posted November 07, 2013 07:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:

If he gets angry at times with your intensity, its possibly because he feels the same within himself but cant express as he thinks he should, he feels blocked and your effortlessly expressing yours reminds him of something he doesnt like about himself and wishes he was more like you....but what guy is going to be aware enough to know thats why hes angry? LOL

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Very spot on! He gets angry with me sometimes and says what he feels "weighs in his chest" and he becomes confused...oh, poor guy

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Originally posted by Gabby:

but what guy is going to be aware enough to know thats why hes angry? LOL

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posted November 07, 2013 08:20 PM            

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Originally posted by DialecticLady:
They can't, only "astro ladies" like us

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Definitely!! LOL, astrology makes life easier to understand!
Since you activate his venus, you also activate that square to his venus, anyone he was sincerely attracted would....so he might feel its you that makes him feel this because he doesnt feel it when your not in his life....if that ever becomes an issue that is openly mentioned...try not to overthink it, stress to much or feel thats the end.
Men are attracted to women through their venus but they fall in love and marry with their moon...eventually the venus will become 2nd to the moon, and the stress will be less felt.
Not saying it isnt going to pop back up now and again...its inevitable because he will always feel the lust attraction!

posted November 07, 2013 09:32 PM            

The last few days he haven't answered back my last message, so I think he kinda already got bored

posted November 08, 2013 04:06 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I'm dating a libra sun guy with pisces moon, virgo mercury, libra venus and gemini mars…
(I'm myself a virgo sun, pisces moon, libra mercury, scorpio venus and virgo mars)
I'm totally fallen for him, but I begin to see the problem with his gemini mars unfortunately He seems very distant sometimes, but I thought it was his pisces moon… I begin to fear that he will be bored, because I have no fire and almost no air in my chart, so I am much more deep and steady than he is:/

The last few days he haven't answered back my last message, so I think he kinda already got bored

But what about his pisces moon wouldn't that add some more depth? He was the perfect match for me if it wasn't for this gemini mars:/

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Pisces is hard to say for sure....they can be mature, but if any of those Pisces or Virgo placements are tightly aspecting his mars....he will have a long tough road to getting to a stable mature place! Mutable signs, IMO, are the toughest to pinpoint and hold onto because they change so easily. Get one that is afflicted and you will have a hard time getting them to see their self destructive ways....they will think you are attacking them instead of seeing your trying to help them!
How close are the Gemini/Pisces and Virgo aspects?

posted November 08, 2013 05:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Pisces is hard to say for sure....they can be mature, but if any of those Pisces or Virgo placements are tightly aspecting his mars....he will have a long tough road to getting to a stable mature place! Mutable signs, IMO, are the toughest to pinpoint and hold onto because they change so easily. Get one that is afflicted and you will have a hard time getting them to see their self destructive ways....they will think you are attacking them instead of seeing your trying to help them!
How close are the Gemini/Pisces and Virgo aspects?

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posted November 08, 2013 11:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
My feelings are steady...it seems everyone gets attached to quick, think way to much into just being friends and trying to get to know each other and they move so fast i cant keep up, and dont want to....then they wonder why im backing off....they never gave me the chance to get attached before they started pressuring me about being serious. Its not fun!
Why cant we enjoy getting to know each other without all the drama and pressure immediately?

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I have a Gemini Mars, but an Aries Venus so I'm the opposite of this. I think I get my hopes up and get attached really quickly although I try not to show it.

However, someone else mentioned (I think Vickymadness) about Mars in Gemini losing interest but that doesn't mean they don't care about you and that's SO true. I also have a Taurus moon, so yay for that.

posted November 08, 2013 03:44 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Ok thanks for the answer… I don't know his precise birth time, but I have a feeling that he is born late in the evening with a cancer ascendant, cause then his mars falls in 11th house, but then it will be square his pisces moon actually, with 5-6 degrees… and then he has mars trine sun (3 degrees) and mars sextile his leo jupiter… so I don't think his mars is afflicted, but it could be that he has the moon-mars square :/
And I have moon opposition mars in my own chart so that is just wonderful:P And in mutable signs lol…

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5-6 degrees isnt to close, but still it will have an effect on his behavior....pisces moons tend to be so willing to give and give and give, until they get bitter and feel unappreciated then turn passive aggressive.
With a mars in good aspect it might help them be more reasonable and able to see they need to ask for what they need as well as give to others, with a square mars it will be emotionally uncomfortable for them to ask for what they need emotionally because being assertive about their emotions isnt easy for them.
I would say try to hep them by trying to give to them what they need....but with pisces sometimes they grow frustrated with this because being self sacrificing is what makes them feel good, so giving too much to them will make them feel stressed instead of happy.

posted November 08, 2013 03:52 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I have a Gemini Mars, but an Aries Venus so I'm the opposite of this. I think I get my hopes up and get attached really quickly although I try not to show it.

However, someone else mentioned (I think Vickymadness) about Mars in Gemini losing interest but that doesn't mean they don't care about you and that's SO true. I also have a Taurus moon, so yay for that.

I'm not even sure what my Mars likes, to be honest. It's clouded by 12th house energy (and the 12th house is ruled by Taurus). I've had a mental connection before and although I was comfortable because I could read the person, I wasn't lusting after them like normal. What IS true about my Mars in Gemini in the 12th is men who express their feelings someway. I don't want a man-baby, but sensitive guys are a turn on. ETA: I do have a thing for people who are more knowledgable than me (also have Sagittarius DSC though too) so that's where the like mentality comes in. I think the same wavelength is true for anybody not just Mars in Gemini, but Mars in Gemini wants to know you have knowledge to contribute in some way vs. just being able to understand their humor. We love facts.

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12th house makes everything different...its hard to predict the exact effect it will have....sometimes you wont feel the planet at all until the day your subconscious forces you to open up to it and heal whatever has been blocking you from using the planets energy. Sometimes they feel the energy and it drags them deeper into their issues, mainly with negative aspects...I'm sure the positive aspects will support healthy growth but 12th house issues are always hard to navigate through. I have 12th house Virgo moon, unaspected, maybe that is why I couldn't feel it at until the energy hit me all at once? Without aspects to it I has no easy way to connect to the energy. Plus "Virgo moon" is like an oxymoron....Virgo-logic/Moon-emotion

Your taurus moon is a saving grace, I love Taurus!
I have libra venus and AC, so we behave in exact opposite ways....honestly, aries push me so hard they are the ones that freak me out the most...and they are on my DC also...but i need time and they wont give it! It's an opposition that is hard for me to find the balance because I feel I'm being pushed into something before I'm really know the person....I get scared of being trapped in an unhappy situation. (Gemini mars biggest fear is being trapped in boredom, lol)