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posted November 09, 2013 08:15 AM            

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This is a tendency I have observed with myself... Im very intense (lots of scorp planets) that makes me quite serious and working woman... the only men I attract are flirters and charmers lol. If there is a room full of serious, intense men and there is one clown, I can be sure that no serious guy is looking in my direction, but only the clown . Is it a complementarity thing maybe? That these light, flirty men take off my edge and make me relaxed and I offer some kind of grounding and foundation to them? Does anyone know any relationships like that? I have still not found my clown.

Signwise... gemini, pisces, libra men.

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posted November 09, 2013 08:37 AM            

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heh I found mine. I'm saturn dominant and my s.o is a libra sun, he's water and earth dominant though, we're compatible.

He's a charmer, likes to keep the jokes light and spin people 'round and 'round. But he's intense. There is only one or two things and only one person that I'm serious about, he's that person. So in a way, he gives me grounding. We get on each other nerves but we complete each other in many ways. It works out well for us

I've always liked libra men. Hmm it's lovely to be around them.

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posted November 09, 2013 08:38 AM            

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Hi! In what sign is your Mars? And what is the sign of your 7th house?

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posted November 09, 2013 08:57 AM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
He's a charmer, likes to keep the jokes light and spin people 'round and 'round. But he's intense.

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Aww... Im happy for you. Intense Libra is surely an exciting combination. Good that you complement each other. Id like to find my intense clown haha.

My mars/venus is in scorpio... and I have cappy descendant, with cappy Mercury near my DC. The ruler of the 7th, Saturn is in taurus and in 11th house.

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posted November 09, 2013 09:03 AM            

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Does these guys have something heavy plutonian or scorpio in their charts?

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posted November 09, 2013 09:09 AM            

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Yes, always. The libra has his libra stellium in 8th and scorp venus and we are best friends (his sun conjuncts my moon), but with 3 planets in libra conj his SN he is too soft for me and he has a drinking problem.
The pisces I crush over has Mars square Pluto and moon quincunx pluto, but I dont know his house placements.
With Saturn in m 7th and natal Venus-Mars conj/Saturn tight opposition I might very well remain single for all my life haha. I married too young and divorced after a long boring marriage.
Its just amazing how I dont find anyone... everywhere I go there is a man vacuum around me. And Ive done a lot of soul searching, really.

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posted November 09, 2013 09:41 AM            

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Ah, I understand. I think you Saturn in the 7th is making you crazy with the waiting! At least it can bring something stable, hum?

Don't worry, I do have Saturn conjunct Venus, I'm in a seraching too, I was told that I need to wait until my Saturn Return to star find love... Oh God, still 3 years ahead

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posted November 09, 2013 07:45 PM            

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lots of scorp planets? yeah..you probably attract those pisces heavy people like moths to a flame, and it probably feels really good on your part too.
thats how it is with me. i have moon mars venus in pisces and scorpio women cant seem to resist me.

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Sun Aries Moon Pisces
Mars Pisces Venus Pisces
Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo
Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio
Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn
Ascendant Libra

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posted November 09, 2013 07:54 PM            

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Apart from the Scorps, do you have lots of Pluto aspects natally, jjj?

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posted November 09, 2013 08:21 PM            

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I'm that silly one IRL who takes the edge off the serious person. I seem to be attracted to the strong silent types and they let their guard down for me. I can be serious at times, though, too.

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posted November 10, 2013 12:05 AM            

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It's not a Capricorn thing. They usually have no interest at all. But it depends on the rest of the chart.
It could be Scorpio.

I have Capricorn Moon and Mars and I would be more interested in watching paint dry for hours than interacting with the kind of guy people usually see as a "player"

This isn't even a joke. If I had a choice between those things - I would genuinely sit in a room and watch paint dry.. and I would be happier and more entertained.

But guys who are clowns - funny - happy - joking around are definitely my type. I'm attracted to them and also attract them. I have quite a few Librans and Geminis in my life who are like this

I was thrown off by the title of your thread.. because you said players/charmers etc... and then you talked about *clowns* lol
I do like clowns - but not players.

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posted November 10, 2013 06:10 AM            

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Dadoo, I have a tight Sun-Pluto square and a tight Moon-Pluto semisextile, and yes, all personals in scorp, apart Sun-Mercury.

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