posted November 10, 2013 04:10 PM            

She is very Mercurian, with Virgo Sun and Gemini Moon.

I don't usually disclose my personal issues on here much, but...this woman makes my life absolutely insufferable when she's around. It's all I can do to keep myself from telling her to get the f*ck out of my house when she's here. (Her Pholus conjunct my Mars isn't helpful.)

We have a typical Mercury opp Mars relationship that doesn't ever actually get "ugly", but there is a constant underlying hostility and competition between us. Her Mars is in Leo, which makes her even more competitive (and full of herself), and I am sick of exchanging b*tchy, passive-aggressive digs with her.

Anyone have any suggestions on how to deal constructively with this energy when the other person is probably not interested in taking the high road?

posted November 10, 2013 04:17 PM            

My Mercury is opp my Mom's Pluto and square her AC, and her Mercury is conjunct my Saturn and square my Pluto.

My son's Mercury is square my Mars, and if you count a loose orb of 8 degrees, my Mercury is also square his Mars.