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Topic: Cancer-influence = emotionally dependant of others?
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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 442
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 09, 2013 07:32 AM
  
I just realized how dependant cancer-influenced people must be of the moods of other people?
Cause if the cancer has to feel emotionally secure to relax and come out of their shell, then it always depends on the mood of others if they will allow the cancer to come out?
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12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 924
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 09, 2013 08:22 AM
Well not all of the cancers I know do that, but some do. I think it's one way to show that they care and respect my feelings/situations. Like if I'm sad, they won't go all hyper on me and they'll most likely keep their "happy" and "bubbly" stories to themselves. "Coz I don't wanna step on your feelings" - That's what she said lol. I wouldn't call it "dependent" though, most often they actively try to lift the moods - cardinal water. It's the cutest thing.
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Cause if the cancer has to feel emotionally secure to relax and come out of their shell, then it always depends on the mood of others if they will allow the cancer to come out?
ime, that emotional security comes from within. So they come out when they feel ok with it. I do agree that to a certain extent, they are affected by others, but ime they're not affected to the point of being dependant. IP: Logged |
IrisRainbow
Knowflake Posts: 547
From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 09, 2013 09:22 AM
I belong to the cancers that do not depend on other people ESPECIALLY NOT emotionally.I even have my moon in the seventh house but i'm proving my natal chart wrong by doing 99% of the things that I like alone.IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 1201
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 09, 2013 09:36 AM
Cancers' emotional dependence is quite energy-draining for those close to them -_- I used to live with a triple Cancer and My mom is one too. I know how tiring it can get sometimes.IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 1151
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 09, 2013 10:54 AM
I can be like that but not all the time.
Cancer ASC & North node in Cancer
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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 442
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 09, 2013 12:25 PM
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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
Cancers' emotional dependence is quite energy-draining for those close to them -_- I used to live with a triple Cancer and My mom is one too. I know how tiring it can get sometimes.
I could imagine, cause they always act the same way as their surroundings… they are not party-starters… it can be a pain in the a** though, when you sometimes have to start a party somewhere!
But I just noticed that even If I really try to start a party myself, no one is with me, it's like I just can't spread the right energy if I don't feel secure or feel that others aren't feeling it… but leo/sag people have no problem with that, they don't give a sh** :S:S IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 1201
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 09, 2013 02:25 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I could imagine, cause they always act the same way as their surroundings… they are not party-starters… it can be a pain in the a** though, when you sometimes have to start a party somewhere!
But I just noticed that even If I really try to start a party myself, no one is with me, it's like I just can't spread the right energy if I don't feel secure or feel that others aren't feeling it… but leo/sag people have no problem with that, they don't give a sh** :S:S
I'm a Sag and I do my best with Cancers, I treat them as gently as possible because I know how sensitive they can be but somehow, our relationships always end terribly. IP: Logged |
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