posted October 18, 2013 01:35 PM            

I keep checking all of my friends charts, who broke up/cheated on their partners, and all of them have some Venus Uranus transit.

From personal experience, me and my bf started going out something like 3-4 months after his Venus became sextile transiting Uranus.

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VERY personal experince

My mum cheated on my dad during her Venus sextiling transiting Uranus. As the result - divorce, new marriage and 2 more kids.

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My close friends parents (they are in their 60's) were always my role models. They were fun to be around, loved to travel together, were affectionate, moved countries and continents together - a true TEAM. Honestly, I felt sorry for my friend, cos I thought she was quite dull and negative comparing to them (my friend has Sun/Moon Aries, Venus in Pisces, Mars in Taurus, but I still love her).

And then suddenly, my friends dad tells her mum he needs a "break because he got used to living by himself" (he got a management job in Africa, and lived by himself for a year). That's after more than 20 years together!!! WTF! They were supposed to move there together. Ok... whatever, lesson learned: long-distance relationships don't work, even when they are established relationships.

1 year later, they made up. Yaaay! About to move to Africa. Exciting times! House advertised for rent, all belongings in containers, final goodbyes tio European family... 3 days before the BIG move, he breaks up with her again! He's freaking 60+ , not 30! I can't even imagine the pain she goes through. Second time it's even a harder hit, because it's a punch on a fresh wound. More than 20 years together, seemed to be happy... Few hours later, after hearing the news, my friend, who lives on a different continent from me, called crying, seeking for support Her parents split up again.

I quickly checked her dads transits - Uranus sq natal Venus. Month before he, for the first time, split up with his wife of more than 20 years

It truly breaks my hearts, people, who seemed to have a loving and caring relationship, break - up after many years together.

He has transiting Uranus sq Venus. Explains everything, even though it's deeply upsetting.

The thing is, I'll have transiting Uranus widely trine, then sextile my Venus very soon, just in few years I'm struggling with Uranus sq Venus in my natal chart, and I'm even more worried with transiting Uranus hitting my Venus It's like double strength.

Do you think it will hit me stronger or weaker, since I'm familiar with this energy.

And what do you think of this scary transit?