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Topic: Why do I attract men with Venus in Virgo?
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Raluca
Newflake Posts: 15
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 12:09 PM
  
I was really curious about this..
since I started taking interest in Astrology ( not so long ago ) I found out I mostly attract Leo/Scorpio men with Venus in Virgo.Can anyone tell me why?
And what kind of men would actually fit me, 'cause I'm not sure if Venus in Virgo is working out for me. *laughs*
Here's my chart..  [IMG]...[/IMG] IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty
Knowflake Posts: 280
From: 12th House with pr.moon
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted October 17, 2013 12:17 PM
Use the synastry chart with each , you'll understand more  IP: Logged |
Raluca
Newflake Posts: 15
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 12:19 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyKitty:
Use the synastry chart with each , you'll understand more
I'm sorry, I'm really new to this.. what is a synastry chart? And how can I use it?  IP: Logged |
LoVeLy
Knowflake Posts: 373
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Registered: May 2009
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posted October 17, 2013 01:20 PM
Go to http://www.astro.com Click Free horoscopes
Then click Horoscope drawing and calculations
Then click extended chart selection Then fill in the data (yours and his birth info that is) and from the third drop down menu select synastry chart (2) and post the chart here IP: Logged |
LoVeLy
Knowflake Posts: 373
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posted October 17, 2013 01:25 PM
No sorry I think you are supposed to post it in personal readings unless you want to discuss certain aspects IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
Knowflake Posts: 949
From: Venice, California, US
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 17, 2013 01:27 PM
Do they conjunct Ceres?There's a reason why we draw a particular sign group or particular point. I've discovered a big reason why I have SO many Sag Moon - friggin' surrounded by them - ever since I can recall - is that my Valentine is there. And my Lust. So where are your points which indicate a particular preference? Perhaps your Psyche or Eros are in Virgo? Your Valentine or Lust? IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1033
From: I visit a lot of planets, but the Sun is my home.
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 01:29 PM
I don't know any specifics but as a Leo with venus Virgo I can say that I attract people with cap in their chart. Moons, Mars, or venus usually. Sag to a lesser degree but quite a lot of that also.
I don't know why either but I sense a connection there. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 4646
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 17, 2013 01:36 PM
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Originally posted by Zander916:
I don't know any specifics but as a Leo with venus Virgo I can say that I attract people with cap in their chart. Moons, Mars, or venus usually. Sag to a lesser degree but quite a lot of that also.
I don't know why either but I sense a connection there.
Venus tends to attract. I have been friends with many Leo suns or people with Leo emphasized in their charts and you have similar with Virgo. People like to talk about sun and moon but Venus has her say more often than not. IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1033
From: I visit a lot of planets, but the Sun is my home.
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 03:32 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Venus tends to attract. I have been friends with many Leo suns or people with Leo emphasized in their charts and you have similar with Virgo. People like to talk about sun and moon but Venus has her say more often than not.
Trouble is, it tends to be this love/hate deal. OP, do you find this with the venus Virgo?
Maybe it's other factors but the more cap and Sag in someone's chart the more conflict in the end. Starts great and there are some great things but..... IP: Logged |
Raluca
Newflake Posts: 15
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 04:25 PM
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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Do they conjunct Ceres?There's a reason why we draw a particular sign group or particular point. I've discovered a big reason why I have SO many Sag Moon - friggin' surrounded by them - ever since I can recall - is that my Valentine is there. And my Lust. So where are your points which indicate a particular preference? Perhaps your Psyche or Eros are in Virgo? Your Valentine or Lust?
Ah, it could've.. but my Psyche Sign is Gemini and my Eros is in Scorpio IP: Logged |
Raluca
Newflake Posts: 15
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 04:29 PM
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Originally posted by Zander916:
Trouble is, it tends to be this love/hate deal. OP, do you find this with the venus Virgo?
Maybe it's other factors but the more cap and Sag in someone's chart the more conflict in the end. Starts great and there are some great things but.....
Uhuh.. yeah, well, wait.
Are you saying Cap & Sag generally cause conflict in relationships or..
Just in this case with Venus in Virgo or Sun in Virgo..? 'cause then, sadly and definitely yes. It doesn't go well in the long run.
And I'm extremely curious to what/whom will be a good match for me. Aside from.. probably a cat.. or 5. lol! quote:
Originally posted by LovelyKitty:
Use the synastry chart with each , you'll understand more
Ah thank you, LovelyKitty & Lovely.. but I have no clue how to read them, haha.. I'm still learning! IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1033
From: I visit a lot of planets, but the Sun is my home.
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 05:27 PM
Yes just in the long run and only because of my Venus Virgo. Maybe Leo or Gemini too or aspects and blah blah blah.
It gets ugly though. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 4646
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 17, 2013 05:33 PM
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Originally posted by Zander916:
Trouble is, it tends to be this love/hate deal. OP, do you find this with the venus Virgo?
Maybe it's other factors but the more cap and Sag in someone's chart the more conflict in the end. Starts great and there are some great things but.....
Don't you have a really good friend who's a Virgo that you get along great with?
I get a long good with Leo at first then we have friction because Leo likes to boss people and I cannot be bossed.
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Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1033
From: I visit a lot of planets, but the Sun is my home.
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 05:37 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Zander916:
[b] Trouble is, it tends to be this love/hate deal. OP, do you find this with the venus Virgo?
Maybe it's other factors but the more cap and Sag in someone's chart the more conflict in the end. Starts great and there are some great things but.....
Don't you have a really good friend who's a Virgo that you get along great with?
I get a long good with Leo at first then we have friction because Leo likes to boss people and I cannot be bossed. [/B][/QUOTE]
Funny! I never see myself as bossy. Yes my best friend, very very much like a brother.
He's Virgo sun.
We share Gemini moon and Virgo mercury. He has much different habits and tastes to an extent but the basic view of life and people is identical. We often say something that the other was JUST about to say. Word for word many times. IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1033
From: I visit a lot of planets, but the Sun is my home.
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 05:41 PM
His venus on my Asc almost exactly IP: Logged |
PlutoSurvivor
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: USA
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted October 17, 2013 06:26 PM
Leo falls into your house of friendship, so Leo makes a good friend to you. Leo is showy and likes to attract attention to themselves, you know, but they make you feel good about yourself. They are very generous like you. You love generous and fun with Venus in Sag.Scorpio is your South Node, so this would be comfortable for you as it represents your past, where you are coming from. Everything in life is a crisis with Scorpio but they handle it all so well, and your Soul wants you to leave that all behind and enjoy the creature comforts of Earth now. Let someone else create a crisis out of everything that seems to go wrong. Venus in Virgo? Well, pay attention. Virgo rules your hidden 12H so there is something you want revealed about yourself that you are not seeing. You are calling for criticism, or awareness. Actually, this may be a mirror of your frank, tell it like it is Mercury in Sag. Your Cap moon is the perfect executive; wants to do everything itself because it's so good at everything, I know. Very depressing when you are all work, no play. That's where Leo comes in, to have fun. Your Sun sign wants to have fun, but our Moon sabotages your efforts. And Scorpio comes in to take care of business but your Moon does not want to trust, just like Scorpio who is learning to trust. Start thinking that you can trust others to do as well and you will bring trustworthy people into your life to do the work for you. Your North Node wants you to relax, enjoy the senses of earth, and build. You can't build an empire by doing it all by yourself. Pay attention to what others are seeing in you and tap into the true nature of your sun sign so you can rule with world and still have fun doing it. IP: Logged |
Raluca
Newflake Posts: 15
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 18, 2013 03:21 PM
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Originally posted by PlutoSurvivor:
Leo falls into your house of friendship, so Leo makes a good friend to you. Leo is showy and likes to attract attention to themselves, you know, but they make you feel good about yourself. They are very generous like you. You love generous and fun with Venus in Sag.Scorpio is your South Node, so this would be comfortable for you as it represents your past, where you are coming from. Everything in life is a crisis with Scorpio but they handle it all so well, and your Soul wants you to leave that all behind and enjoy the creature comforts of Earth now. Let someone else create a crisis out of everything that seems to go wrong. Venus in Virgo? Well, pay attention. Virgo rules your hidden 12H so there is something you want revealed about yourself that you are not seeing. You are calling for criticism, or awareness. Actually, this may be a mirror of your frank, tell it like it is Mercury in Sag. Your Cap moon is the perfect executive; wants to do everything itself because it's so good at everything, I know. Very depressing when you are all work, no play. That's where Leo comes in, to have fun. Your Sun sign wants to have fun, but our Moon sabotages your efforts. And Scorpio comes in to take care of business but your Moon does not want to trust, just like Scorpio who is learning to trust. Start thinking that you can trust others to do as well and you will bring trustworthy people into your life to do the work for you. Your North Node wants you to relax, enjoy the senses of earth, and build. You can't build an empire by doing it all by yourself. Pay attention to what others are seeing in you and tap into the true nature of your sun sign so you can rule with world and still have fun doing it.
Ah, you covered everything! This is very helpful, thank you very much, PlutoSurvivor! IP: Logged |
Raluca
Newflake Posts: 15
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 18, 2013 03:24 PM
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Originally posted by Zander916:
Funny! I never see myself as bossy. Yes my best friend, very very much like a brother.
He's Virgo sun.
We share Gemini moon and Virgo mercury. He has much different habits and tastes to an extent but the basic view of life and people is identical. We often say something that the other was JUST about to say. Word for word many times.
Well to be honest I have a good friend and she's Virgo with Venus in Virgo too,
so maybe it's different in friendships.. However.. She's Gemini Moon and Scorpio rising, so I'm not sure, but that could help. IP: Logged |
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