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Topic: venus opposite pluto and violence?
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xcessdenied
Newflake Posts: 7
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 11:37 PM
  
Hi, I am somewhat confused about this aspect in both natal charts and synastry. Someone I started seeing recently (and had an instant rapport with) has a Venus ( 4 deg Taurus, 2nd house) opposite Pluto (at 29 Libra, 8th house as well as Saturn at 5 Scorpio in 8th house).Incidentally, my own moon is in Taurus ( 5 deg, 11th house) opposite my pluto (4 Scorpio, 5th house). So while he has a natal Venus opp Pluto, my pluto opposes his venus almost exactly (0.01 orb). So in Synastry, we have a Venus-Moon conjunction opposed by Pluto (and Saturn). I am wondering how would this play out (given how complex it is.)
He also has a very wide Mars (20 degree Aries, 2nd house) to pluto opposition as well. Not sure how that plays into the equation.
thanks everyone.
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6247
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 17, 2013 11:41 PM
Violence is more associated with hard aspects from mars/saturn and mars/plutoVenus/pluto could indicate maybe sexual abuse?
Not too sure.
I've never heard of violence with venus/pluto IP: Logged |
xcessdenied
Newflake Posts: 7
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 11:46 PM
well we only have soft mars saturn aspects.I got curious since there is a lot of sexual obsession/compulsion towards me on his part as well as a strong possessive streak.
(and this is a man who is extremely controlled otherwise) Most of his fantasies definitely have a strong domination or 'roughing up' themes. I have a lot of pluto in my own chart so I can deal with intensity, but who knows! IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6247
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 17, 2013 11:51 PM
I wouldn't worry too much in synastry.
I have Mars square Saturn and Mars opposite Pluto in the composite chart and there was never any abuse at all, not even slightest..
However it would make for some interesting dynamics in bed 
it's not abusive if it's consensual!Could be a problem if you have it in the natal chart, attracting creeps etc. IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
Knowflake Posts: 900
From: Venice, California, US
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 18, 2013 12:32 AM
Do you practise BDSM? Some dynamics (like those with Pluto inter-aspects as well as strong natal positioning) benefit greatly from the kind of sublimation BDSM offers. IP: Logged |
xcessdenied
Newflake Posts: 7
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 18, 2013 07:24 AM
@kerosene: well he has venus opp pluto natally, I dont. and it has been interesting  No we don't practice bdsm. I am not sure if I am built for that either. Plenty of somewhat 'extreme' sports though - both of us. IP: Logged |
olgatheo
Knowflake Posts: 76
From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 18, 2013 08:25 AM
quote:
Originally posted by xcessdenied:
@kerosene: well he has venus opp pluto natally, I dont. and it has been interesting No we don't practice bdsm. I am not sure if I am built for that either. Plenty of somewhat 'extreme' sports though - both of us.
Then the extreme sport is positive manifestation of this energy! IP: Logged |
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