posted October 20, 2013 06:59 PM            

To be honest. I do this. I've done it to several in the last year and to one woman, like you said - a few weeks/months here and there, blocking number and all.

It's definitely not a game and very real. My intent is ALWAYS to be done with that person. Last month I decided that I'm done with this woman (she was just a friend but we went out or a couple weeks a year ago).
She's messaged me and I have no intention of ever responding.

posted October 20, 2013 07:29 PM            

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Originally posted by ash20:
I remained very calm the last time we talked, even when he was taking forever to respond.
The thing that bothers me though is that i asked him if he wanted us to be over for good and to just tell me so i could officially move on. But he won't say it, even though he knows i need to hear it. I feel like he is keeping me hanging on by not coming right out and saying i don't think we should talk anymore.

Does this mean he doesn't care enough about me?

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posted October 20, 2013 07:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Regulus18:
You first need to understand what exactly you did. I'm a Cancer I have a Virgo best friend who did the same thing. He didn't block my number or anything. His sun is conjunct my Ascendant, we also have our moons in a 1 degree conjunction.

Ignored for a full week. I have always been very forgiving of all of his shortcomings. So two days ago I put my foot down and demanded to know what was going on lest we terminate our friendship forever(dramatics included) He finally spoke to me. I didn't like his answer so i deleted him from Facebook. Only to have him accept me back 2 hours later. In a month we will begin our friendship anew.

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It was a misunderstanding but he didn't really let me clear it up. He just automatically assumed the worse.
When i act all dramatic he does respond sometimes but he tells me im being over dramatic lol. Yet when i stay calm that seems to **** him off even more because he didn't get a reaction out of me!

The last time this happened i had started to move on and get over the hope of him ever coming back. Then out of no where he did! And i went right back to being attached to him but only for a week later him to be shutting me out again.
I'm at the point now where i feel its best we never talk again (no matter how bad i really want to) bc i don't want to get attached again for him to rip it all away again! It's very painful & i haven't felt this hurt by a guy in two years.

posted October 20, 2013 07:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Zander916:
It's punishment. That's why he's purposely not saying anything knowing that if you do not know why, it is punishment in itself.

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Thanks for replying. You're helping me understand this alot better! At first i thought it was some kind of game but i can see its more serious than that. He probably won't ever speak to me again seeing as to how we've been through this more than once.

posted October 20, 2013 08:50 PM            

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Originally posted by ash20:
Thanks for replying. You're helping me understand this alot better! At first i thought it was some kind of game but i can see its more serious than that. He probably won't ever speak to me again seeing as to how we've been through this more than once.

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Yeah. I'm not trying to snuff out your hope and of course I'm not him.
Most likely he will never forget.
Usually if I do that it's because I feel like the OTHER person is being fickle. Actually I don't remember having any other reason for it.

You're very welcome. I'm glad that I can help.

posted October 21, 2013 09:55 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Please don't play games with a Scorpio Moon even if he started them. You will only lose more.

Leave him be.

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I have been leaving him alone and i never tried to play games with him. I just hate feeling like i don't know if he's gone for good this time.
Why couldn't he tell me that?? Even when i asked?
From this experience i think scorpio moons (not all) play too many head games! ..and it's always a double standard. He could question who im hanging out with but i couldn't do the same.
I still want him though and i don't want to think about him with someone else.

posted October 21, 2013 03:45 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Please don't play games with a Scorpio Moon even if he started them. You will only lose more.

Leave him be.

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posted October 21, 2013 04:14 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I've heard this sooo many times before (also irl) that I'm starting to believe this is the general behavior of virgo men saying "go away"

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posted October 21, 2013 05:12 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Every time one of these "Virgo ignoring me" threads they always seem to have a scorpio moon.

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posted October 21, 2013 05:36 PM            

For one, it's not random for them in the slightest, rofl. He's probably been thinking and thinking and wondering if he should pop in and then finally just does it. So, even though it's random when you look at it face value - just know this was something he contemplated over, which means he was thinking of you all the time but keeping to himself.

posted October 21, 2013 07:47 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Every time one of these "Virgo ignoring me" threads they always seem to have a scorpio moon.

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posted October 21, 2013 07:58 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Okay, maybe I have no sense of self as an Aries but I ALWAYS seem to identify with descriptions of Virgos! And I do the ignoring thing too. In fact, I do the ignoring thing with Sagittarius the most! AH. And like Zander said, it's because I think they're being fickle and there's something I don't trust about them but I'm always IMMENSELY attracted so I get sucked in easy (I know, have some self-control. "But Mooooooommm they're a Sag.")And like your Virgo, I popped up randomly again.

For one, it's not random for them in the slightest, rofl. He's probably been thinking and thinking and wondering if he should pop in and then finally just does it. So, even though it's random when you look at it face value - just know this was something he contemplated over, which means he was thinking of you all the time but keeping to himself.

Give him space, but it's good that you're trying to get in contact with him at least. I wish the Sag I knew would try to contact me. But he doesn't care, lol.

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Well im kinda relieved to know that he may have been contemplating everything during the time we weren't speaking.
Do you have virgo anywhere in your chart??

posted October 21, 2013 08:02 PM            

I have Virgo IC (4H) and Mercury is my chart ruler, with a strongly aspected Moon and Mercury (though not with each other), but yeah the IC is how we were born and our MC is what were to learn how to be or grow into. So its natural to me to be Virgo-an! Harder to be a Pisces lol.

I just noticed - you have Venus in Aries square Neptune like me! SO, considering this are you sure things are as good with you and Virgo as they seem? Is it worth saving?

posted October 21, 2013 08:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
Venus in aries in general tend to be attracted to challenge (remember low self esteem people can't stand challenge)
I feel your pain :'(

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Aww thank you lol. I try not to come on too strong but at the same time i don't have time for Bs.