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SilverFeather
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posted November 08, 2013 03:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I mean EVERY single man I've dated seem to have some pre-dominant Virgo in him.

The first was a Virgo Mars and Moon.
The second was a Virgo Sun.
The third was a double Virgo ASC-Moon.
and the last one I'm currently dating have a Stellium in it, Venus-Mercury-Sun.

It all happens by coincidence, it is only after I date them that I realize they have major placements in Virgo.

It's so weird.... I just want to understand why this fixation on Virgos. I don't even have any planets in there, except an angle which is my ASC.

Here is my chart :


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bethbabe
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posted November 08, 2013 03:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bethbabe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hello there silver

i'm no expert, but your ascendant may be a big reason why you are attracting so many virgos. and maybe the house has to do with virgos

for me, i have ascendant in aquarius, and i have always attracted men with venus in aqua and moon in leo -_-, even though aqua is the only sign i have in my chart

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posted November 08, 2013 03:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bethbabe:
hello there silver

i'm no expert, but your ascendant may be a big reason why you are attracting so many virgos. and maybe the house has to do with virgos

for me, i have ascendant in aquarius, and i have always attracted men with venus in aqua and moon in leo -_-, even though aqua is the only sign i have in my chart


hi Beth

hmm..you're right maybe it's my Virgo ASC but that cannot be the only reason.

Okay, Virgo rules the 6th House, does it ?

I have Saturn, the ruler of my 5th house, in the house of Virgo plus Vertex and Lust..still feels like it's not enough.

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posted November 08, 2013 04:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
5 of your planets are in houses of signs mercury rules. (3rd for Gemini and 6 for Virgo) - could be related

When I was younger, I definitely attracted my ASC sign more.

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next to neptune
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posted November 08, 2013 06:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What's in your 5th house? This tells about who you attract romantically, I have 5th house in libra and I always attract libras

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posted November 08, 2013 06:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It could be due to your Virgo ASC, my ASC is in Scorpio and I keep attracting women who have planets in Scorpio.

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posted November 08, 2013 07:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The ruler of the 5th house of romance(Saturn) is in the 6th house(the natural home of Virgo).

Virgo and 6th house seem to co-incide a lot.

I have the ruler of my 5th house of romance, fun and love (Mercury) in the 8th house.

Scorpio Sun, Moon,Asc people gravitate towards me.

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posted April 07, 2018 11:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PIscibrini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
What's in your 5th house? This tells about who you attract romantically, I have 5th house in libra and I always attract libras

This is so true! I have virgo in my 5th house and I always attract virgos.

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posted April 08, 2018 12:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's your vertex axis in pisces and virgo. Karmic meetings along those signs, emphasised more because of your virgo-pisces Asc axis. They say the vertexes are like a 2nd ASC and DSC.
Your antivertex is in Virgo automatically. They say the antivertex is like the spiritual DSC. You meet many karmic relationships through it.

My antivertex is in Taurus in the 11th. I have never been in a relationship but I have a lot of friends with a prominent Taurus in their chart and I am very easily attracted to Taurus men, they're in my top 3 lol....I don't always have a good relationship with the Taurus people I meet (since my 12th house is in Taurus) but I just know that I do meet many Taurus people in my life, it's like we flock to each other in a weird way. They annoy me easily and I them (I only like a few of them haha) but it is like we always find ourselves near each other somehow someway.

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posted April 08, 2018 10:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We attract what we are IMO. Or at-least people that mirror who we are internally.

Virgos are careful,prudent,candid & usually have a intellectual predisposition that can border on obsessive.

Your chart also shows a very strong mental predisposition that can border on obsessive.

Mercury/Venus are conjunct in Sag. You may enjoy mental pursuits(likely to read). And the square aspect to Chiron in Virgo suggests that you can never get enough. You consume a lot of knowledge and "know how".

Your self image(1st house ruled by Mercury) and positive self esteem (2nd house ruled by Venus) aspected by Chiron in Virgo suggest that both are fragile or you are very critical/self conscious about them.

So you can be tough on yourself mentally (and on others too) and can be deeply wounded/angered if someone calls u 'stupid'. As you make it a point to be mentally on the ball. This anger is also established by intellectual Mars in Sag 21 squaring self-image Asc in Virgo 21 exact.

Saturn in 6th(Virgo associated house) is where this aspect plays out: You are not a person who takes it "easy" on the job. You go for the jugular and take no prisoners. Professionalism is your middle name.

Add the wide aspect of Pluto in obsessive Scorpio(natural home) in tight square aspect to "get it perfect every time" Saturn in Aqua(natural placement). And this obsessiveness is part of your personality signature.

Either you like very complex problem solving jobs that require both insight (Scorpio) and genius (Aqua). Or your job is so demanding(Sco) that you have to sacrifice your social life(Aqua)

Saturn rules the 5th house of romance btw. So mentally strong folks impress you(Saturn in Aqua). Or those who have a strong work ethic(ruler of 5th in 6th).

Meeting a romantic someone at work/career is also indicated(especially with Saturn ruling the 5th). Because the person will show the same amount of commitment to get the job done as much as you. Even at the expense of a social life

And with the Pluto (Scorpio)added square therein suggest that they are likely very obsessive about their mental depth too.

How can you NOT attract a Virgo type?

-Stellium in 3rd. With Pluto/Venus and Mercury(natural home) there.

-Pluto widely conjunct Mercury

-Mercury square Saturn.

-Mercury conjunct N.Node. This makes Mercury 0 Aries in the Draconic chart and very potent.

Guuuurl plz...sit down


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Lerena
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posted April 08, 2018 01:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm assuming your vertex in 6th house has something to do with it, but the Virgo theme does seem to be emphasized in your chart in other ways as well, mainly the ways that Aries23Degrees mentioned. For some reason, I meet a ton of Cancers and I consider my Vertex in Cancer to be what explains the bizarre amount of Cancers I encounter.

Also, the antivertex as a second DSC tends to mean being attracted to people with placements in the sign of your antivertex. I know I'm attracted to partners with Capricorn placements so perhaps you're the same way with your Antivertex in Virgo.

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hypatia238
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posted April 08, 2018 02:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gee you have virgo rising! LOL and a sh*t load of planets in Sag That would do it.

Virgo squares Sag.

Your AC tends to feel very comfortable with people who have placements in that sign. We often attract what is in our angles, angles are powerful.

WOW my Moon conjuncts exact your DC and my Southnode conjuncts exact your IC. I am a virgo and have this with my ex actually, his vertex was also on his IC conjunct my Southnode all septile my Pluto and square my Moon on his DC.

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Kannon McAfee
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posted April 08, 2018 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by SilverFeather:
It's so weird.... I just want to understand why this fixation on Virgos. I don't even have any planets in there, except an angle which is my ASC.

That's all it takes.

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posted April 13, 2018 05:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
That's all it takes.


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Lalafortunaea
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posted April 14, 2018 06:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sometimes we attract certain signs because that sign's energy has a lesson for us. I for one have never attracted my rising sign.
Though, judging by your chart, you'd do quite well with Piscean types.

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posted April 14, 2018 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Radium     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know you like it

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posted April 14, 2018 04:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Radium:
You know you like it

Haha

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hypatia238
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posted April 14, 2018 04:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Sometimes we attract certain signs because that sign's energy has a lesson for us. I for one have never attracted my rising sign.
Though, judging by your chart, you'd do quite well with Piscean types.


You might have the wrong rising sign then.

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posted April 14, 2018 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sulkyarcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
CLEAN YOUR ROOM!!!!!

Oh God, I don't know where all that came from. :.ducks:.

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posted April 14, 2018 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
You might have the wrong rising sign then.

No, it's correct. Also haven't ever attracted any signs before or after it. It's not a black and white thing. Do we have to attract our rising?

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posted April 14, 2018 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
No, it's correct. Also haven't ever attracted any signs before or after it. It's not a black and white thing. Do we have to attract our rising?

Yes we attract our angles,angles are very powerful. I dont think you can end up with someone without them activating your angles and you theirs.

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posted April 14, 2018 05:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
CLEAN YOUR ROOM!!!!!

Oh God, I don't know where all that came from. :.ducks:.


Lol

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posted April 14, 2018 06:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sulkyarcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Lol

It was just my Virgo South Node coming in. It's an impulse, like a ninja shadow!

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posted April 16, 2018 08:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your nAsc is in Virgo so that's an attractor. Throughout your life you will be a magnet for people with Sun/Moon in this sign, as well as persons going through a "Virgo Period" ...pMoon.

More precisely, at this point in time your progressed moon is transiting through Virgo. That is the reason you're experiencing a particularly concentrated number of this sign.

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