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Topic: Obssession with one person
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DaniPepper87
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From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 30, 2013 03:37 PM
  
Well, I'm having a bad time to forget about my ex, it lasted just 3 weeks, but was too intense for me. I'll list some of synastry I have with him:My Sun Conjunct his Pluto at 0.05 degree
My Pluto Conjunct his Moon at 2.51 degree
My Venus Opposite his Mars 3.55 degree
My Venus Square his Sun 2.26
My Saturn Square his Mercury 2.56 degree I don't know what more. I was ok in the first 3 weeks after the break-up, but now I'm not ok. Just wandering what the **** is happening with this synastry. Thanks for any help here! IP: Logged |
Enigma9
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posted October 30, 2013 05:40 PM
it's that sun/pluto. I have sun square his pluto. im obsessed.IP: Logged |
PeterPan
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posted October 30, 2013 06:09 PM
I got super obsessed with a girl who had her moon conjuncting my pluto once, i even took the buss all the way across town to "randomly" bump into her where she worked hahaha altough i'm generally quite obsessive(pluto conjunct DSC in scorpio) this one was made me pretty crazy, i still check out what she's doing on facebook every now and then lolIP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted October 30, 2013 06:26 PM
Horrible obsession has to be Nessus and Dejanira and also the Child asteroid. Have you checked any of these out, Dani, Sweetheart.------------------
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KAMcA10
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posted October 30, 2013 06:48 PM
According to Vedic astrology the North Node of the Moon is Rahu or the "obsession point" in your chart. I suppose you could ask yourself what about someone you are "obsessed with" and look if your North Node makes any notable aspects to their chart. IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87
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From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 30, 2013 10:51 PM
I'm posting the synastry charts with the asteroids Ami pointed. Me inside, he outside. As I noticed in another post I have here, his Mars is conjuncting my Child but I don't know if just this one is enough for the obsession.
http://img196.imageshack.us/img196/4969/lkma.gif Thanks for all the answers!  IP: Logged |
11nahyt
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From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
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posted October 30, 2013 10:56 PM
You two have moon/Pluto both ways as well!And I think sun/Pluto both ways too IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted October 31, 2013 05:16 AM
^ Exactly.Double whammies can be lethal, especially when Pluto's in the equation. Looks like you have Saturn opposite Mars as well.
Famous for creating issues of all kinds but also for being the "glue" that makes it hard to part ways (at least mentally). IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87
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From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 31, 2013 06:33 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
^ Exactly.Double whammies can be lethal, especially when Pluto's in the equation. Looks like you have Saturn opposite Mars as well.
Famous for creating issues of all kinds but also for being the "glue" that makes it hard to part ways (at least mentally).
Yes, we once talked about this. It was hard for us to go home when together. But he played with my heart, lied to me about somethings. Even with this, it's hard to forget about him. We don't have contact anymore. But the Pluto person feels more than the Moon one? Mars opposite Venus I know that's a famous one for pursuing. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted October 31, 2013 06:40 AM
There's no real way of knowing.Usually, the inner planet feels it more - but here you have it both ways, so it'd have a similar effect on you both.
However, if you want more precision, you can also look at the natal charts and see who has the strongest Pluto - because Plutonians are naturally more inclined to find it hard to let go. One thing's for sure though: if he doesn't contact you anymore, it's over. Don't waste your time thinking about the what ifs and move on. IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87
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From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 31, 2013 06:47 AM
How to know how has the strongest Pluto? As I'm Scorpio ASC, Pluto is my ruler, right?You are right. I need to move on. I'm trying but it's very hard. Next time I'll run away from guys how have moon/pluto conjunctions...  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted October 31, 2013 06:50 AM
Well, the person who has the most aspected Pluto, or a strong Scorpio / 8th house influence.You're definitely very Plutonian, so it makes sense that you'd find it hard to let go. It's okay to take some time before fully moving on. Just keep in mind that you have a life to live. =) IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87
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posted October 31, 2013 07:00 AM
Doux Rêve, thanks for all! Astrology is just fascinating!!IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted October 31, 2013 07:04 AM
You're welcome, Dani.
And yes, it definitely is, haha.IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted October 31, 2013 07:11 AM
What about composite Pluto-Moon square? Can it be felt when the two persons are not in a relationship and the orb is quite wide (6-7 degrees)? His pluto sextiles my moon exactly in synastry.
Looks like we both have some deep internal issues and now we are projecting these on each other... the tension is palpable when we see each other. Then we dont see a long time and we process... and when we see again, new issues come up, but there is some progress. And the cycle repeats itself. Im wondering if we will ever be comfortable with each other again like we were before we became closer. We have Chiron/Pluto DW as well.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted October 31, 2013 07:15 AM
I'm not sure, the orb is pretty wide.
Could it be something in the synastry?
How does it feel to you, jjj?IP: Logged |
filleaspirant
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posted October 31, 2013 07:21 AM
Hm, I'd think obssessing like this to be a natal Pluto-Venus square. I have it and if I don't put a reign in my mindset, I can go ballistic and obssess over every little thing.I also tend to attract guys that put their Pluto square to my Venus--and it SUCKS. I hate the drama and tension it creates. IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted October 31, 2013 07:32 AM
Doux Reve,thanks for asking... apart from his Pluto exactly trining my Sun and sextiling my Moon my Pluto exactly opposes his Mercury and his Pluto is parallel my AC in declinations. There can be other aspects because I dont know his birth time. In compo (but we are not in rel.ship) Pluto makes minor aspects to all personals.
We both seem to be obsessed and he reacts to this avoiding me  . Which is pretty bad because the attraction is strong also on his part. We cannot even be in the same room, he avoids looking at me and has always tortured grin on his face. Before it used to be a tender smile when I was around . I miss him so much. And I want to touch him hahaha. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted October 31, 2013 07:46 AM
The way you described it, jjj, it definitely sounds like a Plutonian issue mixed with some Lunar issues.Any Saturn in there at all? Usually Saturn creates the fear / detachment after a while (although Pluto can certainly act like a harda$$ as well). You're the one who always seems to be attracted to and attract unavailable or problematic men, aren't you? What in your natal explains that, in your opinion? IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted October 31, 2013 08:00 AM
His Saturn conjuncts my sun and sextiles my Moon (both 4 degrees), my Saturn sextiles exactly his Sun and squares his Moon (can be wider orb). His Saturn is parallel my Sun/Mercury/DC in declinations. In helio (Im interested in magi) my Saturn conjuncts his Venus exactly, we have Chiron/Saturn squares both in geo and helio plus tons of Uranus aspects (and Neptune). I have always been attracted to problematic men, yes, he is the second married one I have been attracted to. But I could drop him and his clone would come around... so I prefer to work on this one, and he is magnetic and charming  . What causes it? Dunno... I have Saturn opp Venus in natal and Pluto square Sun tight orb and a Scorpio stellium (moon-venus-mars-jupi)... cut out for painXD.
Ahah... and Ive discovered that I have Venus parallel Chiron in helio latitudes. I attract other Venus/Chiron or Venus/Saturn individuals (he has Venus square Saturn in geo and Venus square Chiron in helio natal). Thanks, DR. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted October 31, 2013 08:28 AM
Oh, beautiful, I remember now.
Venus/Saturn + Scorpio. Mhm, you're a gentle soul and can be deeply hurt by people; you may not "allow" yourself to get involved with someone 100% (even subconsciously) to prevent a possible rejection, as paradoxical as it may sound.I'm pretty sure we talked about it some time in the past... If you keep being attracted to people who aren't completely open to receiving and giving love, something's still not resolved in you, methinks. I know it sounds repetitive, everyone keeps saying that... But I think it's true (coming from someone who deals with the same issue). Anyway, I hope you'll find satisfaction in your personal life very soon, I'm sure you have lots of good things to offer; you just need to find that special person who'll appreciate you for you.  And you're welcome.
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jjj
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posted October 31, 2013 08:39 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
you may not "allow" yourself to get involved with someone 100% (even subconsciously) to prevent a possible rejection, as paradoxical as it may sound.
Wow. I have been suspecting the same, but always blaming the other one... and you confirmed that now. Im working in that direction, opening my heart. This pisces is cracking it wide open haha. Danke, Doux, vom ganzen Herz (you are from Germany... ? - I learn German) You made my day... I needed to hear that. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted October 31, 2013 08:49 AM
Aw, you're welcome, jjj.
Haha, nope, I'm not from Germany, sadly!
Love the language though.
Ich liebe dich is all I know.
Oh and "natürlich".  I'm glad I could help you.
Take good care of yourself, okay? IP: Logged |
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