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From: anchorage ak
Registered: Nov 2013

posted November 07, 2013 02:11 PM            

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I have been seeing this man for almost 4 years, we are still just friends which is fine for the most part, however He says he loves me says little things to me that make me feel like he wants more does things that make me feel like he wants more, then is so cold and distant at times I get so confused I just want off this roller coaster ride, either you want me or you don't, we got into a little spat today, our spats are quite minor, however I eneded it with him and I am wondering if I leave him be and do my own thing, is there a chance he will come around...i know its not for certain are there ways I can get him to relize what he has!!!

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From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013

posted November 07, 2013 03:06 PM            

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Hmmm....

Gemini huh?
Don't listen to him. Suddenly start "forgetting" what he said and ask for it to be repeated.
Ask, "What'd you say?" as if you weren't paying enough attention to listen.

LOL

I don't play those games though. If they want to do that I just wander into the darkness.

That's what I would do although I'm a little more direct, and severing.
"You can talk to the wall for all I care. You're wasting your breath" and walk off never saying another word, ever.

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From: anchorage ak
Registered: Nov 2013

posted November 07, 2013 03:54 PM            

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I think the sad thing is I love him and I wish he could just see me, but he doesnt so I walk away hesitantly hoping he stops me

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