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Topic: Taurus Sun, Taurus Moon, Capricorn Ascendant.
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Yanmorg
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posted November 01, 2013 04:03 PM
  
As a Scorpio female, Moon in Libra, Ascendant in Taurus, Venus in Scorpio, Mercury in Scorpio, and mars in Sagittarius I am finding it extremely difficult understanding my Taurus Sun, Moon in Taurus, Ascendant in Capricorn, Venus in Cancer, mars in Cancer, mercury in Aries guy. We've been involved with one another for about 1 year and 4 months now and it's been mostly great, but after all this time, I still do not know how to handle his silent days. I wouldn't call them disappearing acts because he's been doing this since we started seeing each other and when we do communicate again after a week or a few days, he always tells me he's either been busy or he just simply needed his space. He has never been dishonest with his actions or his intentions. I just find it difficult to just relax and be patient when we don't communicate. I either drive my self crazy by over-analyzing and over-thinking his silence or sometimes I send him numerous amounts of messages which is not acceptable. My biggest fear is that he won't come back but he always does. I know he cares for me by the things he does when we're together and sometimes, when we're not. He's extremely patient and understanding with me for the most part, he bought me the same exact necklace as his mom for Christmas, he always pumps my gas at the gas station, he opens doors for me, and he spends time with me when he can. I just want to know how can I deal with this distance? I don't want to eventually lose him because even with his flaws, he's a good guy. What can I do? I have a social life and a job so I'm not super needy or anything. Do Taurus men just cut ties without letting you know? If he says he's busy, is that usually true? I know all men are different, but just judging from his placements, what do you think? He doesn't show much, if any emotion ever either. We're also just friends at this point in our relationship because he's trulying to focus on getting his finances in order and he said a relationship would be a distraction. IP: Logged |
PeterPan
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posted November 01, 2013 04:22 PM
I'm a Gemini altough i have Taurus Moon and Asc and i don't do that lol i even have Uranus square Moon, yeah days maybe, but not weeks. If not the Capricorn placment maybe something else in he's chart. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted November 01, 2013 09:22 PM
What's your Venus and Mars placements? That might have something to do with it and I didn't say weeks. I said a few days, sometimes a week depending on the circumstances.IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 01, 2013 09:27 PM
All his signs are like little kids... and your signs are emotionally mature. He needs you like a kid would need a parent. I think I said this you before - this relationship can work if you are happy in a parental role - but if you want an equal partner - forget him. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 01, 2013 09:30 PM
About his silences - judging by his placements - either it is true and he is genuinely busy and needs space... OR... he is being emotionally attention seeking.
He definitely does not have the know-how to play games properly or manipulate people (that you do as a Scorpio).. so please don't read too much into it. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted November 01, 2013 09:55 PM
I don't mind that role at all. I would actually love to be the dominant one overall. It doesn't take away from his masculinity either because he's as sexy as a Taurus man can be and then some. Haha. I'm guessing those Cancer placements make him crave a parental partner. IP: Logged |
PeterPan
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posted November 02, 2013 05:21 PM
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
What's your Venus and Mars placements? That might have something to do with it and I didn't say weeks. I said a few days, sometimes a week depending on the circumstances.
Mars 29.58 degrees taurus conjucnt asc and mercury in 1st house Venus 19 degrees gemini conjunct sun in 1st house altough sun is 2nd. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 654
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 06:08 PM
Opposites Attract. You complete one another. This is a push and pull type of thing. With the Cancer Mars and Venus, you have a Trine. These Planets are very well-placed.You both complement and oppose one another, it can be difficult to reconcile. The Venus-Mars helps. I wonder where Saturn sits? IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted November 02, 2013 07:17 PM
Yes he said he loved me for the first time last night! He would always show it, but he never said it or anything close to it until last night.IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 654
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 08:32 PM
Taurus doesn't like to do anything TOO quickly...Cherish this! IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted November 02, 2013 08:37 PM
ohh i used to see a taurus/cap/libra who would disappear. my double taurus boyfriend is like obsessed with me, though. like he could never nor ever want to ignore me
(taurus/taurus/scorp) i think if he didnt want you in his life - you wouldn't be in it. but i do think it's possible he's still feeling it out. and if youre okay with this and im right - then continue to be patient. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 654
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 08:43 PM
quote:
Originally posted by PeterPan:
Mars 29.58 degrees taurus conjucnt asc and mercury in 1st houseVenus 19 degrees gemini conjunct sun in 1st house altough sun is 2nd.
That Mars is as Anaretic as it can get. (Fate Degree.) IP: Logged |
PeterPan
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posted November 03, 2013 12:49 PM
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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
That Mars is as Anaretic as it can get. (Fate Degree.)
So what's that mean? IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 654
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 03, 2013 01:01 PM
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Originally posted by PeterPan:
So what's that mean?
Taking it a bit out of context, since I only know a bit about the placement, but: Don't move too quickly, try to avoid all or nothing attitudes. Try to avoid dangerous situations when Transits activate this Planet. You are positive about birthtime? I would pay close attention to this, as it is so prominent. Eclipses are hitting it, one on the seventeenth. Mercury is in Gemini? IP: Logged |
PeterPan
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posted November 03, 2013 01:05 PM
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Originally posted by PeterPan:
So what's that mean?
I read about it just now and i realized i fit allot of the descriptions; I often plan allot ahead but when i come in the situation i just do wathever i see fit, i also have a wonderful intuition but i tend to doubt it so i don't usually act on it. I'm way to impulsive aswell, i jumped off the handles on our terrace to get to our other terrace and fell down 6 meeters and broke my arm lol. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 654
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 03, 2013 01:11 PM
That's it, slow down; so impulsive acts don't bite you in the tail.Especially while the Eclipses last. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 654
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 03, 2013 01:19 PM
Gemini's need their arms intact. For proper communication and all.I think it is getting past the point, this may be the last one to hit it. IP: Logged |
PeterPan
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posted November 03, 2013 01:50 PM
That's sounds like good reasoning, altough the bone has healed i still have innflamation which have been there for over a year now. But I'm gonna try being less impulsive...it's just really hard because it's so natural to me. Maybe if i learn to be more patient and stop trying to do stuff so fast.IP: Logged |
PeterPan
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posted November 03, 2013 01:54 PM
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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Taking it a bit out of context, since I only know a bit about the placement, but:Don't move too quickly, try to avoid all or nothing attitudes. Try to avoid dangerous situations when Transits activate this Planet. You are positive about birthtime? I would pay close attention to this, as it is so prominent. Eclipses are hitting it, one on the seventeenth. Mercury is in Gemini?
Yeah my birth thime is correct, might be one minute off but nothing more than that. Ill have to read more about eclipses as i'm not very familiar with them. No my mercury is in taurus, conjuncting the mars. Also out of curiosity what's your birthtime and date? 
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Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 654
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 03, 2013 05:28 PM
We-ll,Taurus Rising, meet Taurus Rising! Although my Moon is closer to your Mars! Maybe right on your Mercury, who knows... IP: Logged |
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