posted October 15, 2013 07:32 PM
I'm actually living this aspects right now with somebody..nMars 9 Aries, pVenus 9 Cancer
I was mainly focused on the Venus/Mars. We did not connect!!
In the beginning Venus was genuinely afraid of Mars. Not until Mars had toned things down considerably did Venus realize it was a mating dance all along. Still, Mars was too rough and aggressive in his approach. Frustrating! The natural expression of Mars' personality would irritate & hurt Venus to the point Venus would go silent for weeks. When they were on speaking terms and tried to sleep together (mutual intense desire), Mars ideas sounded selfish & sadistic. This gave Venus pause. Mars has both Venus & Mars in Aries. Venus has both planets in Taurus.
Venus & Mars also have Sun square Sun exact.