posted November 10, 2013 06:32 PM            

One was just confusing and illusive, we made the choice to deluded ourselves. It ended sadly, bittersweet somehow.

posted November 12, 2013 01:38 AM            

To be with him sometimes feels like a dream, and it can be hard to even look at him because it seriously feels like I'm looking at some kind of angel/ideal person I wan't to be with…I really have to punch myself to come back into reality sometimes:P I was aware of this from the beginning so I really tried NOT to feel like this cause it seems so unreal at times, but at the same time it feels so true and like I'm swimming in a great ocean of feelings!! But it is mutual so it's nice! I can definitely feel some kind of pressure though, on me because I'm the neptune person… I can see how he thinks I'm someone I'm not, and that it can be hard for me to live up to his expectations… at some point he will probably get disappointed, but I really try to be so honest with him at possible and never hide anything, but even then it still feels like he also think I'm some kind of ideal and not a real person..

posted November 12, 2013 12:09 PM            

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The conjunction of Venus and Neptune in a romantic comparison implies a highly romantic bond between the two individuals. When they meet, there is a dreamy, other-worldly energy between them. The Venus person, in particular, finds the Neptune person inexplicably attractive - even ideal on a romantic level. There can be a tendency for the Venus person to assign the Neptune person traits of the Venus person's ideal lover. The Neptune person is generally intrigued and wants Venus to keep that idealized image of him or her, at least at the beginning. Over time, the Neptune person might feel pressured to meet that ideal image, and vaguely worried that he or she won't be able to measure up. There is a tolerant energy between the two, and that can be extremely pleasurable. If the Neptune person feels like he or she is not loved for who he or she really IS, problems can erupt. Even more problems arise when the Venus person begins to make excuses for his or her Neptune partner's real traits, in order to reconcile and perpetuate the romantic ideal he or she assigned Neptune from the very beginning. The Neptune person generally doesn't want to hurt the Venus native, but he or she may begin to back off in subtle ways if he or she feels too much pressure to fit Venus' image of him or her. Neptune may literally "fade away" and leave Venus feeling unsatisfied, hurt, and wondering what the heck happened! The main problem with this configuration is projecting an ideal lover onto the partner, and feeling let down when reality enters the picture, or when Neptune "escapes" by retreating further and further away. If, however, this configuration is expressed more realistically, and Venus simply enjoys looking past Neptune's faults without experiencing let-down, then this combination works best.

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posted November 12, 2013 03:21 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Are these relationships that you shouldn't have and you know that person is a danger/bad for you but yet you still continue to see them because the love is out of this world. An example would be a teacher/student relationship.

I've also had a neptunian relationship his Venus aspected my Jupiter, my Jupiter is in the 12th, he also has Venus/Neptune natally. These relationships are beautiful but often tragic

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Im new to astrology and im not sure if i experienced a neptunian relationship where my planets aspected her Neptune.

Tho i got a very fresh experience (read 1 week old) with this woman at work..
We first met at a meeting a couple of months ago and now she arrived in my town again and will be working at my office for some time ahead. So we have been flirting a bit and eventually had lunch last monday.

This weekend i made the misstake to meet up with her at the office to discuss some topics and ofcourse one thing led to another..

For two days i was under a rain of text messages from her, she was telling me how much she enjoyed my company and all kind of naughty stuff she wants to do with me.
Last evening i felt like i was being drowned under her emotions so i asked her to take a step back. I thought she would be upset but she responded with an OK and that she gave me the "ball" to contact her when i felt for it. It lasted well for about 12 hours and then it was back to buisness as usual.

The first problem with this is that she is married and have 3 children with her husband.
The second problem is that the initial attraction i felt for her is now washed down the drain, along with all the affection she has been trying to drain this neptunian illusion with.

Even if i had checked our synastry before all of this, im not sure i could ever have imagined what madness it would turn into. Our aspects, my planets is in left column:

Neptune Conjunction Neptune Orb 2°46'
Neptune Trine Mercury Orb 1°44'
Neptune Trine Saturn Orb 3°10'
Neptune Trine Moon Orb 3°37'
AS Sextile Neptune Orb 1°26'
Neptune BiQuintile Sun Orb 0°01'

And by the way. I met my sisters boyfriends sister for the first time this summer. The sister was with her boyfriend at this party but gave me the strangest vibes.
We met again some weeks ago and it was the same thing again.
I had to check our synastry and i can tell you that next time i meet her, with my co-worker fresh in memory, i will run the other way..

This is the only conjuncts we have (me to the left again):