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Topic: obsessive tendencies in love in the natal chart?
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whitewitch111
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From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 20, 2013 07:17 AM
  
What aspects/placements would make a person obsessive in love in the natal chart? I ask because I believe my boyfriend and I may have them.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 20, 2013 07:43 AM
In Synastry I think a combination of Saturn, Pluto, and Venus or Mercury. 8H and 7H and possibly 5H, which I only say because I have Pluto there and would call myself obsessed, unfortunately.IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
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From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
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posted October 20, 2013 07:44 AM
I've heard of people with Pluto in the seventh house being obsessive? Is that true?
Also my Pluto falls in my partner's eighth house in Scorpio. Would that make him very obsessive with me?IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 20, 2013 10:05 AM
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Originally posted by whitewitch111:
I've heard of people with Pluto in the seventh house being obsessive? Is that true?
Also my Pluto falls in my partner's eighth house in Scorpio. Would that make him very obsessive with me?
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PeterPan
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posted October 20, 2013 11:11 AM
I have a scorpio DSC conjunct pluto and i am probably the most obsessive person i know when it comes to relationships, i remember when i was a kid i was in love with a girl but she had a boyfriend, so i befriended him and manipulated him into breaking up with her. (i know pretty crazy but i was like 9)IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 20, 2013 11:21 AM
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Originally posted by PeterPan:
I have a scorpio DSC conjunct pluto and i am probably the most obsessive person i know when it comes to relationships, i remember when i was a kid i was in love with a girl but she had a boyfriend, so i befriended him and manipulated him into breaking up with her. (i know pretty crazy but i was like 9)
Pluto people are smart like that  I like Pluto in a natal chart provided it isn't projecting a crazy, violent personality. I think evolved Plutonians use strategy and cunning instead of overwhelming their opponent, and that's what makes them so magical. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
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From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 20, 2013 11:25 AM
Neptune because anyone likes a fantasy over the mundane reality, it becomes an addiction because the fantasy is just so good. IP: Logged |
Felis Leo
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From: London
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 20, 2013 11:49 AM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Neptune because anyone likes a fantasy over the mundane reality, it becomes an addiction because the fantasy is just so good.
Venus square pluto? Guilty as charged!
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“Perhaps one did not want to be loved so much as to be understood.”
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hannaramaa
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posted October 20, 2013 11:51 AM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Neptune because anyone likes a fantasy over the mundane reality, it becomes an addiction because the fantasy is just so good.
Neptune is more subconscious than addictive and easier to let go than Pluto, though. If one is looking for something other than Pluto to explain such tendencies then possibly Saturn because it, too, clings and attaches itself to something long-term. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted October 20, 2013 11:58 AM
^ The problem with Neptune is that Neptune does not even know that it is obsessed with it. Saturn gets rid of things that it considers useless.IP: Logged |
PeterPan
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posted October 20, 2013 12:48 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Pluto people are smart like that I like Pluto in a natal chart provided it isn't projecting a crazy, violent personality. I think evolved Plutonians use strategy and cunning instead of overwhelming their opponent, and that's what makes them so magical.
I do agree it's the most intelligent way to go about things. but i think the plutonian way often has voilence as plan B if the manipulation dosent work. a guy i got into a fight with in high school had pluto square mars and he was crazy, and he got into fights all the time and got knocked out and broke he's jaw by one guy. and then him and he's "gang" went to take revenge and almost killed the guy.
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NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 157
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 20, 2013 01:34 PM
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Originally posted by PeterPan:
I do agree it's the most intelligent way to go about things. but i think the plutonian way often has voilence as plan B if the manipulation dosent work. a guy i got into a fight with in high school had pluto square mars and he was crazy, and he got into fights all the time and got knocked out and broke he's jaw by one guy. and then him and he's "gang" went to take revenge and almost killed the guy.
That's harsh, off topic abit here, but i have mars trine pluto and the only times i have violent tendancies is if i'm pushed to the edge on a mental level, if someone tries to bully me or play mind games i will fight back, if they push it to far that's when i feel like stabbing them in the face x100 times. Although mars/pluto in synastry can be obsessed with sex, all my relationships have had this aspect and all you want to do is have sex all the time lol.
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iliketurtles
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From: 2099
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 20, 2013 08:35 PM
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Originally posted by PeterPan:
I have a scorpio DSC conjunct pluto and i am probably the most obsessive person i know when it comes to relationships, i remember when i was a kid i was in love with a girl but she had a boyfriend, so i befriended him and manipulated him into breaking up with her. (i know pretty crazy but i was like 9)
lol oh dear. well did she fall madly in love with you after that?  IP: Logged |
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