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Topic: Flirty vs unflirty
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Odette
Knowflake Posts: 2790
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Registered: May 2012
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posted November 06, 2013 08:26 PM
  
I'm usually flirty! Dignified Venus in the 11th on NN.
I just find it easy to be flirty with just about everyone lolIP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1937
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 06, 2013 08:27 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I try to comment on the post as much as possible.
I sometimes do, if I'm enjoying the topic or people in it. I hope I didn't offend you in any way because I said that, I meant that I notice you comment on the people's responses to the thread rather than the thread itself if you know what I mean  IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5281
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 06, 2013 09:20 PM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
I sometimes do, if I'm enjoying the topic or people in it.I hope I didn't offend you in any way because I said that, I meant that I notice you comment on the people's responses to the thread rather than the thread itself if you know what I mean
Sometimes, I mostly start with the first post though and then discuss with others who are commenting later. I am not offended btw. I just couldn't think of what to say. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1937
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 06, 2013 09:24 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Sometimes, I mostly start with the first post though and then discuss with others who are commenting later. I am not offended btw. I just couldn't think of what to say.
Okay, I'm glad you aren't offended because I felt that the way I said it seemed cold and less light. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5281
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 06, 2013 09:34 PM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Okay, I'm glad you aren't offended because I felt that the way I said it seemed cold and less light.
I am thinking you haven't seen many posts where I responded to the topic without reading the other replies, lol. There's plenty like that!
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Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1937
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 06, 2013 09:36 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
[b] Okay, I'm glad you aren't offended because I felt that the way I said it seemed cold and less light.
I am thinking you haven't seen many posts where I responded to the topic without reading the other replies, lol. There's plenty like that![/B][/QUOTE]Yeah, that's probably why IP: Logged |
LionFish
Knowflake Posts: 875
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 07, 2013 06:38 AM
I'm a super flirt  I flirt with everyone around me almost all the time, sometimes unintentionally. I've had to remove myself from some uncomfortable situations because people took it too seriously, though. Just because I smile and wink, touch your arm, maybe even blow a kiss your way, doesn't mean that I want to sleep with you lol If I'm really attracted to somebody I actually all but lose my ability to flirt until I know they're interested, too. But as soon as I know it's reciprocated, I'm a lioness on the prowl. I love to chase and be chased (even if it's just for a fleeting moment) and flirting is the easiest way to accomplish that  Leo ASC trine Aries Venus 9H, Sag Mars 5H eta: I do mean everyone. Every person likes feeling that they impressed someone or at the very least made their head turn. I think anyone who's ever worked in a tipped position can agree that people LIKE to be flirted with. So much so that some will pay for it It boosts confidence and makes them feel like they've been acknowledged. Some people take it too far, but those are the people who have no idea how to read others. If somebody doesn't respond after a few sentences with my normal body language/tone I tend to turn it off because I feel like my awesomeness isn't appreciated. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 6374
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 07, 2013 08:00 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I don't want to be thought of as a flighty flirt but rather a serious intellectual or something like that, a nerd or geek that people flock to for divine wisdom and knowledge in a chosen field. That's my ultimate dream!This pattern overrides my Libra ascending sign and Venus, I think, and people have commented I don't flirt enough. It's only because what I really hope for, more than anything, is to be acknowledged as a complete, competent, expert and scholar in the field of my choosing.
 I can relate! I often act that way. Until my Gemini & Libra energies kick in... Then I can be quite flirty. 
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12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 914
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 08:17 AM
venus on the ascendant - I like giving compliments, winks...etc.. and like to be pleasant. Some people think that's flirting, but to me it's just ... being pleasant. saturn on the ascendant - I'm only in my "flirting mode" (a.k.a: perv mode) when I come into contact with my object(s) of desire. Well I'm married, so now I flirt with only one person haha  IP: Logged |
Bluejay
Knowflake Posts: 74
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 11:34 PM
I think I do flirt a lot, but I don't consider flirting to mean that you are romantically interested in someone. I consider it more of playful banter, and as a woman I flirt with women just as much as men. I have 5 planets in Libra so maybe I just see it as more about turning up the charm, rather than sending out a message that I'm interested. I think flirting is just being friendly, and I love when someone else has that same vibe. I'm also a Scorpio sun, Mercury and Uranus which is my chart ruler, so sometimes I like to talk about things that are a bit risqué. I love to make people blush, but I try to avoid making them feel uncomfortable. It's all in good fun, and I only do it when the setting is appropriate, like at a party or out with friends. I think flirting is more innocent, but it gets confused with people sending out unwanted sexual advances. Like men undressing women with heir eyes and looking at them like a dog drooling over a steak, when the woman clearly isn't feeling it. To me that's not flirtatious it's just plain creepy, and the guy is usually too clueless to know the difference. I will turn into an ice queen if I'm getting that kind of unwanted attention to avoid sending out the wrong message. Flirting should be fun for both people, and if the other person isn't receptive then it's inappropriate. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
Knowflake Posts: 930
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 11:58 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I can relate! I often act that way.Until my Gemini & Libra energies kick in... Then I can be quite flirty.
My Venus in Gem agrees with the latter and is ashamed but sometimes too flirty to care! IP: Logged |
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