projects rather than starting new ones. etc.

Very difficult all of the above for me.

Feeling that time is running out. Reminder age has been one thing as well.Going to hospitals, seeing dentists, knowing medical diseases and not putting yourself in any danger like bungee jumping or something.
I had no idea that metabolism gets slower in 20s. So there has been a great realization of weight and I have taken swimming and cycling. Soon going to join gym.

Realization of teens and not being one any more.Feeling can't keep up with Fads like vampires,technology,late night clubs and theme parks.

I used to love travelling and now I am more keen on having businesses.

posted October 14, 2013 07:06 PM            

Am trying to establish new boundaries and structure to the relationship, so will continue with those goals.

I very much want to meet his son and be involved in his life. I would have the time... So I'm not sure how Saturn would affect things except perhaps limiting social life because of involvement with his child?

My LR was heavily 4H focused and the eclipse is in my 4H on Friday, which is also his sons bday.