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Topic: Venus in Pisces men?
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babybull82 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 19, 2013 12:07 AM
Hello,I am currently in the beginning stages of getting to know a Cap sun/Virgo moon/Venus in Pisces man...funnily enough, we both share the same moon and Venus! I find that while we do have a lot of the same ideals and things in common, I've never really dealt with basically the male version of myself. LOL! The only things I've read is that they are "Casanova" types and fall in an out of love *very* easily..which scares me as with VIP I tend to fall for men very easily myself..but it also takes me awhile to fall out of love too. Can anybody share any insights on these men? Also while I'm at it anybody have any experience with two VIPs who are together? Part of me thinks he may share some of the same qualities as me, but then I stop myself because he's a man and they are of course wired differently than women. Any input will be greatly appreciated. Thanks! IP: Logged |
CatMote Knowflake Posts: 497 From: Fighting Neptune for his trident Registered: Apr 2013
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posted October 19, 2013 12:18 AM
i have venus in pisces and im a man so ill let you know how i think it influences ME. its easy to fall in love with somebody. but if im with someone, i am completely loyal. its just a natural act for me to be able to give myself to another person in an act of love. i think two venus in pisces are perfect matches. you will both WANT to give yourselves to each other. the trap i have fallen into with non venus in pisces is that they with-hold parts of themselves. and then i feel hurt, etc. but with two venus in pisces, you get that mutual giving. i wouldnt really call myself a casanova. charming definitely but i dont attribute that to my piscean side of myself. thats more my aries/libra LOL.
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babybull82 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 19, 2013 12:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by CatMote: i have venus in pisces and im a man so ill let you know how i think it influences ME. its easy to fall in love with somebody. but if im with someone, i am completely loyal. its just a natural act for me to be able to give myself to another person in an act of love. i think two venus in pisces are perfect matches. you will both WANT to give yourselves to each other. the trap i have fallen into with non venus in pisces is that they with-hold parts of themselves. and then i feel hurt, etc. but with two venus in pisces, you get that mutual giving. i wouldnt really call myself a casanova. charming definitely but i dont attribute that to my piscean side of myself. thats more my aries/libra LOL.
Awesome! Thank you so much for your responding. I know with this guy I also have to keep in mind that he is a Cappy, and they are the sign of self control, so even if he is having strong feelings for me already, he wouldn't necessarily show them..not yet anyway until he felt more comfortable. Like I know this is idealistic and probably dreamland type stuff, but I really do feel that him coming in to my life was like the universe's way of finally giving me someone I can *truly* be myself with. VIP is already a giving placement and then add the Virgo moon which also likes to show their appreciation to those they love with acts of service and then to FIND another person who would actually appreciate what I do for them AND reciprocate...it will be like our own little heaven I'm sure lol To also add, I am a Taurus sun which is very compatible with Caps..so it's like match made in heaven with us..at least that's what I'm hoping anyway! IP: Logged |
11nahyt Knowflake Posts: 2419 From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 19, 2013 01:05 AM
Capricorn sun with Pisces Venus sounds very interesting. I've never met one. It never even crossed my mind that this combo could even exist Lolol. I hope other cap suns with this Venus placement would participate in this thread too. IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 1002 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 19, 2013 01:13 AM
sexy!IP: Logged |
babybull82 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 19, 2013 02:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by 11nahyt: Capricorn sun with Pisces Venus sounds very interesting. I've never met one. It never even crossed my mind that this combo could even exist Lolol. I hope other cap suns with this Venus placement would participate in this thread too.
Very interesting indeed! This is my first time dealing with a Cap and first time dealing with a male VIP..it's weird though not only are our sun signs extremely compatible, we share the same moon and Venus but we're also only children as well! LOL! I really think this is meant to be!! IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1530 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 19, 2013 02:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by CatMote: i have venus in pisces and im a man so ill let you know how i think it influences ME. its easy to fall in love with somebody. but if im with someone, i am completely loyal. its just a natural act for me to be able to give myself to another person in an act of love. i think two venus in pisces are perfect matches. you will both WANT to give yourselves to each other. the trap i have fallen into with non venus in pisces is that they with-hold parts of themselves. and then i feel hurt, etc. but with two venus in pisces, you get that mutual giving. i wouldnt really call myself a casanova. charming definitely but i dont attribute that to my piscean side of myself. thats more my aries/libra LOL.
I'm also a Venus in Pisces male, yet I'm not sure I agree with how CatMote has described it, particularly with two Venus in Pisces people being "perfect matches." They may be on a similar wavelength, but I'm not sure if that means a "perfect match." Maybe it does. If Venus in Pisces does give, as many claim it does, it's not strictly on a surface level. It's not necessarily a visible giving, either, since Pisces operates behind the scenes. The sign doesn't operate in the sense that it wants to draw attention to itself, unlike the Aries/Libra axis. Those with Venus in Pisces don't always feel their giving is reciprocated because Pisces is a universal sign and anything from Aries through Scorpio isn't. The majority of Venus placements will tend to be about the self, whereas universal signs will not. IP: Logged |
CatMote Knowflake Posts: 497 From: Fighting Neptune for his trident Registered: Apr 2013
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posted October 19, 2013 05:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: I'm also a Venus in Pisces male, yet I'm not sure I agree with how CatMote has described it, particularly with two Venus in Pisces people being "perfect matches." They may be on a similar wavelength, but I'm not sure if that means a "perfect match." Maybe it does.If Venus in Pisces does give, as many claim it does, it's not strictly on a surface level. It's not necessarily a visible giving, either, since Pisces operates behind the scenes. The sign doesn't operate in the sense that it wants to draw attention to itself, unlike the Aries/Libra axis. Those with Venus in Pisces don't always feel their giving is reciprocated because Pisces is a universal sign and anything from Aries through Scorpio isn't. The majority of Venus placements will tend to be about the self, whereas universal signs will not.
this is exactly why i say they are great matches! you said that those with venus in pisces dont always feel their giving is reciprocated, most likely because other signs simply cannot give as wholly and fully as a venus in pisces. i think its only fair to a venus in pisces person to be able to have a relationship that can give as much as they can. just my opinion. ------------------ Sun Aries Moon Pisces Mars Pisces Venus Pisces Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1530 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 19, 2013 07:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by CatMote: this is exactly why i say they are great matches! you said that those with venus in pisces dont always feel their giving is reciprocated, most likely because other signs simply cannot give as wholly and fully as a venus in pisces. i think its only fair to a venus in pisces person to be able to have a relationship that can give as much as they can. just my opinion.
Could it be that you feel this way about Venus in Pisces to have something to go with your Mars in Pisces, maybe a conjunction?
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babybull82 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 19, 2013 08:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by CatMote: this is exactly why i say they are great matches! you said that those with venus in pisces dont always feel their giving is reciprocated, most likely because other signs simply cannot give as wholly and fully as a venus in pisces. i think its only fair to a venus in pisces person to be able to have a relationship that can give as much as they can. just my opinion.
This is what I was thinking too!
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12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1530 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 19, 2013 10:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by babybull82: This is what I was thinking too!
Maybe you two should get a room together. lol IP: Logged |
babybull82 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 19, 2013 11:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: Maybe you two should get a room together. lol
Nah, I'd rather get a room with my Cappy *wink*
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anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 3344 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 19, 2013 11:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: I'm also a Venus in Pisces male, yet I'm not sure I agree with how CatMote has described it, particularly with two Venus in Pisces people being "perfect matches." They may be on a similar wavelength, but I'm not sure if that means a "perfect match." Maybe it does.If Venus in Pisces does give, as many claim it does, it's not strictly on a surface level. It's not necessarily a visible giving, either, since Pisces operates behind the scenes. The sign doesn't operate in the sense that it wants to draw attention to itself, unlike the Aries/Libra axis. Those with Venus in Pisces don't always feel their giving is reciprocated because Pisces is a universal sign and anything from Aries through Scorpio isn't. The majority of Venus placements will tend to be about the self, whereas universal signs will not.
I agree with you. Relationship between two Venus in Pisces would be too unstable IMO, in a perfect world, it would be a perfect relationship but in this world we would do well with reliable, loyal, fixed Venus signs. IP: Logged |
babybull82 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 20, 2013 01:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: I agree with you. Relationship between two Venus in Pisces would be too unstable IMO, in a perfect world, it would be a perfect relationship but in this world we would do well with reliable, loyal, fixed Venus signs.
Can you elaborate more on why it would be unstable? Perhaps I'm simplifying it too much, but while I don't think it would be the perfect match (nothing is perfect) I thought it would be a nice change of pace to be with someone who probably wouldn't be scared off by my occasional grand gestures of love or showing that I care. I figure they'd be right there with it because they may well feel or do something similar. I feel that we'd have a better understanding of what the other person needed. But I could be wrong. It's certainly not going to deter me though..I think with my Cappy while he may have some tendencies towards being a hopeless romantic and all that comes with being a VIP..I think his MARS and SUN in Cappy/Virgo moon are what grounds him. I'm an earth sun/virgo moon which grounds me a bit as well. So we won't be too far off in our fairytale. I do have that pesky Venus Square Neptune thing going on..but I'll save that for another thread lol IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 3344 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 20, 2013 12:56 PM
^ If you would have lacked earth in your chart then it would have been unstable but both of you have earth so it will work. Are you a Taurus? I've never met a Taurus with Venus in Pisces.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 5829 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 20, 2013 01:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by CatMote: i have venus in pisces and im a man so ill let you know how i think it influences ME. its easy to fall in love with somebody. but if im with someone, i am completely loyal. its just a natural act for me to be able to give myself to another person in an act of love. i think two venus in pisces are perfect matches. you will both WANT to give yourselves to each other. the trap i have fallen into with non venus in pisces is that they with-hold parts of themselves. and then i feel hurt, etc. but with two venus in pisces, you get that mutual giving. i wouldnt really call myself a casanova. charming definitely but i dont attribute that to my piscean side of myself. thats more my aries/libra LOL.
You might fall in love with somebody, but what gets you to actually BE with that person? The Pisces influenced people I know are serial daters, like you would think a Sag is, and it takes them a long time to get wrangled down. IP: Logged |
CatMote Knowflake Posts: 497 From: Fighting Neptune for his trident Registered: Apr 2013
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posted October 20, 2013 03:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: You might fall in love with somebody, but what gets you to actually BE with that person? The Pisces influenced people I know are serial daters, like you would think a Sag is, and it takes them a long time to get wrangled down.
i COULD be a serial dater. i choose not to be. it comes down to nobody that ive met wants to date or have a serious relationship with me. it would be all hook ups, and i aint cool with that. i think it comes down to fear of being rejected AFTER, thats the reason i dont hook up. guess i got a little off topic, but what gets me to BE with that person, is an acceptance of me as i have accepted them.
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babybull82 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 20, 2013 03:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: ^ If you would have lacked earth in your chart then it would have been unstable but both of you have earth so it will work. Are you a Taurus? I've never met a Taurus with Venus in Pisces.
Yup! Taurus sun/Virgo moon/Venus in Pisces, that's me!!!
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babybull82 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 04:53 AM
So apparently I lied, I HAVE dated another VIP. I just found out tonight that my ex (we were together for a year) who I dated like 10 yrs ago and are still really good friends with has this placement. He let me do his chart and viola he has Venus in Pisces. I don't think I can really get any thing from that though we were both really young..but there are some things that make total since now with him that I didn't understand at the time we were dating. Oh and btw, we were together for a year and NEVER HAD SEX. Yup! Weird right? I asked him if he just didn't find me attractive and he said it wasn't that it's just that in the beginning he was all gong-ho about it, but then after while he was afraid of getting hurt and getting too attached..so no sex. But for whatever reason though it worked for us and I broke up with him because at the time he was very insecure and I felt smothered. Eventually we probably would have had sex, but like I said we didn't last no longer than a year. It makes so much since why we both fell for each other so fast and just kind of fell into being bf/gf with out making it official...you know the lack of boundaries.IP: Logged |