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Topic: Personality traits you hate
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6690
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 02:29 AM
  
What personality traits really bug you?For example Lila from Hey Arnold, people who are too pleasant and cutesy often bug me..
Is there anything interesting brewing underneath that facade.
I think it's my prominent mars energy...
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Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1847
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 02:37 AM
I hate being romantic.
It clouds my logic and I end up getting hurt in the end.
It holds me back in general as well.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6690
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 02:45 AM
How does that effect your personality, seems more like a mentality.
So do you serenade to crushes under the moonlight? :PIP: Logged |
starrystratosphere
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Registered: May 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 02:51 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
serenade to crushes under the moonlight? :P
 sounds loVEly.lol I generally do not care or notice what other half-wit things people around me are doing but I think mines would have to be people who go out of their way and get in my business. So, nosy people irritate me just a little bit. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1847
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 02:51 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
How does that effect your personality, seems more like a mentality.
So do you serenade to crushes under the moonlight? :P
No, I'm way to nervous to do that.
Only if I am more comfortable around them. I like doing things for them, remembering all their personal details such as things they like, dislike, birthday, etc. When I hear them say it out loud or I notice it in them.
Complementing them, try to do anything I can to make them happy even though I'm not even their bf. Help them with school work, (sometimes when I don't feel like doing the work, I'll do it just to let her copy my answers or so I know what to do so I can help her) be a gentleman, offer them things, go out of my way to make them happy or get them something, etc. I make her my primary objective, she's always in my mind, how can I prove myself to her, etc. And that's what holds me back because I should stop and focus on more productive things like my school work because I know I will most likely end up getting hurt anyway. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6690
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 02:56 AM
LOL merc
Now this guy is a true romantic, take notes.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9gnPJ3GYQG8 IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1847
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 03:00 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
LOL merc
Now this guy is a true romantic, take notes.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9gnPJ3GYQG8
So you're saying I'm not a true romantic? I seen that and I feel really bad. That's so fake though, don't you see what the train says?
Yes, that's super romantic.
But when you have low self-confidence, you can't do all of those things that you want to do. Read my other post, I added some things to it.
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Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1847
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 03:05 AM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
No, I'm way to nervous to do that.
Only if I am more comfortable around them.I like doing things for them, remembering all their personal details such as things they like, dislike, birthday, etc. When I hear them say it out loud or I notice it in them.
Complementing them, try to do anything I can to make them happy even though I'm not even their bf. Help them with school work, (sometimes when I don't feel like doing the work, I'll do it just to let her copy my answers or so I know what to do so I can help her) be a gentleman, offer them things, go out of my way to make them happy or get them something, etc. I make her my primary objective, she's always in my mind, how can I prove myself to her, etc. And that's what holds me back because I should stop and focus on more productive things like my school work because I know I will most likely end up getting hurt anyway.
Keep in mind that I'm not even her bf and I'm doing those things, so imagine if we were dating.
I would do wayyyyyyy more, but I don't want to appear weird or creepy since we aren't even in a relationship. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6690
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 03:09 AM
That's nice!
Most couples should do that for each other.
A bad boyfriend is someone who just sits on the couch and plays video games all day and a bad girlfriend is one who expects everything to be handed to her on a silver platter. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1847
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 03:13 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
That's nice!
Most couples should do that for each other.
A bad boyfriend is someone who just sits on the couch and plays video games all day and a bad girlfriend is one who expects everything to be handed to her on a silver platter.
Yeah, thanks  I just want an all encompassing romantic/intellectual relationship with a girl. I don't really care about the sexual part of the relationship, but I would do it in a heartbeat if she wanted to just to make her happy. I would do anything, because when she's happy, I'm happy, and that is seriously the truth from the bottom of my heart. IP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 874
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 03:32 AM
Dry, bitter, overly pessimistic, cynical people... Well I think they're alright, as long as they don't pour water over my bon-fire. There isn't anything more annoying than having someone telling you that your dreams, your ideals, or what you like are unachievable/silly/childish...etc... and that you're doomed to fail. Ughh. IP: Logged |
Supermeggs12
Knowflake Posts: 135
From: California
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 04:59 AM
I don't like bossy, and dominating people! I'm not really sure what in my natal chart makes me like this, though. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 3614
From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 05:54 AM
I don't like people who are squares, take everything literally or seriously, can't joke around...ehg.I also don't like guys who are overtly masculine and are always trying to prove their strength n sh#t...like shut up, no one cares, you ape.  IP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 1349
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 06:02 AM
I can't stress how much I hate vanity and superficiality.
People who are clingy and can't leave you for a second to breath. I better live in hell than to be with those.
Also the ones who are overtly flirty and cute and try to charm everyone. I see this as insecurity, seeking for an external approval.
No offense , but any Libra-ian character repels me, no wonder we are opposites.IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 2762
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Registered: May 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 06:13 AM
Arrogance is one for sure! It's enough for me to simply walk off lol - with no explanations...People who seem aloof or stuck in their own heads, non-communicative (the opposite of gemini behaviour) - also bother me! I wouldn't say I hate this, but I prefer expressive people who can have a proper conversation with me. People who are aggressive for no real reason.. They remind me of those little dogs (like some chihuahuas) barking at everything. People who are scared and paranoid over everything under the Sun.. scared other people won't like them, scared to be honest, scared they'll fail at something, scared to take action, scared not to take action, scared to walk out the door, scared to go against the grain, scared to be who they are, scared to trust their instincts/intuition... I don't know - just scared.. O_O
They make me feel edgy. IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan
Knowflake Posts: 357
From: Canada
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 06:28 AM
Oops replied to the wrong thread ~ Sorry! IP: Logged |
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