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Topic: Crabby people
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Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 11, 2013 01:11 AM
  
I can be soo moody.
This is a common Lunar trait, right?
The Moon is prominent, in my chart.Anyways I feel bad for my loved ones...At least once a day I can get in these moods where I want complete solitude in my own thoughts and don't want to listen to a story or answer a question..
Oh and gods help the person who decides to nag me at that moment.... When I'm stuck in some interaction I begin to get really irritable and unpleasant, eye rolls, gritting my teeth, death stares, more eye rolls, quick and decisive replies to get the conversation over with. I'm never get mean spirited or personal but still sensitive people take it personally.
Even people that have known me for years take it personally... but I usually apologize after I realize what a prick I was and begin too smooth things over. I noticed Cancerian's can deal with this, especially Cancer moon!
Scorpio moons too.
They just roll their eyes too and leave me alone. Perfect. Sometimes I feel like the only crabby person in the world.. no one is ever irritable with me.
Or maybe it's because I don't annoy people, not that they're particularly annoying themselves.
Maybe it's because I can tell when people want to be left alone.. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 11, 2013 01:19 AM
Gemini influenced right? It's all those nerves. I have Gemini ASC, and Mars in Gemini (conj. my ASC. Very pleasant.. not.) I'm high strung all the time and that kind of abrasiveness (Mercury in Aries) is natural for me. It takes a conscious effort for me to be patient with people and calm and collected which I must say I've mastered.IP: Logged |
bethbabe
Knowflake Posts: 401
From: CA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted November 11, 2013 01:23 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
I can be soo moody.
This is a common Lunar trait, right?
The Moon is prominent, in my chart.Anyways I feel bad for my loved ones...At least once a day I can get in these moods where I want complete solitude in my own thoughts and don't want to listen to a story or answer a question..
Oh and gods help the person who decides to nag me at that moment.... When I'm stuck in some interaction I begin to get really irritable and unpleasant, eye rolls, gritting my teeth, death stares, more eye rolls, quick and decisive replies to get the conversation over with. I'm never get mean spirited or personal but still sensitive people take it personally.
Even people that have known me for years take it personally... but I usually apologize after I realize what a prick I was and begin too smooth things over. I noticed Cancerian's can deal with this, especially Cancer moon!
Scorpio moons too.
They just roll their eyes too and leave me alone. Perfect. Sometimes I feel like the only crabby person in the world.. no one is ever irritable with me.
Or maybe it's because I don't annoy people, not that they're particularly annoying themselves.
Maybe it's because I can tell when people want to be left alone..
Yes! I am a typical cancer moon....i get very moody very fast lol. i also get overwhelmed by things easily, let's say someone tells me a sad story, i will literally imagine myself as a part of the story and absorb every emotion. i also think that cancer mooners are empaths i just absorb everything in and let that affect us! maybe that's the reason why?? IP: Logged |
bethbabe
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From: CA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted November 11, 2013 01:25 AM
and to quote hanna,do you have a lot of planets in fire signs??? i've heard that a lot of fire placements can make impatience.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 44
From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 11, 2013 01:25 AM
There's a woman at work. Actually, I know people can be very different at work. I'm not sure what planets play a role there. Moon/Mercury/Mars maybe? Anyway, I don't know her Asc but she's Sag sun, Leo moon, Scorp Mercury and Venus. Libra Mars. Holy s**t she's crabby! She lives in a world of crabby! She watches everybody else, just moans and complains, and tells people what they're doing wrong. She's FULL of eye rolls and head shakes.
I'm actually amused by it, unlike several others.
She's on another shift but our shift has a "thing" about her. One day I was working on something. She walks up in her natural crabby mood. "You better make sure you cut that straight or it's not going to work."
I was very cool and relaxed. I said, "Okay." She didn't like that, figuring that I didn't take her seriously.
She leaned down, stuck her head out like a chicken to put it in my direct view and said, "Do you think I'm Sh*ttin' you?!?"
Again, totally relaxed, I just looked at her. "No." So now we go around sticking our heads out to each other, "Do you think I'm sh*ttin' you?!?" One day she was part of a group conversation and this guy Jack looked at me and said, "Do you think she's sh*ttin' you??" It was so hilarious and Mrs. Crabby didn't pick up on it at all. LOL IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 44
From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 11, 2013 01:27 AM
USUALLY, when others are cranky I just get amused because it's like: What's the point? If I get crabby also what does that accomplish? LOLIP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 11, 2013 01:32 AM
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Originally posted by bethbabe:
and to quote hanna,do you have a lot of planets in fire signs??? i've heard that a lot of fire placements can make impatience.
Lol, yes indeed. Sun, Mercury, Venus in Aries.
Mars conj. the ASC
And my 11H stellium (the Aries stuff) square my Capricorn stellium in the 7H (Capricorn is another cardinal sign, so it adds extra cardinal energy imo.) IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 11, 2013 01:36 AM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
There's a woman at work. Actually, I know people can be very different at work. I'm not sure what planets play a role there. Moon/Mercury/Mars maybe? Anyway, I don't know her Asc but she's Sag sun, Leo moon, Scorp Mercury and Venus. Libra Mars. Holy s**t she's crabby! She lives in a world of crabby! She watches everybody else, just moans and complains, and tells people what they're doing wrong. She's FULL of eye rolls and head shakes.
I'm actually amused by it, unlike several others.
She's on another shift but our shift has a "thing" about her. One day I was working on something. She walks up in her natural crabby mood. "You better make sure you cut that straight or it's not going to work."
I was very cool and relaxed. I said, "Okay." She didn't like that, figuring that I didn't take her seriously.
She leaned down, stuck her head out like a chicken to put it in my direct view and said, "Do you think I'm Sh*ttin' you?!?"
Again, totally relaxed, I just looked at her. "No." So now we go around sticking our heads out to each other, "Do you think I'm sh*ttin' you?!?" One day she was part of a group conversation and this guy Jack looked at me and said, "Do you think she's sh*ttin' you??" It was so hilarious and Mrs. Crabby didn't pick up on it at all. LOL
I got a kick out of this. Hilarious. I can see why she comes off crabby… Fire and Water, Leo likes to be BOSS and be noticed for being BOSS and Sag is too direct to care how they come off. I wonder if we can narrow down complaining to signs? In any case, work matters would be 6th or 11th house issue… so Mercury or Saturn / Uranus. IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted November 11, 2013 01:40 AM
I think it's not really to accomplish anything. Sometimes people just want to let their feelings/moods out. Like crying when they get upset, ranting/venting ...etc..---
I have mood swings, I guess it comes from my earth influence. Most of the time I keep my cool, when I feel crabby I want to be alone.
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DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 44
From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 11, 2013 01:46 AM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
I think it's not really to accomplish anything. Sometimes people just want to let their feelings/moods out. Like crying when they get upset, ranting/venting ...etc..---
I have mood swings, I guess it comes from my earth influence. Most of the time I keep my cool, when I feel crabby I want to be alone.
Yes. I do have mood swings but it goes internal. I just become very quiet, even when irritated. Even when someone "bothers" me with conversation. I just stay very quiet, short replies - boring and uninteresting - figuring that they'll go away after a short period of time. If pushed and pushed and I let it out - run. Run far away. Because once it starts it doesn't stop until *I* decide it stops. IP: Logged |
themischievousone
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posted November 11, 2013 01:51 AM
Gemini moon, cancer asc - queen of the eye roll and moody lmao. IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted November 11, 2013 02:06 AM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Yes. I do have mood swings but it goes internal. I just become very quiet, even when irritated. Even when someone "bothers" me with conversation. I just stay very quiet, short replies - boring and uninteresting - figuring that they'll go away after a short period of time. If pushed and pushed and I let it out - run. Run far away. Because once it starts it doesn't stop until *I* decide it stops.
I'm similar, most of the time it goes internal. When I'm stuck in conversation, I try to act the best I can - I come off fake as hell but people don't care they just keep talking lol. Whenever I feel my mood sours, I apologize to loved ones beforehand, just in case.
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moonlightx
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posted November 11, 2013 02:12 AM
I'm can be very moody unfortunately.One moment I may want to chat, the next I want to be left alone so I isolate myself. Can't stand it when someone tries to chat me up when I'm in a "mood." Fortunately, I know my triggers so I can try to avoid snapping at people. Cancer ASC, Gemini moon IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6875
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 11, 2013 05:42 AM
Some people mentioned moon in gemini.. HmmmIt could be a mix of mercury and Lunar energy. I'm not really snappy with strangers.
if I'm working then I'm working....
I can deal with someone breathing down my neck if I'm getting $$$$ lol.
Seldom do I snap at work unless they deserve my fury. That's just my mars coming out.
Though if someone is being innocently annoying, I just freeze them away with my icy disposition. No need for confrontation. IP: Logged |
Liliya
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Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 11, 2013 10:31 AM
The crabbiest, rolling-eyes person (ohhh, I hate when she does it!!!) I know is my friend Aries Sun/Moon, Pisces Merc/Venus and Taurus Mars. She can be such a smart ass, moody, crabby person, but I still love her hahaIP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 11, 2013 02:22 PM
Since when do you ever get crabby?IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 11, 2013 02:26 PM
Ha ha ha.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6875
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 11, 2013 02:27 PM
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Originally posted by Liliya:
The crabbiest, rolling-eyes person (ohhh, I hate when she does it!!!) I know is my friend Aries Sun/Moon, Pisces Merc/Venus and Taurus Mars. She can be such a smart ass, moody, crabby person, but I still love her haha
This is me but add unnecessary amounts of sarcasm. IP: Logged |
Liliya
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posted November 11, 2013 02:40 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
This is me but add unnecessary amounts of sarcasm.
YESSS! How could I forget. She's the Queen of sarcasm  and she's always right, almost like Aqua Suns and Moons But still, I love my Aries friends, and the heat they bring into my life! IP: Logged |
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